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boy problems f/15
i like this kid, but then again i like his bestfriend . . i been switchen on and off with them and i dont know which one to like . what would you do in a situation like this ? please help
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ok well thats a tough situation, so what i would probably do is: get a peice of paper and cut it into shreds and get 2 peices of shreded paper and write 1 of the boys' names on 1 peice of paper and write the other boys' name on the other peice of paper put the shreds into a hat and pick a shred without looking.
lol hope i helped :)
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It's really a decision that only you know how to make. Maybe weigh out the pros and cons of each of them. Or spend separate time between them, and after, decide which one you enjoy being with the most. But you can't keep switching. Because if they both like you back, soon they are gonna realize what you are doing isn't fair, and leave you and you will be left with no one. Trust me, I've seen it happen many times. And if they don't like you back, or you don't know, then they won't want to date you if you keep changing your mind on them. So choose one, and just go for it!
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Hi, for starters you could get to know both of them. Become a friend. You should after a while know which one of them is your right match. For example does one of these guys have the qualities e.g. humour or something else that you were looking for in one of them. If you spend time with one of them, you might feel that some of these qualities match what you was looking for in him and then if you feel like you've got a real great bond and you start to like him, then he will probaly be your match. Which one of these guys do YOU personally really like and what qualities does he have that match your specifications. Writing these things down and taking the time to solve these problems can do a world of good and clear your head. It can also give you a clear understanding of who your guy could be. Once you know what guy you like the most then the next step is to simply ask them out. Work it out on pen and paper. It will give you a clear idea of who you like. Daniel.
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take a piece of paper and a pen.
Divide the paper using a ruler right down the middle.
Write one of their names on one side.
and one of their names on the other.
Write the good points in one color and the bad points in another color. as in good=green bad=black.
You with me so far?
Count the good points for each person.
go with the guy who has the highest points. if you feel in your heart right away this is the wrong guy then pick the other one.
I did this. it works. my relationship is about to start too ;-)
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