Going to Vegas for 5 nights on Dec 15 staying at the Mirage on one of the top floors in a very nice 1250 sq ft suite. Just Google Mirage Tower Suite and you'll see (look at the Mirage site, not the older pics since they're out of date).
Want to throw a sick party with fun people in the suite one of the night's that I'm there and am trying to figure out how to do it since I don't know anyone in Vegas.
Wondering if I like printed tickets for a party and handed them out for free admission? What would people think? Would they show?
Assuming that people would show (maybe like 5% of the people that got tickets?), then the question is: how to deal with the first people that show up? I mean, once there are people there and the room's not empty, it'd be OK. It'd look like a party. But the first people to show are going not see a party and it is going to be awkward.
Any advice? Oh, and it's on a floor with a private elevator, so that's a problem. I'll have to give out the code for people to get up there. I'm sure that the hotel management is not going to like that.
Is there a site where I can find other people traveling to Vegas around the same time? Maybe drum up some interest ahead of time?
I'd have to agree on not throwing it with people you don't know but if you really want to go through with it, there are hotel hosts that can help you out. If you're going to spend a lot of money at that hotel gambling anyways, go to guest services and speak to a host and they can set you up with someone that can round up other guests from the hotel. That way you're not having random strangers off the street destroying the room and ripping you off. Good luck.
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I have 4 questions all to do with the same stuff... please answer whichever one/ones you know about. Thanks! And this may be a bit weird and blunt but oh well... stop reading if you dont know.
I'm 23 female and I'm new to anal sex. I really want to do it and my boyfriend is slowly easing me into it so it doesnt hurt. (like with his finger) and when he does that it feels great. It makes the orgasm much more intense and I love it... however I can only handle it so much before it starts to feel like the kinda pressure you get when your gonna poop or fart... and there isnt anything pleasurable about that to me.. I have to make him stop and I HATE doing that. Is that just a normal part of anal sex that I'm gonna have to get used to or is there a way to make it stop? I'm afraid taking his dick will be too much when we get to that point.
Next Question: When he is licking down there... OMG I love it... but I always feel like I'm going to fart. In fact this happens sometimes during sex but mostly just with anal stuff. How can I make sure I dont? Is there a way to get rid of that pressure?
Next question: I heard from someone who doesnt like anal that she doesnt like it because sometimes you have a bowel sitting in your butt that you can touch if you reach in there far enough... How the heck do you avoid this???
Last Question: My butt smells like... well butt. I open my butthole and it smells like butt... I imagine everyone is like this but then why does everyone do anal stuff if it stinks? How can I make sure my butt smells good? Is there a slumber parties thing or something I can buy at an adult store to rub on myself so that it smells good? I know these are weird questions and kinda gross and I'm embarrassed but I really need advice and I'd rather not ask my gynecologist or anyone else I know...
Please no rude comments... just advice. Thank you.
If you're interested in doing this on a regular basis, you should invest in a good enema kit. This will help reduce the smell and avoid any feces from getting on your partner. Another thing that will help is to get a good strong vibrator to put on your clit when he puts his penis in your anus. The next time he goes down on you, have him start with one finger and work his way up to three fingers. This will make it easier to accept his penis in your hole. Make sure he goes very slow in the beginning and everything should go well. Hope this helps and good luck.
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how do i make myself cum?
I'd really like to help you but I need to know what you've tried in the past. If you want to write me I'll be glad to help out.
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19/f whenever i masturbate i never seem to orgasm. i orgasm during sex, or when the guy fingers me. i haven't had sex in a while but even before i had sex i masturbated and it didn't work. so what should i do?
You may be trying to hard or on a limited schedule. Try waiting until you think that you're extremely turned on or think about things that turn you on or something that you enjoyed when you with a guy. I have some other advice for you if you'd like to ask, I'd be happy to help you. Good luck.
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if a girl is shy, how does she learn to approach cute boys and make the first move?
One important rule is to never give up if a boy turns you down or rejects you. It will eventually happen and how you react afterward can mean a lot. You do have to act like it doesn't matter what other people think because you're trying to make you happy, not them.
