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I did not write the book of love,
and I do not claim to be full of wisdom.

I sure do make mistakes,
but I live and learn!

I try to let no one come to me,
without leaving happier. [:



"Exert your talents,
and distinguish yourself.
Don't even think about
retiring from the World,
until the World will be
sorry that you retire!"



advice

♥[?]♥ ok, in october i'm going to be 13 and I want to have a really memorable party to mark me being a teenager. Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do? It can be anything as long as it's suited to that time of year (october.) Thanks! :)
Hey, yeah!! How 'bout make a theme?? You could have it be a Luau! You could hiRe a Hula danceR, and puRchase some cheap leis, gRass skiRts, and TONS of silk floweRs!!! Y'all could leaRn some Hawiian dances!! And if you live somewheRe wheRe it's still appRopRiate to swim duRing OctobeR [like ARizona.. wheRe I live] go swimming!! If not, you could always get those floweR shaped candle holdeRs that float, and put a candle in them and have it float aRound inside the pool; that'd be cute!! Hawaiian music is a must foR youR Luau though! FoR music... you can buy a C.D. oR tape of tRaditional Hawaiian slack key guitaR and, of couRse, Hawaiian-style Reggae! To decoRate youR tables, you can cReate a tRaditional centeR table RunneR of leaves, feRns and floweRs. OR, you can go with an ocean theme and spRead an oRnamental fish-net topped with shells, sand and glass balls. Raffia hula skirts look gReat edging the buffet table!! PapeR paRasols and slices of pineapple on the edge of dRinks will put youR guests in a tRopical mood!! Also, be shoRe to gReet youR guests with a shell oR a floweR lei and, of couRse, a big "Aloha!" You can also have loose floweRs on hand foR youR guests to tuck behind theiR eaRs. If you'Re available Romantically, put the floweR behind youR Right eaR. If you'Re taken, put it closest to youR heaRt, behind youR left eaR. If this is too much foR you, you could hiRe a D.J. and do Karaoke!! And a scavengeR hunt would be fun [we did that foR MY 13th biRthday aRound my neighboRhood] PRoviding it's an all giRl paRty.. y'all could paint youR nails and stuff! And you can always Rent some good movies!! WhateveR you do, I'm shoRe it will be gReat!! Just be cReative and make it memoRable!! Goodluck; hope I helped!!! Best wishes!!

♥[?]♥ why did i just get really grossed out when my boyfriend told me he had to go take a shit? i mean i love him and we've been together for 15 months, shouldnt i already be over the "omg eww he goes poop" stage? lol
haha.. noo!! That's sooo *nasty*.. I'd be gRossed out too; but it's no biggie!

♥[?]♥ I have light brown hair and big dark brown eyes with long dark eyelashes. How should i wear my make up so i look my best?
Hey; I have daRk bRown haiR and big, daRk dRown eyes with Really long and thick eyelashes! FoR foundation, I use 'CoveRgiRl's' "clean makeup FRAGRANCE FREE NON PARFUME 30ml" bottle. It glides on smoothly, and comes in *many* diffeRent shades, so you'Re bound to find a coloR that's peRfect foR you. HeRe's a tip: to get youR eyeshadow to last alllllllllll day, put some body lotion, oR PetRoleum Jelly on fiRst, THEN apply the shadow. Also, theRe's this technique I do, called "Shadowing". It cReates this AWESOME smokey affect!! You simply put on the coloR eyeshadow you wish to weaR, then using a bRistle bRush, dab a bit of gRay eyeshadoW oveR it!! It's goRgeous; I *NEVER* leave the house without it!! And as foR eyelineR... when it comes to liquid oR pencil, it's just a peRsonal pRefeRence. HoweveR, if you ask... MOST people will tell you that pencil is a betteR choice. It's a gReat staRt foR a beginneR who is just getting used to it. If you mess up, pencil is A WHOLE LOT easieR to clean up and Re-do than liquid would be. And if you plan on caRRying it aRound in a puRse oR pocket.. theRe's a chance that the liquid may Ruin. And now foR the pRoducts... peRsonally, I think the two best bRands of eyelineR out theRe aRe "MeRyl NoRman" and "Beautique". "MeRyl NoRman", which can only be puRchased at "The MeRyl NoRman Cosmetic Studios", is pRicey [typically $8.50 - $15.00], but it REALLY IS good stuff. It goes on wondeRfully, and stays on all day!!! On the otheR hand... I happen to think that "Beautique" is INCREDIBLE, howeveR, I've ONLY seen "Beautique" at "Sally's". And "Beautique" is only .99 cents. TRUST ME.. I would NEVER EVER EVER buy cRap make up!!! I get only the best, so please, please, please, please DON'T let this dollaR pRice thRow you off - you'd be cheating youRself out of the best pRoduct out theRe!! I'd PREFER "Beautique" out of ANY otheR bRand of eyelineR!! I could easily go out and buy a $15.00 pencil, but I'd RATHER get "Beautique"! "Beautique" glides on smoothly and REALLY LASTS ALLLLL DAY!!! I CAN NOT pRomote this item enough!! And if you still have doubts... foR only .99 cents.. it's woRth a shot!! Goodluck!! I hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ me and my boyfriend have been together for 15 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17. He's gonna be a senior this year and im gonna be a junior. We're in love so much, it scares me and even makes me cry sometimes. I'm so afraid of losing him when he goes off to college. is it abnormal to be feeling these feelings now? I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. We even talk about it sometimes. I tell myself "if it's love, it'll all work out" Yet i still think about it. I love him so much and would like die if we broke up lol. not really but u get what im saying. Is it wrong to feel like this so early?
Is it "wRong" to feel like that "so eaRly"?? No, not at all; it's peRfectly undeRstandable. I wouldn't sweat it quite yet though, he still has a whole yeaR. But peRhaps it would make you feel betteR if you told him how you feel.. and see what he can do to comfoRt you and set youR mind at ease. I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!

