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do you have any other sugjestions for sex?
What sort of suggestions? go read the Kama Sutra [if you are that flexable]. Always use some form of protection/ contraception. Have a look on the net for forms of fetishes to practice if you feel so inclined.
Always make love, don't just have sex or fuck. Keep it special :)
ok i asked my brothers ex y they broke up and all she said was that when he was ballin she would start hurtin and cry. any suggestions on wut she sayin? i know bout ballin (basketball) and free ballin but never like that plz help this is very annoyin
First off, could you maybe repeat your question with correct spellings and punctuation?
Are you trying to say that your brothers ex got upset when he plays basketball, and you want to help?
I would encorage your brother and his ex to talk things over if they want this relationship to sucseed, but otherwise you should butt out of somthing that really doesn't seem to be your busness.
hello i know someone must be able to answer this the national guard wants my 16 yr old daughter to enlist and they will pay for her college i think it is a good idea for several reasons but my daughter is not in shape will that matter she is 5 ft 4 and 190 she is not athletic or anything is sorta of a girly girl i want to know the down side to the national guard she wants to be a school teacher but i want her to try the guard but i would like to know the down side to the guard thanks
First off, I'm not sure I know what the national guard is but I'm assuming its some kind of armed forces?
If she is a girlly girl, not althetic and wants to be a teacher I think you should let her do that. Is it really worth making her go with the guard if she is going to be really unhappy, just so you don't have to pay her collage fees?
Has anybody ever met a famous person...and if so, who?
Just wondering (hehe)
I doubt you would consider him famous, but I've met Phil Harding, who does the UK show Time Team, at a re-enactment joust at a set of earth works near salsburry
i bought a new renault megane convertable last march, the roof has startred making a funny noise, i have a 2 yr warrenty on it and the garage have told me the roof isnt covered in the warrenty and are charging me nearly 2000 pound. they dont know what the problem is but i have been told i need a new one
Is it an auto-slid-in roof or one you have to manually take off? Have you been back to your dealship to get it checked out as many independant garages pull a lot of fob. If it is a automatic one, then you probably will need a new roof as somtimes these things can't be fixed and £2000 sounds about right. I really sugest you get in contact with your local dealership and see what they have to say about it. *hug* Also check through your warranty. there many be a loop hole that can get you a new roof free or for a nominal sum. good luck
I have Question
lately I have had alot* of wet dreams even though I try not. but what im REALLY worried about is it normal to get like a burning sensation because its like I wake up all sweaty and i feel a burning sensation.can u have a orgasm just by dreaming?
there is NO way im talking to my mother or anyone else for that matter. im only posting this because no one knows who i am.
anyways thanx
it would help me ALOT if you would answer this.
all wet
Humm, I would say its normal. Some peoples hormones are more active then others during puberty, and you've just got the hormones that are very active. I'm not sure about being able to climax through a dream, unless you were unconciously stimulating yourself at the same time. The burning maybe a side-effect of fluids [if you do climax that is] other than that I'm not sure. Maybe you could talk to a doctor or clinic nurse about that bit. You won't know them, they won't know you, and they are bound by law to keep everything you say confidential.
*hug*
Why are people so mean?? Are any of you like that...you know...where you think you're too good for everybody else? (tell the truth) Because I want to know what you guys think...and I just hate life sometimes. I pay them NO MIND...but it's just sad...to watch how other people squirm under their wrath...I hate it...
I hate to break it to you, but this is just human nature. Maybe one day we will rise above our pettyness, but don't expect it to happen for a while.
One of my friends, Lizzy, is always talking about her friend, Kate. It didn't bother me until I realized how much Kate hates me. Kate once went on Lizzy's screenname on AIM and started saying "I hate you!!" and stuff like that. When I told Lizzy, she said, "I'm going to kill Kate, I am so mad at her!" but they are still best friends. Also, Lizzy talks about all this stuff she hates and when I do, she says its not that bad. And she is always saying blondes are dumb, which they truely aren't and it bothers me to hear people say that. But when I told her it bothered me she just said "Its only a joke." K, so today I said, "wow, Mrs. F really acted like a cheerleader today!" and she said "most cheerleaders aren't ditzy."
K, she said blonde jokes as a joke, I realize it...so when I say the cheerleader thing as a joke, why should she get all mad? She's not a cheerleader, but I am a blonde. blondes aren't dumb. I told her that!
PLEASE HELP ME! WHAT SHOULD I TELL HER WHEN I TALK TO HER??????
I really think you need to sort things out between you. you have to explain to her that she confuses you, and you just don't get why she contradicts herself so much. Other than that, i would recomend getting rid of her.
I will *never* understand why people stay 'mates' with peole they obviously don't click with.
Yeah, usually I give advice, but I figured I'd ask this time. Two of you have already seen this question, but I thought I'd just put it out here for the rest of you to help me with.