The second rule is to not just focus on the cute guys. Sometimes they can be conceited jerks, cheat on you and just be totally wrong for you. Sometimes the average looking guy can be the best fit for you. But, only you can decide what you want.
So, the first move. Try to find something you may have in common with them, bring up some random news story, or have a few jokes handy to break the ice. One other thing is just be yourself. If you try to act like someone your not, you won't be happy and when they see the real you, they may not like it. So it's usually best to let them see you as you. Good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for.
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This is pretty long if I go in detail so I will try to sum it up for you. I am 21 years old and my boyfriend is 22. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. We rarely fight and if we do they are for legitimate reasons. But one thing that has bugged me since we started dating was his lack of showing me he loves me. I am not materialistic and I don't expect to be bought things all the time and wined and dined. But I do expect him to show some love on days like my birthday or Valentines Day, and our One Year Anniversary. My birthday we had been dating four months and he got me nothing and even threw a tantrum saying he was tired when we went out to celebrate my 21st when it was only 11 PM and we had been out for one hour. So we left and went home, which deep down upset me because it was MY birthday! Then Valentines Day came around and he told me 3 days before it that we shouldn't get eachother anything because he thinks Valentine's Day is overrated. Our one year anniversary we did absolutely nothing! He said he was broke and we would do something another time, but it has been 3 months since that and everytime I bring it up nicely he just blows it off and says sometime we will. I have been in several long relationships before him lasting 2 to 3 years each and all of those have been the same way. I always see other guys in relationships with their girlfriends taking cute pictures, celebrating anniversaries, and being taken out or even having their men cook for them on their birthdays. I don't want to be whiny and sound materialistic, but I feel like when I cook for him EVERYDAY and do his laundry, clean up his messes, and always do something special for him even on days that aren't his birthday or a holiday, that I should get something back in return! It's VERY frustrating and it is started to make me pull away from him. I don't want to TELL him what I want because then it doesn't feel special, but even if I hint towards it he just blows it off and acts like it is not important. Is he just not the right type of guy for me? Why are most guys like this? And what is the difference between the guy I am with and the other guys that really actually do sweet things for the girls they love?
I'm just guessing but is your guy hot? Because the hot ones are usually the biggest jerks. I know that it's nice to go for looks but you've got to do some soul searching. First thing to do is dump this total loser, you are wasting your time on this guy. He is obviously using you for his needs and could care less about yours. Also you may want to date someone a little bit older with a lot more maturity and knows how to respect women. Even if a guy doesn't love you, he still should treat you better than this loser did. Good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for.
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I'm cold all the time. It's weird because I can never seem to get warm. My feet and toes and fingers and most cold but like arms and legs are cold too. I sleep with 3 blankets on me and try to keep bundled up. I use to even wear long sleeves in the summertime until everybody was like making fun of me and saying I must be a cutter (I don't cut myself) and was trying to cover it up. I just get cold easily. What does it mean?
Something that I've tried in the past was to wear really thick socks. If my feet stayed warm, the rest of my body was warm. Good luck.
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20female.
what are some things I can do to make a guy go crazy and really turn him on? I know all guys like their own things or have their own "fetish" but just anything you can throw out there would be appreciated!
Talking about general sex subjects when your out for drinks (alcohol usually gets an honest answer), can lead to some good ideas. Also, find out what kind of porn he's been looking at can give you some pointers to what turns him on. Hope this helps & good luck.
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Stupid Q. My bf said he wants to hit it from the back and I'm cool w/it. This coming weekend we're gonna do it. How do I position myself? No graphic sex talk here pls. I just wanna know how to lay or whatever so we can do like doggy style. Thanx
Typically you're on your hands and knees with him entering you from behind. You may need to spread your legs a little depending on how tall he is. Good luck.
