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intimacy issues
Do men really care what it looks like "down there"? I'm afraid to have sex because I feel like he will see all the little flaws down there like razor bumps and be grossed out or something. I guess what I really want o know is whether men really carre what it looks like down there. What do most men prefer it too look like?
Btw I'm 17
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When I was your age guys really didn't care or say anything about what a girls vagina looked like . We were just happy that a girl was having sex with us. When we did talk about a girls body it was more like what her breast, ass and nipples felt like and how tight she was, or was she shaved or not.
On the subject of shaving; I have gone through the period of unshaven to shaving and now back to unshaven. Speaking for myself and some of my friends we prefer unshaven.
Sure you might hear some of the old jokes about having to go to the dentist for a hair cut but the fact is women that women who shave do not have the same scent that an unshaven women does. I know speaking with my wife on the subject that you can feel unclean but there are products on the market to help you feel clean and there is nothing wrong with a quick wash to help you feel clean, but not before sex. I like my wife's scent and miss it during the summer when she shaves.
I've added the part about not shaving as to give you an answer to your question and if you are really concerned by razor bumps, that some men prefer the natural look and why.
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If you're really that concerned, you need to buy a better razor, shaving cream and lotion, so you won't get those bumps. The schick intuition is a good razor because it comes with soap and lotion built in. It's better to shave when you've been in the shower for a while to soften the skin and hair. But, if it still happens, most guys won't be bothered by it even if he does go down on you. Hope this helps and good luck.
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well,in a lot of cases I've heard of and have been in,the only things that some of those guys care about is if you shave 'down there' and if you have an STD or anything like that.But I guess you may come across some guys that want 'down there' to look...I guess you can say,"perfect",but you can never be too sure.
So remember:
SAFE SEX,use a condom!
Hope I helped a bit
Sincerely your new friend,
Cuzin
:)
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I've answered this question before and it has never changed...
Trust me doll, He'll be happy just to get there. As long as it's not crazy out of control (and even then.. if he's anywhere close to your age and all the parts work... he won't complain).
It's natural to be concerned about your looks in all areas but trust me, we're dudes. We are visceral beings. It's a lot of work convincing a girl we are cool enough to take her pants off, we're not going to spend the remainder of the night critiquing it.
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I know I'm not a guy but I feel like I can help you with this because I went through the same issue. I was always so self conscious of myself especially when it came to sex or being intimate with a guy. Whenever a guy tried to go down my pants I would automatically push them away because I didn't want them to feel or see what was down there. Finally one night I was with this guy. Things seemed so comfortable and we started making out and he took off my pants, and then we fore-played, and then had sex. To be honest, he didn't even look down there. He was too focused on me instead of my body. When your actually having sex, you get so into it that you don't even think "what's he going to think about my flaws" because he doesn't notice them!! He isn't staring at your vagina, he isn't looking for your flaws, he is too focused on YOU. As long as you shave, trust me he won't care. I always thought "I have to be baby smooth down there or he will be grossed out." Then one night I hadn't shaved for a couple days and I was thinking oh my gosh he's going to be grossed out. He didn't say anything, he obviously enjoyed it. Even after having sex, I was still naked and started walking around because after being so intimate and close with someone while having sex, you feel like they just know, you. You can feel comfortable around them because you have that connection. Please don't let this stop you from being intimate with a guy. TRUST ME, they won't even notice :) If you have any other questions, please ask!
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What a guy thinks is more dependent on him than you. Unless you're shaving designs into your pubic hair or something.
Trimmers are great, by the way. You get like a beard trimmer with a guard, and use it instead of shaving. Keeps you short without stubble or razorburn. You can get a really short guard that just keeps it from hurting you and nothing more, the hair will be short but probably still long enough to be soft and not irritate your bikini area.
Helps for bikini trimming if you're a fan of swimsuits during summer.
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