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My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
E-mail: mandyyx33@hotmail.com
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Okay, i've been having weird period cycle's.. at the beginning of the year i was having periods around the end of the month the 25th or 27th then they started earlier like the 15th every month for a few months well.. just last month and the month before i had my period around the 6th.. well today is the 10th and i haven't started my period yet! I don't understand this. I'm 17 and i feel like a dork. I have had sex before just to let you know.. last month about a week after my period well i'm pretty sure i'm not pregnant because i took a test and i'm not. But, i still don't understand why my period hasn't come yet..? I know this is probably weird but i'm having all my normal symptoms as usual.. i'm eating a lot more like i always do before my period and i'm eating chocolate "alot" and that's always before my period.. but i haven't started yet? This has been going on for like a week now. Everysense i've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months my like has been stressed with so much stuff.. do you think thats whats causing it? Stress? Or is my body just not normal..? Could someone help me please..!? (link)
it sounds like ur periods arent normal yet. after awhile they will come wen u think their comin it takes time for them to get normal! n im sure ur totally fine!hope i could help! leave one in tha inbox if u wanna talk. xo`amanda


what r soem good truth or dares that i can play w. guys.. n girls!!?? (link)
play 7 minutes in heaven. spin tha bottle. kiss sum1.the nervous game( you can IM to figure out how to play it blondii14697)
xo`amanda


hey i just ordered contacts.. im gettin them the 23rd =)) but n e ways.. i need some info on what and what not to do with them in ur eyes that the docter doesnt tell me.. please help.. =)

lilcutie910 (link)
DONt sleep wit them in! and dont play around wit them to much bcuz they mite start to fall out of ur eyes.


Alrighty... I'm going to ask you guys for your opinion of this situation I am in. My parents aren't close.... At all. They're basically room mates, and not even anymore since my dad JUST got this taveling job. This is like his 2nd month. Anyway, my parents have always faught. Since I could remember. I remember being like 7 and having to tell my crying brother and sister that mommy and daddy are okay, they're just a little mad at eachother. Ya know? So the fighting doenst bother me at all anymore... Kinda annoying... But doesn't bother me. Well, my mom does love my dad. But my dad rather be a jerk to her at times. Really bad. My mom is so emotionally wrecked but this its nuts. My mom and I are very close... Very. She tells me EVERYTHING. So.. Im going to get to my problem thing. It goes back to when i was like 9 (I'm now 14)... My dad was away on business for about a month or so, and my mom had an affair. The thing was she told me right then, and there. Which I totally respect because not very many parents can be that truthful. My siblings were too young to even get what an affair was so she just told me until my sister was old enough. Anyway, I saw the way he treated my mom for that month or so... and I thought... Hey she's happy. You all have no idea the stuff that my dad puts my mom through. But I was kind of uncomfortable. I wouldn't talk to her lover. I don't remember if he knew I knew. But he always wondered why I wasnt as close ti him as my bro and sis. But we moved away. And my mom talked about him for a while and still does here and there. So it was back to my mom, and my dad... Fighting, arguing, and unhappy. For a while. My mom became super depressed. And even I, for sometimes she'd vent by expressing her thoughts and feelings with me. So I was kind of upset. But dude, I'm like 14... Kind of hard to understand all the way. But yeah... So my dad took this travel job, and my mom has always, always, always been suspocous of him cheating... (lol hmm)... Anyway, My mom has this friend here. And I always thought something was between them... But my mom ALWAYS told me they were just friends. Until tonight he came over (my dads away), But he told my mom the kids had to be in bed. My mom knew I was up... She just told me to be quiet while he was here. Sooo... They talked and stuff and after he left my mom wanted to talk to me. And we talked about me for a while then we talked about her and her friend. She was telling me how her friend made her so happy and that he noticed my mom lost alot of weight, but my dad never said anything... And things that her friend did that my dad doesnt... So I was like... Okay... she's just looking for a friend. It's cool it makes her happy. And then she told me about an argument my dad and her had before he left about how my dad treats her, and how she was going to have sex with someone new. And my mom told me how she was taking about it with my sister. And yeah put 2 and 2 together... So I don't know what to do, or even what to think. I'm kinda immune to like getting mad about it.. I just don't think I like him... But I want to know everyones oppinion or what you think I should do. I mean I bet you're like.. wow.. you should go on jerry springer... lol, no, but really... I dunno why they don't devorce. My mom does care about my dad so much but I guess shes sick of the hurt and abuse.... LOL hmm yeah... What do you all think? (link)
Im realli sorry that youve had to go thru this since it started at such a young age. If i was you i would talk to both ur parents at tha same time and ask them to get a divorce bcuz things arent workin out like they shuld and its jus hurtin tha family! Hope things get better if u needa talk more jus drop one n my inbox xo`amanda


I have a lot of cool sayings in my profile. Most in whick I made up. Every time I look at me friends profile, she has all my same sayings in mine. I get so frusterated! Now, she just IMed me witrh her advice colum user name and it is almost the same as mine! Should I tell her how I feel? Please, I need help fast! (link)
you should tell her how u feel. tell her that u dont like hows shes copyin u and mayb she should think of sum things on her own because u dont like how everything is tha same as ur stuff that she has in her profile or for her advice colum name! hope i could help! xo`amanda