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i hooked up with this guy 2 weeks ago and we had sex. it was fun and after he asked for my number. i gave him my cell but he hasnt called me yet. he said hed make sure to call me soon. how can i tell if i was just a hook up or if hes really interested in me? he seemed like he was really wanting to be with me more than just hooking up and sex. he even kissed me before i left. but he hasnt called and that makes me think he just used me. my bff said to give him time. how much time?
Sorry but you were tricked by another jerk. He said the right things, did the right stuff and made you feel like you were a queen and totally took advantage of that. Typically 3 to 5 days is the max time a guy should wait to call back. Just be careful and don't let the next guy charm your pants off. Good luck.
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is there anything you can eat or drink or anything that can make you smell better when you get wet. i mean its not like i stink like nasty like fish or anything, but i just dont like the smell, is there a way to make is smell better. like if my boyfriend were to eat me out or something im scared it will be disgusting just because i dont like the smell. and is there a certain way you can wash down there or shave to make it really smooth and stay smelling and looking nice. cause i get self cautious of myself down there even though i already do wash it and shave it. but if anyone else has any more advice please please please let me know as soon as possible. please and thankyou and by the way im an 18 year old female
The smell often changes at different times, especailly right before and right after your period but if you notice it stays the same, you may need to try douching. A mix of cider vinegar and warm water once or twice a week may help destroy some bacteria that may be lingering inside. Good luck.
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okay me and my boyfriend had sex and when i looked down i saw blood. i thought it was me but my boyfriend looked and it turns out that his penis head like cracked like dry skin on hands. well he said its becasue we were both dry and i get that but it shouldnt do that and i keep asking if i can see it he also said that its okay now but i think hes afraid to have sex again he kinda got blood in me so i took a shower to get it out i dont know why this happend am i okay is he okay how can we prevent this?
I have seen this happen twice before and the blood came from underneath the head all the way around and his skin was very dry and actually peeling (like a sunbun). So you may want to ask him if his skin was peeling prior to or after you had sex. Good luck.
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ive been getting drunk and making out with a lot of guys nothing serious or crazy but recently i got very drunk and made out with this boy and gave him head.
i feel so weird about it because i think the guy hates me and its making me feel queezy.
i have no feelngs for hthis boy, in my eyes it was jsut pure fun, but to him i guess it was something bigger i dont know.
we havnt spoken since and i dont even want to just im left with this really awful feeling.
i feel like i was punched in my stomach i dont know what to think.
how do i get rid of this feeling and why is this boy thinking so much?
he was also drunk and had free choice!
i know im being kind of vague but hopefully someone could help me
No you're not a whore but I do believe you've got some serious emotion problems. I'm not sure if it's home, school, friends or relationship issues but something is causing you to seek the release of getting drunk and having the approval of a boy to make you feel better. There is nothing wrong with partying with your friends or wanting to meet a new boy but if you're there to get drunk, find a guy, fool around, leave him and then do the same thing next weekend, you may need to talk to a counselor. Let me know if there's anything else I can help with and good luck.
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Do men really care what it looks like "down there"? I'm afraid to have sex because I feel like he will see all the little flaws down there like razor bumps and be grossed out or something. I guess what I really want o know is whether men really carre what it looks like down there. What do most men prefer it too look like?
Btw I'm 17
If you're really that concerned, you need to buy a better razor, shaving cream and lotion, so you won't get those bumps. The schick intuition is a good razor because it comes with soap and lotion built in. It's better to shave when you've been in the shower for a while to soften the skin and hair. But, if it still happens, most guys won't be bothered by it even if he does go down on you. Hope this helps and good luck.
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i need to lose weight so i can feel better about myself.
Please don't buy into any of those stupid pills or quick fix plans because they all say with this product and diet and exercie you can do it. Well, the key to all of them is diet and exercise. Everyone responds differently to different diets but the main key is to take in less calories than you burn. So if you can't help what you eat, then you need to burn more by exercising. If you can cut back on your meals, then you can exercise a little less. Either way, take small steps in the beginning because if you expect to much in the start, you'll probably fail and quit. Good luck.
