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people around wher i live wear a lot of hollister and abercrombie and stuff and i like it but im wondering why everyone wears it i rate 5s and i rate high
Some people wear it because its expensive and it shows that the person has money. Some wear it because its trendy and they want to fit in. Some people wear some stuff from there because they think its cute. Now I personally own things from there, but its just what I think is cute. I also shop at lots of other stores, and don't limit myself to them.
PS. American eagle is way better =) and its less expensive.
What is the differnce between fabric transfers and t-shirt transfers? In a craft store, there were those 2 hanging on the wall and I needed to buy one to put on my cotton shorts, but i couldn't decide. If this makes any difference, for t-shirt trasfers you could get 10 for 5 dollars, but with fabric transfers only 5 for 10 dollars. I'm putting them on cotton soffe shorts. So, whats the difference?
Well, I'm not sure, but I'm guessing fabric transfers are made for heavier more durable fabric such as denim. The tshirt transfers should be made for cotton or similar fabric. Read on the back the warnings and stuff, and that should let you know for sure, but I bet a t shirt transfer would work on your shorts since they are made of cotton.
Ok so my hair is brown, really thick, a little past my shoulders and wavy/curly. The only problem is, I don't know how to style it. Usually I'd straighten it, but now that it's summer, I'm too lazy to lol, plus the humidity would just make it frizz like CRAZY. What are some good products that are like "curl enhancing" or whatever. I've tried using a ton of those but they don't work very well [the ones I used] Whenever I try to let my hair just dry naturally, there's always something that makes me just put it up in a ponytail instead, like frizziness or it's too poofy. But I'd really like to wear it down once it a while. So what are some good products for that? Thank youu :]
Okay, this is how I do my hair curly for summer. I brush my hair when I'm in the shower, but once the water turns off, don't brush it, because it will lose clumpyness and will frizz. Then, squeeze a dime to quarter sized blob of Aquage Transforming paste in your hand, then about the same amount of Aquage Defining Gel. Rub together to mix, and then scrunch your hair , maybe flipping your head upside down to get all of your hair. make sure to really scrunch at the roots. Maybe twirl the pieces of hair around your face around your finger to give them great curl. Then, depending on how your hair behaves, you can sleep on it, let it air dry, or if your hair is fickle or you're in a hurry, you can blow dry with a diffuser attachment. Dry on the highest heat with the lowest speed. If you have any more questions you can always leave one in my inbox. =)
Oh, and both products can be found in salons or ordered off the internet, just google it.
uhm i am wondering.. how do you know when your breast stop growing?
and i have another question but it is okay if you dont answer it when did your breast stop growing?
Did it hurt when it was growing?
Your boobs stop growing somewhere around age 18-20
Uh I guess they haven't, since I'll be 16 in 2 weeks, but I hope they have, considering I'm a 36D haha. Yeah.
Mine never hurt. I guess some girls get tender, and others hurt around their period. But mine never did.
i am going to a panic! at the disco concert soon. and i want to make a shirt that says something witty and funny... i dont want to quote one of their songs though. what are some cute quotes, sayings, words, etc.... that i could use?
I panic for panic.
(Name)! at the disco
(Name)! at the concert
My heart belongs to Panic
Marry Me Brendon! (lead singer)
Brendon makes me panic (I'm gonna assume you are a girl because you said cute haha)
Brendon Urie sings me to sleep
P!atd is love
Brendon makes me sweat (king of song quote)
I made out with panic! at the disco and all I got were free concert tickets
I'll never sweat out the fever (cd title)
Exactly where p!atd wants me (kind of quote)
Burlesque Queen (from a song)
P!atd has the hotter touch (song)
I shake it up for Panic(song)
Brendon's Trophy Wife(song)
P!atd Makes my teen heart beat faster, faster(song)
I know you said you didn't want song quotes, but I personalized them for the concert, so I hope you like them.
You can replace Brendon with whoever you like from the band.
Have fun!
can you use hydrogen peroxide that you buy from like walmart, to bleach your hair? will it hurt your hair at all? how do you actually do the process, if you can?
