So, I think that depends from person to person; if she considers herself to still be a virgin after having done that, then it should not be a problem. But if she considers any sexual experience at all to take away her virginity, then it does count. That is why there are different denominations of Christianity: because not everyone agrees on everything, even within a single religion.
You just need to talk to her and ask her about her feelings on the issue.
mxpimpette26 answered Monday June 26 2006, 4:23 pm: no sex means no sex in any way you wanna call it. dry, oral anything. but talk to her about it. see how shes feels and more then anything RESPECT what she wants and how she feels about it [ mxpimpette26's advice column | Ask mxpimpette26 A Question ]
Moop answered Monday June 26 2006, 4:02 pm: technically speaking, all acts of sodomy are always sins. sodomy includes any sexual act that cannot produce children. [ Moop's advice column | Ask Moop A Question ]
Shortcake22 answered Monday June 26 2006, 3:29 pm: Yes, oral sex is definitely included. Some people will try to say that oral doesn't count, but that's just because they want to do as much as they can while remaining "true to their beliefs" but really, it is included. [ Shortcake22's advice column | Ask Shortcake22 A Question ]
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