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I feel like I have a problem... I'm extremely attracted to really dominant guys. I LIKE it when a guy bosses me around... Both of my boyfriends have been very dominant (physically and relationship wise). I also get turned on when a guy treats me like an object... Like showing me off as his prize or getting really jealous when other guys hit on me. When a guy man handles me too... I try not to let people see that this turns me on. Like I act like it bothers me but it actually makes me almost horny... Why is this?? I feel like it's weird and could be dangerous so why am I so attracted by it?
There are many submissive and slaves in the world and you may be destined to fullfil this act. Check out collarme.com and you can find a man that won't abuse you but be very dominant. Just make sure you are sure which you want. A submissive is dominated part time and has a life outside of the relationship. A slave devotes their total life to their master and has no life outside of the home. Good luck.
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My boyfriend and I are sexually active and we both like sex a lot haha but I'm kind of into experimenting. He's just happy with whatever I guess, because we talk and are very open about stuff, but he doesn't really have any things he wants to try. Like when I asked him, he said "I love sex already, it couldn't be any better". But the thing is, I kind of want to have rough sex...I'm not sure why but I think that would be a major turn on for me. But I don't really know how to explain to him what I want...like if I said "I want rough sex" he'd probably ask me what exactly I meant by that and I don't really know what to say haha. So basically, how should I explain this to him? And also, if you're a guy, would it be a turn on for you? I know everyone's different but I'd like some other people's opinions :) thanks!
The best thing you can do is go check out some porn sites (redtube or xhamster) and research bondage or slaves and see what appeals to you. Then, when you've narrowed down the field, find a favorite video, show it to your BF, see what his reaction is and go from there. If he doesn't seem to interested then you may want to tame it down and ease him into it.
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My boyfriend asked me tonight if I was a virgin because he is and has never done anything at all. We've been dating on a couple weeks and I didn't know how to answer it though. This is why:
I've gave a few guys head
I've been fingered A LOT
I had anal twice
I masturbate like once a day
I never had like...sex sex, you know? Like the making babies kind LOL. You know what I mean. Does that mean I'm a virgin?
You really should be honest because you could jeapordize your relationship in the future if he finds out about your past. I would say that you are not a virgin because you have had a penis in your mouth and your ass. Now if you had only been masturbating, even with toys, you would still be a virgin.
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I'm going to confess my crush in the coming week or so! I have strong reasons to believe that the crush is mutual. I have confirmed and reconfirmed the signs just to be sure, and now I feel that I am. AND even if for some reason my intuition is wrong, I'd really like to know how he feels. Keeping this a secret is just annoying, lol.
So, it's his birthday on Wednesday and I feel like that would be a nice time to tell him. I don't want to sound all self-important, but if he likes me, wouldn't telling him on his own birthday be super good news? The alternative is to wait until after the birthday party next weekend, just to see if anything happens then. But honestly, he's so shy that it's unlikely that he'll ever admit it/act on it. I personally think it would be better to tell him sooner rather than later because there's so much of that awkward/tense flirtatious behavior going on at the moment. Won't telling him make us more normal around eachother?
I want second opinions. When would be best, and why? :)
Maybe not telling him directly on his BD but give him a card with 2 tickets to an event or dinner and make sure he knows that he has to take you along as a date. That lets him know that you're interested in him but doesn't require an immediate response. Then during the date you can see where things go and how he truly feels.
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My boyfriend and I are sexually active. The sex is alright, but I noticed he has never gone down on me, although I frequently go down on him. So today I called him out on it, "I said do you not go down on girls?" He said that he didn't, its something that girls should do, but for a guy to do that for a girl is not acceptable.
This is the only way I can get off, but I don't think he really cares. How do I get him to stop being selfish in bed?
I think it may be time to find a new boyfriend. He seems lazy and selfish. If he had gone down on you once and then said he didn't want to do it, then I would suggest better cleaning down there but for him to not even try is plain lazy. There is one other option to try before you give up on him and he may agree to 69 where you both get what you want. But if he can't help, you shouldn't accept second best because do you really want to live like that the rest of your life?
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