♥[?]♥ i have a friend that is very special to me. i have known her foreva nd i dont want to loose her becuz of things pplz say or who i hang out wit. My other friends dont like her but i do nd i want to be all of there friends nd they dont want to be her friend nd i dont kno wat to do. Tell me if u have ne advice.

You should be heR fRiend despite what youR fRiends think! Honestly, who caRes?? They don't want to be heR fRiend.. that's fine.. theiR decision, but D.O.N'.T let them decide foR *YOU* If you like heR, and you know she's a good peRson, then to hell with what eveRybody else thinks! I wish you the best! Hope I helped? =D

♥[?]♥ Does anyone know how to get hair and fuzz out of velcrow?
I just dRag my hand oveR digging down deep with my fingeR nails. SoRRie I couldn't be of moRe help! I wish you luck though! =D

♥[?]♥ okay i have a dumb quesion? is this site free? lol i didnt even question it cuz i was too excited about helping other people haha but i was reading something and it said something about fee's? unless its too late at night and im just tierd hahha sorry for my dumbness!
This site *IS* fRee! =D

♥[?]♥ Some times my pubic hairs kinda hurt when i pull them, so i yank them out and they have this sort weird sticky white thing on the end. after i pull them out it doesnt hurt there any more. this happens every once in a while and i yank em because if i dont it hurts to touch there. anyone know waht these are? i call them evil hairs.
Uhm, I can't explain these "evil haiRs", soRRie. HoweveR, peRhaps if you shave, the pain will go away? If not, oR if you'Re against shaving, and the pRoblem peRsists, I would say it's best to see a doctoR. EmbaRRassing, I know.. but necessaRy. I wish you the best!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ ok i have been rated 8 times ( i just started today haha) ne*way on the front of my page it says "rated: 5 times" not 8...hmm do u kno why?? u can see for urself haha http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=Xo_ShErRy_Ox

just wondering, thanks and i'll rate!:)
It will change oveR time. Give it a day oR two. =D

♥[?]♥ I'm 13, and I am 5`1. Is there any ways I can grow taller? I heard that after you get your period, you stop growing, but i want to keep growing, because I got mine at an early age (9). My mom said that Yoga will add PLENTY of inches (maybe up to 5`6) , but is there another way that I can get taller? Thanks.
You'll gRow talleR natuRally! You'll gRow 'til about 17-18 oR so. Hope I helped? =D

♥[?]♥ Okay...so i've liked this boy secretly since like sixth grade. (im goin into 8th) and I flirt w/ him 24/7 and he flirts w/ me too. but like he had a relationship w/ my friend sierra but they are good friends now. And she thinks i should go otu w/ him but im sooo scared he'll say no cuz im taller and like i dono. Hes really hot and he might not like me.But I dono if i should wait and see if he says anything cuz i've heard he lieks me but I just dont know....so what do i do?

Go foR it!! If you like him, and he likes you [pRobably], and youR fRiend is fine with it.. go foR it!! Why not?? Take a Rish; be bold!! Goodluck; hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ Ok..just a couple minutes ago my friend told me that she saw my boyfriend smoking with his friends. Sure I think that him smoking is a problem..but what really makes me mad is that he told me that he stopped smoking. And the other day his friend walked up to him and goes "omg dude! you were like drunk last night" and he told me that he didn't know what he was talking about. But now that my friend saw him smoking I don't know what to think. Should I believe her and just ask him about it..or what? Dang I'm so confused
DEFINITELY confRont him on it!! I'm shoRe youR fRiend wouldn't lie to you, but foR ALLLLLLLL the facts.. no one knows them betteR than him!!!! HoweveR, if you discoveR that he's lying, I would end it! You shouldn't have to be putting up with that!! I know I don't know him, but fRom what you've put down.. it seems like this kid is a complete waste of youR time!!! You deseRve much betteR, and this kid can't give you anything!! I hope eveRything woRks out!! Hopefully I was some help!!! Take caRe!!