Okay, here it goes. I've found my DREAM college. I mean, this is what I've been searching for since, like, ninth grade. I'm almost certain I'd be accepted there.
Problem 1 - CalArts is in Southern California. Now, I live in michigan and my mom doesn't want me to go that far away.
Problem 2 - The tuition. $22,190. My dad doesn't have a job, my mom can't work, and I don't have a job yet. Even if I did, I wouldn't be able to make that much by next year. However, I do have books written, and could publish them, but even with that I'm not sure I'd be able to make the money.
Problem 3 - my parents both think that the only reason I want to go there is because my boyfriend's going to a college down there. That's not why I want to go.
So essentially, I'm wondering what you guys think. Should I try to get into a college my mom doesn't want me to go to, even though it's my dream school AND if I went there, I'd probably have somewhere to live? Help me out...
-Siren
I would go, but serch out a back-up choice that you love just as much incase you either can't afford to go to CalArts or they don't accept you.
However, with the money situation, I would serch around for some low rate personal or student loans. do you have any other relative thaat might be willing to help? I'm not really up to speed on american stuff, but is there any knid of goverment instituion you can apply to?
Not sure if it goes under "injuries"...but whatever...it just hurts.
Today when i woke up, my chin just had some kind of pain i never felt before. it feels as if a "bump" grew or something. whenever i touch it, my chin hurts.
i might not be able to go to the doctors...my parents don't have the money. And Because of that, I don't have money.
It might be those random things...sometimes my knee hurts, and it stop in a few minutes...
kind of like...when you leg gets numb...only with a pain.
help?
I would first recomend you take some painkillers, and maybe have a look online. This isn't the perfect solution, but if you really can't get to a doctor it will have to do.
I recently just became boyfriend and girlfriend with this really nice guy. I really like him and I know he likes me, but he doesn't want people to know about us yet. A dance is coming up and I REALLy want to slow dance with him but I also don't want to give him away to all his friends. I also heard him telling someone he doesn't like anyone when i was right there. I respect that he doesn't want people to know...But i do. What should I do?
I think you need to find out why he doesn't want others to know. If he likes you as much as you say he does then hes shouldn't be scared to be seen with you. I think you need to have a word with him and let him know how important this dance is to you, and how important it is to you to beable to cuddle etc in public with him.
What does asl stand for?
This is used as a code by some people. It means 'another stupid loser'. But quite *what* this has to do with automobiles I don't see.
Dear DruidX,
I've spent some time trying to believe in Christianity, long enough to know that there's a popular and Biblically-based doctrine against being "unevenly hitched". So, when I meet fun, attractive Christians of a certain level of commitment, they may as well be lesbians or cousins or something... I can let myself love them to bits as friends, but for the most part I keep any thought of the romantic stuff out of the way. This has worked to keep things from getting messy for me and the occasional cute, committed Christian that wanders by. Essentially I've kept that doctrine by acknowledging it, even as I left a bunch of stuff I couldn't deal with behind.
I'm a 23-year old student, just to situate all this, and she's a bit older (25 or so) but also studying at the same university. We've grabbed food together, run around town with friends, done stuff in groups, kept each other honest while studying, all the rest, and she's sweet, articulate, cultured, cute, open-minded and considerate... and a committed Christian to boot. Fine, I think to myself... she's fun to be around and my (open) agnosticism doesn't seem to bother her (although we do debate the Big Issues in conversational tones), she definitely makes me feel good to share a species with her. So we hang out from time to time, chat, all that. Er, man, was I dense.
So now I have this three page e-mail printed out and read a few times, and it turns out my density has kept me from picking up on the fact that she's been thinking of me as relationship material since, well, something like July.
Fine, you might say, can't lump all Christians together, and *Rebecca doesn't seem to be in the yoke-sensitive camp. Well, you can get a lot of details into 23k of e-mail and she is in the yoke-sensitive camp and it's been eating away at her. Her Christian buddies are understandibly leery of the whole idea, and for me it kinda reorganizes everything... but she's thinking differently. I'd gotten pretty good at applying my yoking filter but she's sort of making it irrelevant... but I'd feel a little weird helping her dismantle a practice she still obviously respects to some extent. At the same time, she really is wonderful and this whole yoking thing sometimes feels like a medieval tradition whose time has come. Yarg, new and exciting dilemma... of the sort that's more fun to contemplate when it's hypothetical.
I can't honestly convert as it stands, and I won't dishonestly convert. She's not asking me to, which is to her credit.
So, I can freak out and run in circles, I can say she's wonderful but this is crazy, I can say I had no idea and ... yes!, or I can hop on the next plane to the French Foreign Legion recruiting centre and pretend this all never happened. Or I can do something more subtle I haven't thought of... you get the idea.
Advice, relevant questions or a good slap upside the head... I await your reply.