Okay well my ex boyfriend and I were dating for 9 months. Then he dumped me on our 9th month annerversary. I was so depressed. And to top it all off thats the day i sent out invitations to my 13th birthday party and he was invited. But anyways. I was so upset he dumped me cuz he liked another girl. I mean he never has had a chance to go out with her so far but its close. I still really like him, but im not sure if i should tell him or not bcuz he likes this other grl that he dumped me for...((which she has a boyfriend)) he tells me this grl likes him too though. Can u do that? Like someone else when ur already going out with someone? But i guess wut im trying to ask is... should i tell him i like him? cuz if he doesnt like me wouldnt he tell all his lil friends?? idk wut to do plz help me!!! (link)
ok...its totally ok for u to like sum1 else if ur in a relationship alotta ppl do it. I think you should tell him how you feel bcuz it sounds like ur ex doesnt really have that big of a chance to go out wit this new grl bcuz she has a bf. and if shes likes him she would have broken up wit her bf by now. Hope i could help. if u needa talk u can IM me on blondii14697 or u can leave one n my inbox
xo`amanda


I have a long time friend who has turned.....slutty. She doesn't think anything that she is doing is wrong at all. How do I get her back to well.....her? What do I say or do? (link)
Tell her that wut she is doin IS wrong. tell her to look in the mirror and c how much shes changed. Have a long conversation n then say sumthin like I miss the old you and leave her wit sumthin to think about. Hopefully it works if not im sorry!


It seems like hoops are going out of style, am I right? (link)
kind of. but sum people still wear them. Hoops r mostly popular durin tha skool year but im really not sure.


well my friend went out with this kid for 1 day, but then they broke up cuz they lived too far away from eachother. now i like him and i live the same distance and i dont know if its right to like him....? help please...!?! (link)
ok its totally fine for you to like him. Long distance relationships can work if u realli love eachother and your willing to do it. Tell your friend you have feelings for the guy if she really liked the guy then tell her that if she doesnt want u goin out wit him then dont go out wit him give it sumtime. because u dont wanna lose a friend. hope i could help!=]
xo`amanda


I'm starting a new school as a sophmore on the 16th of this month where I don't know anybody! In my old school I was semi*popular! I want to be very popular in my new school. Do you think that it is possible for the "new kid" to be popular? Anyone have any advice on how I can do that? Or if you look up to someone or know someone popular....can u tell me what makes them popular. Anything would help. Thanks a bunch! Kisses! -*-me-*- (link)
anything is possible. Just b realli outgoing and dont b shy to walk up to people and start a conversation. Once every1 gets used to u then youll make friends easily. Hope everything works out for you. Hope i could help! =]


im 13/f never made out with a guy and i feel so...unloved lol! is there sumthin wrong with me? where did i go wrong?!? (link)
Im 13.Theres nothin wrong wit you!. and you didnt go wrong. Its just not time for u to make out yet you will kno wen the right time comes. Not every1 makes out early some people dont even make out till their 16.hope i could help. if u needa talk more you can Im me blondii14697


When waz ur first kiss? (link)
my first kiss was wen i was 11 so many memories.


What the hell does IDK mean? (link)
idk means i dont know


Hey...I'm not very good at making friends, any Ideas? (link)
to make friends b outgoing start talking to people basically just b out there! if u want more advice leave sumthin in my inbox


Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do (link)
dont do things just because ur best friend did it. Peer pressure is hard but when your ready to make out then u make out but till then dont do it bcuz ur friend did it. hope i could help!


How do u burn music on to a cd?? (link)
well first of all u need a cd burner,blank cds,and a progam that u download songs onto sum programs r limewire..windows media player...kazaa etc. you can also go to download.com and look for sum sites to download music on. hope i could help!


i love rock/punk...i'm always looking for new stuff to listen to. can anyone name a few bands for me? (link)
some good bands r...
Ac/Dc, Blink 182, Dashboard Confessional, Switchfoot,Takin back sunday, yellowcard,linkin park


Ok, well i have this friend who always tells rumers about me! i hate it and i always tell her how i feel, but everytime i tell her she goes and tells another rumer! what should i do?! help me please!
signed.
Losing a friend? (link)
if she was a true friend she deff. wouldnt start rumors. I think that you should tell her that u dont wanna be friends wit her nemore if shes gonna treat u like that.


ok...i need help!!! lyk in the movire thirteen...the girl tracy and her mom dont get along and lyk i sorta dont get along with my mom...and we fight over lyk the stupidest things and im just afraid that me and my mom are gonna fight as bad as tracy and her mom...and i never ever want that to happen!!!! also, im afraid the peer pressure is gona get me into drugs and sex and lyk smoking...and im sooo scared and i dont want that to happen AT ALL!!!! this sucks balls. (link)
i saw the movie and i kno wut u mean! i used to have the same problem..you need to spend more time with ur mom..wen u fight think is this realli wut we should be doing..and y r we fightin ova sumthin as stupid as this...tha best way not to do all that stuff is not to hang out wit ppl that do that...i took the wrong decision n now im stuck in alotta stuff...hope i could help! if u needa talk more u can im me [ blondii14697]
xo`amanda


My dad smokes a lot every day and it really bothers me and my mom and brother but mostly me. We all tell him to stop and he's always like "I will tomorrow or next week or after this and that"
And I always have to remind him to open the door or window when he's near me while he smokes...I mean he doesn't do it 24-7 and he knows when to draw the line sometimes, but it bothers me and I know he's ruining his health...not to metion I think he's ruining mine too! I suddenly can't run laps at school without me stoping breathing and it bothers me b/c it never seems like he cares...my mom stuck to her word about quitting after our cruise and I know its addicting but I want him to stop should I like hide his cigarrets from him or throw them out? What should I do? Plz help I will rate! (ps...it's embarrassing when he leaves his smokes out with the ashtray b/c my friends don't like it either :o!) (link)
ive had the same problem before. My friends didnt like it either. We used to gather all his ciggarettes every1 one of them and flush them down the toilet.You could try to get him to smoke less every day until hes not smokin anymore. Keep him doing something so he doesnt smoke as much.




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