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Confused with my Ex
Okay well my ex boyfriend and I were dating for 9 months. Then he dumped me on our 9th month annerversary. I was so depressed. And to top it all off thats the day i sent out invitations to my 13th birthday party and he was invited. But anyways. I was so upset he dumped me cuz he liked another girl. I mean he never has had a chance to go out with her so far but its close. I still really like him, but im not sure if i should tell him or not bcuz he likes this other grl that he dumped me for...((which she has a boyfriend)) he tells me this grl likes him too though. Can u do that? Like someone else when ur already going out with someone? But i guess wut im trying to ask is... should i tell him i like him? cuz if he doesnt like me wouldnt he tell all his lil friends?? idk wut to do plz help me!!!
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There are a few reasons why you should not tell him that you like him and just try to get over him.
1)because he already broke up with you for another girl.
2)because he is rude enough to try to go for a girl who already has a boyfriend
3)because you think he might go and tell all his friends that you like him
If he already broke up with you for someone else, then he doesn't deserve you. Let him go after the girl with a boyfriend, and let him fail many times.
If he's going after a girl that has a boyfriend, that is incredubly disrespectful to that girls boyfriend.
And, If you even think that he might go tell his friends that you like him, then he is very immature and downright mean.
From what you have said he sounds like a jerk and does not deserve you.
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well i would def. tell him that u still have feeligs for him...i mean since the girl he lyks is goin out with another guy if he knos u still lyk him he might realize that ur the girl for him! also he could have just dumped you becasue he needed a break...9 months is a long time for a couple your age! sit down and talk to him about it...and if he doesnt still have feelings for you...o well...at leats he knows how u feel about him!
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ok...its totally ok for u to like sum1 else if ur in a relationship alotta ppl do it. I think you should tell him how you feel bcuz it sounds like ur ex doesnt really have that big of a chance to go out wit this new grl bcuz she has a bf. and if shes likes him she would have broken up wit her bf by now. Hope i could help. if u needa talk u can IM me on blondii14697 or u can leave one n my inbox
xo`amanda
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Hey!!! Ok, it sounds to me that he's not really good enough for you. I can tell you really cared about him and ya'll had a great thing. Maybe you just need to move on and find someone else. He's probably just making stuff up about this girl to make you jealous. I don't think that if she is still with her b/f then i don't think she really even likes him. I know that wasn't the best advice, but I tried... I hope I helped and everything works out for you!!! ~*~KaLi~*~
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aw, you sound like you really like him. im sorry, but i dont think you should tell him. this sounds like the breakup wasnt that long ago too. when he broke up with you, he most likely didnt have feelings for you anymore..i mean he liked someone else too. sometimes liking other people happens when ur already w/ someone, its happened to me, and u just need to accept it. he still could have told his friends, his friends just mite not have told you, or they dont want to hurt you. its time to move on from him..there's so many others. i hope i helped, good luck <3
x00o gina <3
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