Bad Idea. It won't turn out, and will fry your hair, trust me. I would suggest going to a salon for something like that, but if you HAVE to do it at home, Get an at home dye kit.
Ok I was wondering if anyone had some very cute screenname ideas that I could use. Something that uses the words "bamm" or "Rad" or something really cute. I`m also a female so I hope that helps thanks ! =] I don`t want anything old that uses words like "eva" & words like that.
OhSoRad
RadxxName
UhOh its Name
xo Bamm
Bamm Im Rad
(Name)asaurus
(name)arama
(Name)isChaos
HeckyeahxImrad
WOAHitsName
I want to get my cartilage pierced. How old do you have to be? And does it matter how old you are if you have your parents permission? And does it hurt more then just getting your first hole in your ear pierced? What does the pain feel like?
I don't think it matters if you have your parents permission. I got mine done when I was 12. I'm not good with pain, and it wasn't that bad. When its actually getting pierced, it doesn't hurt AT ALL. Like, its seriously has no pain going through your ear. But later on that day, Mine started hurting. It was bad enough where I couldn't touch it too roughly, and I couldn't sleep on that side of my face, or talk on the phone on that side. But it only lasts for a couple days, and it gets better as it goes on. Over all, its not terrible. My best friend who got it done with me, It hurt her going in, like a hard pinch she said, but after, she didn't hurt at all. So everybodys different I guess, but I've never heard someone say it was too bad.
About a week ago, me and one of my best friends went to the beach which is about 4 hours from our city. We were in the water and we saw this guy surfing and he did good so we just complimented him and that was it. Or so we though. we didnt figure we'd see him any more. So we went in about 20 min later back in our hotel (which was on the shore) and went in the pool. and turns out that boy...lets call him Ian, stays at our hotel, is our age, is extremly gorgeous, and has ALOT! in common with me. Well aparently he was visiting with his dad and his dad took him to the beach as a surprise. And his dad lives only like 45-60 min away from where we live.The last day he was at the hotel, he wanted to meet up in the mornign for breakfast to say bye, but my cell phone got shut off the night before, so we couldnt call him to figure out what time to be there, so i figure he thought we ditched him.any way. He told me he was leaving for his moms like early early early july.(she lives like 4 states away). I want to call him off my moms fone, or ask him if he wants to hang before he leaves, because i realllllly like him. and he wont be back at his dads for like 8 months. But if i called him off my moms fone, i dont want him to think somthing like "wow she must really like me if she went through the trouble of finding some one elses fone to call, shes a but pushy, i dont like her like that." But i want to see him before he leaves, because if he goes then i'll miss my chance. and i might never see him. SO how do i ask him to hang with out being real obvious or too pushy? i really wanna see him. What could we do, thats not really flirty?
Also, i looked at his myspace and hes friends with all of these really pretty girls that are like models with alot of make up and perfect hair/face/bodies. and hes not dating them. SO it makes me wonder, if he dont even wanna date these models, what would he ever see in me?( im just average)
IDK, help please. I wanna stop him and see him before he leaves! or im going to regret this for ever!
SOrry its long. if this confuses you any let me know, and ill clear it up so you can understand better.
Don't worry about looking pushy! Thats not being pushy, trust me. Just call him up and say "hey my cell phone got shut off, and i didn't want you to think we ditched you" and go from there. Ask him to hang out before he leaves. And don't second guess yourself! Who says you aren't as good or better than these "models" ?! You are just self concious, like every other girl on the planet! But guys find confidence in girls a major turn on! So stop putting yourself down!
Good luck! If you need anything else, leave one in my inbox!
i like this kid, but then again i like his bestfriend . . i been switchen on and off with them and i dont know which one to like . what would you do in a situation like this ? please help
It's really a decision that only you know how to make. Maybe weigh out the pros and cons of each of them. Or spend separate time between them, and after, decide which one you enjoy being with the most. But you can't keep switching. Because if they both like you back, soon they are gonna realize what you are doing isn't fair, and leave you and you will be left with no one. Trust me, I've seen it happen many times. And if they don't like you back, or you don't know, then they won't want to date you if you keep changing your mind on them. So choose one, and just go for it!
