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Friend making a move on a guy I really like.
14/F
There's this guy. We'll call him "joe" And there's my friend, we'll call her "kara." I've like Joe since this summer, and we've become great friends and we've been talking a lot and we text everyday. I admitted that I liked him Friday night, because I couldn't hold it in anymore, and I knew he already knew, so I would feel better if I told him. Well, he came over for my birthday on the 23rd, and my friend Kara and another girl were here, but he left around 9. Me & the other girl went to bed around 12 or 1, and Kara called Joe and stayed on the phone until 4 am. Well I found out about this he next morning, because she told me. Kara invited Joe over saturday night, but my grandma wasn't home, so I made up excuses as to why he couldn't come. He did finally come though, but he came to my window, which were luckily nailed down, because I didn't want guys in the house while no one was home. So when my grandma did get home, they left and we went to eat, and they came back later that night to my window. Kara wanted to unnail them and I told her I didn't know where the hammers were, so she went to look for them. (but we keep them where she wouldn't think to look) So they stayed at the window until 5 am talking to us, and I made them leave because my grandpa would be up in a few minutes. Well Joe called my cell as they were leaving, but I was already asleep. (I was tired) So Kara answers and stayed on the phone until 7 am. then they came over Sunday and we hung out for most of the day. (my grandma was home) But I could tell Kara likes him, and I don't know what to do, because everyone can tell that Kara likes him. She's gorgeous, and can get anyone she wants. And they've talked everyday since last Sunday, almost more than me and him. When I told him I liked him, he said he likes me, but that I was like a sister, so it would be awkward dating me & that I was too young for him. I convinced him that I wasn't too young for him. (2 years) He was going to explain what he meant by "liking me, but that I was like a sister so it would be awkward dating me" meant, but he was extremely sick last night and couldn't really talk. And when I told him I liked him, Kara was on the phone with him. I just have no idea what to do, because I don't want to keep him from being happy, but I don't want to lose him to Kara. They've known each other a week.
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I know the feeling of liking someone that isn't sure what they want. with me i liked this guy who "obviously" liked me back . we've been freinds like forever and now we are really close. he hugs me and puts his arm arouund me and flirts all the time. but i told him that i like him, he said he cant commit or watever but still flirts and stuff. but honestly i dont wanna make you sad or put you down but you need to talk to him. and the chances are he only wants to be friends because you are like a sister to him. i hate it when this happens. i wish i could just go up to the guy and say "you love me!!!! you wanna be with me!!!" but it doesnt work that way. and as for your friend maybe you should also talk to her. ask her if she likes him. tell her that you do to. and sweetie if he doesnt want to go out with you, or would rather go out with her, then you have to face it. and you have to get over him. its the only way out. otherwise you will get all obsessed and/or depressed and nobody should get all worked up over a guy. some people are better off as friends and there is someone out there for everyone. look at me i was all confused and sad until i forced myself to get over my friend and now i just see him as a friend. i let go of the feelings, and of the pain. its the hardest thing to do. but the worst thing is to hold on to a guy that doesnt feel the same about you. i hope this helps and if you need anything send me a message or ask for my AIM and we can talk.
with love,
SAM~ =)
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