Yours spazzing out,
Dense Heathen
As I am not christian either, I had a little trouble sorting out what exactly you mean by "unevenly hitched" and "yoke-sensitive camp".
So what you are basically saying is that she likes you in a more-than-just-mates context, and you haven't noticed, but the fact that you are 'heathen' and she is Christian is posing a problem for you?
First off, let me quote that wise one, Anon: 'two people who are in love are often the last to know', so don't feel bad about that. Has she approched you with a proposal of any sort yet? If she hasn't you don't need to do the headless chicken dance.
Ah, wait, I just read the bit that says: 'my (open) agnosticism doesn't seem to bother her'. I'm sorry if i'm being obtuse, but then were does the problem lie? I would say send her an equally heartfelt letter explaining you had no idea and like her back [you do, right?], but are cautious of entering into somthing with her.
I hope my rambling have helped you in some way, and feel free to contact me if you need anymore help.
how do I becom a better speler and reder? Im deslecksic
As I am also Lysdexic [Dyslexic], a few tips I can give you are, write slowly, consult a mate teacher or dictonary if you are unsure of a word, if you know there are some words you *always* get wrong, keep a list of the correct spelling of them.
Your best bet is to try and get yourself into a special needs class at school. They will have specially trained teachers or helpers that can teach you how to learn to control your dyslexia.
I hope it goes well for you *hug*
Does Anyone know any good, free chat rooms to go to to meet people around the teen age?
On IRC, #spacefem is a very good one ;)
i hate my mom so much she is so mean all she cares about is my sister and borthere whci r 10 months and 2 months she doesnt ever do anythign with me i feel like killing myself or running away im 13 andi hate my mom so much i cant even explain it she is a real big bitch and she calls me a bitch sometimes to and when im not even doing anythign she beats me and threatens to all the time but i hate it and i need help i try to ignore her for days but that doesnt work wut should i do about my horrible mother?
Call a child support agency and explain this stuff to them. Running away will only make things worse. The support agency will probably be able to help, and place you either in a care home or with another relative.
You say your brother ans sisters are only babies, so you have to rember that they *will* take a lot of looking after, especially if your mother doesn't have a partner.
*hug* If you ever want to chat, you know how to get hold of me.
whats a blow job?
To give your [usually male] partner oral sex. Its not partualy plesent, so I suggest refusing. If you have you, rember you use a flavoured condom. Although you cannout get pregent if you swallow the semen, you can still contarct STDs of you have cuts ect in your mouth.
Sorry, this is so long but please take the time
to read it.We'll call my friend Trea (not her name)Ok, now Trea is the kind of girl who always tries to do the right thing. This boy hit me(we're still under age so it's not against the law.) He put a bruise on my arm Friday. So on Tuesday I (i'm a girl) tried to get him back. He is a lot quicker and stronger so when I went to hit him he pushed me downand I have a sint arm. Wednesday, (today) I went after him again because he had pushed me down Tuesday. I didn't expect to have everything happen that did. Trea, tried to stop me because he pushed me down and I scraped my elbow Wednesday. I was going after him again. I told her to leave me alone (I was mad) and not to tell anyone.My other friend told her the same thing. I went after him because my friend held Trea back. She secretly went and told the teacher on meand the boy. I had almost caught up with him and Trea grabbed my shirt from behind. I couldn't get loose because I was hurting and didn't bother to fight back. She took me to the teacher and they kept asking me questions. I answered as many as I could. They asked me why I hadn't told anyone about the fights. I didn't want to because they usually don't do anything. I can't talk to the boy or his friend (I like his friend but that's not the point) because the teachers won't let us. I don't usually cause trouble. This is my first time. My real question is, is Trea my true friend or not?
I would say she is. I would have acted the exact same way with my best mate I expect. She was trying to help you. She probably felt it was her duty to get a teacher to help you, and she obviously didn't want you to get hurt any more. I dobut she was 'ratting' on you, but sincely concerned for you and your safety. Be glad you have such a good mate.
I think I'm going to ask the kid I like out...in a note? He was just so cute today...it was like a movie...and he's not that average heartthrob boy either. He's a ghetto white boy. But he's just...i dont know...should I? What should I say? He doesn't know me but it's worth a shot right?
Of course its worth a shot. The whole idea of courting is to get use to and learn about the person you are dating.
With a note like this, I would keep it heartfelt [what you feel, not what you think he wants to hear] and fairly simple.
Good luck *hug* :)
i tried to make hot cocoa on the stove and welded some kind of not-so-much chocolate substance to the bottom of a pan... my question is, how do i get this stuff off? then... is it still good to eat? it looks chocolate colored.
How welded? Can it be scraped off? If so, scrape a bit off and taset it. I expect it will takes burnt though. Your best bet is to put in some washing up liquid, and warm water and leave it to soak for a while, then use an abrasive pad to scrub it off. Have fun >:)