I need a song about a girl that is dating a guy but loves another guy.. I already got Dilemma by nelly feat kelly..I would perfer a rock song or something..
I also need a song about a girl who loves this guy but he won't take her back but still loves her..
tahnks in advance!
Lips of an angel- Hinder, its from a guys point of view, but He has a girl, but this other girl is still calling him and he hasn't moved on from her.
And unfaithful- rhianna. Thats about a girl who has a boyfriend but she loves this other guy and cheats with him
Thats all I can think of
How do you know when to consider someone your boyfriend or consider yourself someone's girlfriend?
Boyfriend and Girlfriend are just labels. But really, I only consider it official when I have talked about it with a guy, because if you start calling him your boyfriend, and he doesn't see it that way, it may freak him out. So bring it up in conversation, like ask, What would you call us? or so Are we official? and that should get you an answer.
I can't seem to reach any of you, but I'm hoping you'd help me further. (question: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=435498) You all raised the question of "If you don't have a reason not to trust him, than go for". Actually, I do.
After everything I told you about went down (before school ended), I mustered up the courage to ask him to his face. And he said that he knew I had liked him. I asked him who told him, and he took about 5 minutes, and said the name of one of my best friends (who supposedly told him constantly). I already covered this part in the previous section, but it makes me believe he's lying. He also said that he just didn't want to go out with anyone. Another time, he said to my face, that he didn't have any crushes, etc. So, he could be lying. And, he's extremely shy, if I didn't mention.
A little background info:
Tiger has had a girlfriend before (he only went out with her because she liked him so much), and she was absolutely obsessed and called him everyday. So they broke up. Hmm.?!
Also, in the beginning of the year, as I said, I had a crush on Tiger, and lost interest. Well, in the beginning of the year, I'm pretty sure he found out, which was one of the reasons I lost interest.
So, I can't really tell what he's talking about.
Hehe, this probably doesn't make sense. But, I need help understanding this.
So, if I can send a question to your box, please let me know, or answer here. oR whatever. lol, gosh.
Thanks again,
Lily
Well. I still think that it sounds like he likes you. Don't be suffocating because we already know he doesn't like that. Show him that you're interested by being flirty, but don't follow him around or anything. And also, tell your best friend not to keep telling him so often. And you said he was shy, so him saying he didn't have any crushes makes good sense. He was just too shy. So go for it! Just flirt around with him, see what happens. I'm sure it will all turn out.
If you need anything else, don't hesitate to drop one in my inbox. =)
I fixed it, sorry. My setting got changed somehow, but now you should be able to leave one in the inbox if you want! =)
I have a real problem here. My face is square and big! I have a small frame and hence my face looks kind of out of proportion to my body.
Can anyone tell me is there any way to make my face smaller ? Something logical , can be applied and please dun suggest plastic surgery. Thanks!
Get face framing layers with side swept fringy bangs. That way it will kind of hide the side of your face. Thats the only way I can think of. I don't think massaging will help.
Well, I live in New Jersey, and there is this really cute boy named Tiger (it's his nickname, lol)
In the beginning of the year, Tiger and I became friends (I did not have a crush on him at the time). Then, I started to notice him, and started to like him. We were friends (Or so I *thought*). Until this aquaintance of mine (after I told her I liked him), she said "Oh, Tiger? I heard him and his friend talking about you. They said that you were kinda mean.
But I told them that you were really sweet" And she kept saying that. So, I trusted her, and basically eliminated Tiger from my life, and (xD gosh, I regret this now) I started being kinda mean to him. So, we weren't friends anymore. Later in the year, I discovered that my aquaintance Callie (the girl I told you about earlier) was a gossip, and she liked him too.
Then about 6 months after Tiger and I weren't friends anymore, our school took a trip to Paris for 5 days. I was in his group (but I had gotten over him by this time). Well, while we were there, we became friends, FAST. It was like magic really. And basically the whole trip, we talked to each other only.
So we came back. Things were a little different, but we were still good friends. And he sure acted like me, and all my friends would tease me on the trip and say "wow..he was all over you" and stuff like that. Anyways, it was pretty clear that he liked me.