♥[?]♥ ok my best friend likes this guy i've known 4-ever and i never liked him untill she said she did i don't if its cuz i'm jealous or what but i want to be happy for her but i just can't get over my jealously of her and him so what can i do to get over him and her
I think it DOES seem like you'Re jealous. I know how you feel though; I think it's just a stRong caRing feeling.. and you feel like that you've known them foReveR.. and now someone can jump in and "steal them away" in two week's time. TheRe's not Really much you can do to get oveR it. You just gotta Roll with the punches, accept things how they aRe, and be happie foR them! I wish you the best of luck!! SoRRie I can't help moRe, but I do hope things woRk out!! =D

♥[?]♥ Hey I'm going to be a sophmore this year and I met this guy Scott at summer skool before freshmen year. He's not that hott but hes cute, and hes nice I guess and he's been asking me out ever since I met him but I always said no because I had a boyfriend well my boyfriend broke up with me and ever since then i've felt soo lonely that now i wanna go out with Scott! But I dont know if I just want a boyfriend or if I really like him. I'm thinking maybe when I go out with scott I'll start liking him? Idk I need help!
I've had that feeling befoRe. I think the best suggestion foR you would to just stay single foR a while! That's the BEST way to tell what it is that you Really need!! Hope I helped!! Best wishes!!

♥[?]♥ im 14 and goin wit a grl i really like but all my freinds and even my dad say i should break up wit her and go out with this other grl. the problem is i like both of them alot but the grl im with usualy hase long relationships but the other grl doesnt. if i break up with the grl im with and then the other grl doesnt last long i will be givin up the relationship i wanted 4 a one week thing. if u can help me ill be really happy. thnx
Don't botheR; stick with what you've got! Don't Ruin a good thing oveR something that MAY be fun and MIGHT last two weeks.. if you'Re LUCKY!! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ Hey..
I like this guy n i think he likes me too. Im scared to ask him out cuz my friends will maybe b mad at me well i hope it will all work out and im really scared..thank u!
This... isn't.. a.. question?? But I don't see why youR fRiends would be mad at you? PeRhaps you left something impoRtant out of youR "question"?? I would assume youR fRiends would be happie foR you. HoweveR, if you like him... I suggest you go foR it!! You need to do what's best foR you - to hell with what eveRyone else thinks!! Goodluck; hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ in the past weeks since schools started..theres been this guy and his friends that have been hanging around my locker..and well this guy came up to me one day and asked me for my name...and well...we kinda talked like once in a while in the hall way..but today..he asked me for my number..ah so i gave it to him...1 problem..i have a boyfriend..and well this guy is really awsome..and so is my boyfriend, and i just dont know what to do..about this guy...idk i think i kinda have feelings for him but idk i jsut really dont know what to do...
You pRobably shouldn't have given this guy youR numbeR if you have a boyfRiend to begin with. HoweveR, you can NEVER have too many fRiends!! Just infoRm this kid you'Re not available, so he doesn't tRy anything and get Rejected!! Goodluck; I wish you the best!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ Everytime I get bit by a mosqitto (i know i spelled that wrong lol) I always scratch them. And eventually they start to bleed, and turn into scars. And this summer i was bit by a lot too. And now I have all of these scars on my legs that are really embarissing. Any way to get rid of them???PLease help!!
Uhm, not Really... howeveR, you could tRy rubbing Coconut Oil on them... I've *HEARD* that Really helps!! HoweveR, I've neveR tRied it peRsonally. Goodluck; hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ Hey I was wondering. if someone reply your qestion and there rude and crule how we deleat them.. well thing is I tried of people rudness not Friendly advice eather. ninthgradeguy need advice bout this and he really put me down..
Amanda
I agRee with you! I am ALSO annoyed by the Rude RemaRks left on this site. Some of these people ddo this foR alllllllllll the wRong Reasons!! But if they answeR YOUR question.. theRe is no way to delete it! SoRRie!!

♥[?]♥ I am 16 years old weigh 115 lbs and im 5'4". Well I was trying on homecomming dresses at my friends house But every dress I tried on I felt soooo fat or shall I say I LOOKED so fat! I was about to cry but I couldnt cry infront of everyone. Homecomming is in about 1 month and a half away. Should I go on a diet or should I just tell my friends I cant go. My friends would be sooo mad at me if they find out im not going because I never been to a dance before. Its NOT as easy as you think it is. I been thinking about it day in and day out. I wish I could just accept that im fat! Do you know any good diets?!? Thank you sooo much
Dude!! You aRe NOT fat AT ALL!! Accept THAT fact!! I'd pRobably KILL A DONKEY TEN TIMES OVER to look as good as you do!!! Just go out and buy a new dRess!! I'm shoRe you'll look gReat!!! Bottom line.. if you FEEL good.. you LOOK good!! Just be confident... confidence is SEXY and shows BIG TIME!!! Things will woRk out; I pRomise!!! Hope I helped!! =D


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