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i hate her so much
i hate my mom so much she is so mean all she cares about is my sister and borthere whci r 10 months and 2 months she doesnt ever do anythign with me i feel like killing myself or running away im 13 andi hate my mom so much i cant even explain it she is a real big bitch and she calls me a bitch sometimes to and when im not even doing anythign she beats me and threatens to all the time but i hate it and i need help i try to ignore her for days but that doesnt work wut should i do about my horrible mother?
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This probably isn't really useful to you, but NUMBER ONE- DO NOT AND I REPEAT DO NOT TRY AND KILL YOURSELF.or run away. Do you have a counselor at school or a friend's parent?(Someone you trust) Tell them what's going on.
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I would really like to know FIRST how long this has been taking place. If it's recently, then your mom may be experiencing what's known as post-partum depression. In this, she may be feeling trapped by the birth of the two youngest and as a result, going through alot of anger that she ttansfers to you. I know it's not fair, but if you understand it, it may make it easier to cope with. Suicide without a doubt, is defintiely not the way out. i'm sure you have a lot left to give to the world and we want to be seflsih and receive it :) Regardless of the reasons, you definitley need to seek the advice of a professional. See if the guidance counselo9r at school can point you in the right direction. After discussing this with them, they may want to see your mom as well. be prepared for her to feel violated and betrayed, but in the end, she'll she it's in her own best interest. Good luck. God bless you, hon.
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DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE IT IS BAD
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I think you need to talk to someone, like a counselor, or a psychologist (maybe through your school or a social agency.) If you are suicidal, definite call the suicide help line in the phone book. They may be able to give you agencies to contact.
Your mother has babies 2 months and 10 months? If that is right, that is really hard on a woman. That is pregnant as soon as one is born with no recovery time. She will need help of some kind too. On top of it, you are 13 which is a very difficult age. So a lot of it may be due to very difficult circumstances. You both need some outside help.
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Call a child support agency and explain this stuff to them. Running away will only make things worse. The support agency will probably be able to help, and place you either in a care home or with another relative.
You say your brother ans sisters are only babies, so you have to rember that they *will* take a lot of looking after, especially if your mother doesn't have a partner.
*hug* If you ever want to chat, you know how to get hold of me.
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you really need to tell somebody what is going on. trust me, things will get better. they may get worse at first, but THEY WILL GET BETTER!! anyway, it's not your fault that she hits you but its also not worth taking your own life. you need to win this battle. be strong and put an end to it before any more damage is done. please email me and let me know how things are going. i am here to listen. good luck!!!
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