I became friends with another girl named Tori. She told me she liked Tiger. I told her that I liked him too, and "Oh...maybe he likes you as well" So she started throwing herself at him. The closer she got to him, the farther Tiger and I grew apart. Then Tori told me one day that Tiger said "I'm glad Lily (me) doesn't like me anymore, because her friends were annoying".
Anyways, school has ended. And my (2) close friends tell me that he really does likes me, and looks sad when he looks at me or whatever.
I don't know who to believe. Next year, we're going to highschool. Should I just forget about? He could be lying. Any help is great, thanks.
DO NOT TRUST GIRLS. They will only backstab you. Seriously, most girls are only worried about themselves, and they don't care about anyone else. Especially don't trust girls who like the same guy as you. She is just trying to get you away from him so she can go for him. You just really need to know who you can trust and who you can't. Don't take anything to heart from someone like callie, who you didn't know well enough to know that she was a gossip. I think it sounds like you should stick with your close friends, because they seem loyal. I think you should keep talking to tiger, it sounds like he really likes you. Unless you have a good reason not to trust him, I think he sounds like hes telling the truth, and he likes you, so go for it!
good luck with everything!
this may be a little weird...but i was wondering, is it better to sleep with a bra or without one? thanks
Don't listen to the people who said that if you wear one, your boobs won't grow. Thats not true at all. I wear one at night and I'm a size D. It's all in what you are comfortable with. If you like to sleep in a bra, maybe go for a sports bra, because that would be more comfortable. If you sleep with a bra on, your boobs will probably stay perkier than if you slept with out one. Because you have a bra constantly supporting them, they won't start to sag, especially if your boobs are big. but other than that, it doesn't matter and is all about comfort.
It has recently come to my attention, that my cousin has been taking 5-10 tylenol a day. He has started acting really weird, and complains of his foot being numb. Is it possible that by taking 5-10 tylenol, he could be overdosing? If he is, what should i do?
Has this been going on for awhile? Because if it has, then that is definitly not good. But I know I get bad migranes, and when I do, I require a higher dosage of medicine, and take 4-8 pills just for it to go away, sometimes it happens a couple days in a row. But if this has been going on for longer than 5 days, that is serious. You need to have a talk with him, find out more information. If it looks like bad news, talk to someone else about it. Someone like your parents or his, or whoever you think could step in and help. ASAP!
Hi, this is embarassing. umm I've had my period for 2 years now and I'm going on a trip and I can't carry much luggage. I know I will get my period while I'm away, (it lasts for about 5 days) and I want to know about how many tampons I need to bring. (I can't remember) Thanks.
I'd bring about 20, If I were you, just to be safe. Maybe more. It's definitely better to be safe rather than sorry when It comes to this subject, especially on a trip.
Well every school year I always have a bunch of books I have to take everyday. Does anyone know away I can take all my books without having to carry a huge book bag? Any tips on looking more fashionable in a school with uniform? But the main problem is how to carry around all those books. And please dfont say to get a locker because I still have to carry alot of books home with me.
Messenger bags are a cute way to carry things. Big tote bags are really in right now, so thats another fashionable option.
As for the uniform. Wear ribbons in your hair. Tie one around your ponytail, or your whole head like a headband. Get a crazy print that still matches, like if your uniform is blue, get blue ribbon with white polka dots. Get a large belt to tie the outfit together. Get some headbands. Get outrageous jewelry. Don't be afraid to go a little crazy, since your outfits will be so bland, it will be what makes you stand out. Get a bright, crazy purse to carry around. Don't worry about that matching. A crazy print or something like Bright yellow will make you stand out. Get some cute printed scarves. Tie it around your waist, your neck, or your head. Get some pins to pin on your sweater/jacket. You can get cute ones, or you can get funny ones. I know they have some great funny ones at hot topic. They also have some great accessories, even if you are more preppy, they have some great stuff. You can also go to claires. Wet Seal and Urban outfitters also have great accessories AND great bags.
Good luck!
im not christian but my gf is, and i would like to know. in the christian religion does the no sex before marriage include oral sex?
Yes, oral sex is definitely included. Some people will try to say that oral doesn't count, but that's just because they want to do as much as they can while remaining "true to their beliefs" but really, it is included.