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All about anal...
I have 4 questions all to do with the same stuff... please answer whichever one/ones you know about. Thanks! And this may be a bit weird and blunt but oh well... stop reading if you dont know.
I'm 23 female and I'm new to anal sex. I really want to do it and my boyfriend is slowly easing me into it so it doesnt hurt. (like with his finger) and when he does that it feels great. It makes the orgasm much more intense and I love it... however I can only handle it so much before it starts to feel like the kinda pressure you get when your gonna poop or fart... and there isnt anything pleasurable about that to me.. I have to make him stop and I HATE doing that. Is that just a normal part of anal sex that I'm gonna have to get used to or is there a way to make it stop? I'm afraid taking his dick will be too much when we get to that point.
Next Question: When he is licking down there... OMG I love it... but I always feel like I'm going to fart. In fact this happens sometimes during sex but mostly just with anal stuff. How can I make sure I dont? Is there a way to get rid of that pressure?
Next question: I heard from someone who doesnt like anal that she doesnt like it because sometimes you have a bowel sitting in your butt that you can touch if you reach in there far enough... How the heck do you avoid this???
Last Question: My butt smells like... well butt. I open my butthole and it smells like butt... I imagine everyone is like this but then why does everyone do anal stuff if it stinks? How can I make sure my butt smells good? Is there a slumber parties thing or something I can buy at an adult store to rub on myself so that it smells good? I know these are weird questions and kinda gross and I'm embarrassed but I really need advice and I'd rather not ask my gynecologist or anyone else I know...
Please no rude comments... just advice. Thank you.
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If you're interested in doing this on a regular basis, you should invest in a good enema kit. This will help reduce the smell and avoid any feces from getting on your partner. Another thing that will help is to get a good strong vibrator to put on your clit when he puts his penis in your anus. The next time he goes down on you, have him start with one finger and work his way up to three fingers. This will make it easier to accept his penis in your hole. Make sure he goes very slow in the beginning and everything should go well. Hope this helps and good luck.
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Below are two websites I found that you should look at that will help you with anal sex.
Things to remember about anal sex:
1. Make sure your partner uses a condom.
2. Use plenty of water base lubricant.
3. Never go from the anus to the vagina without first thoroughly washing the mans penis and groin area. Even with using a condom.
Having an empty bowel helps with the pressure and the feeling that you need to move your bowels. While the feeling will always be there if you prepare in advance, like before your date, you should be more comfortable. Preparation could mean giving yourself an enema. Eat a light dinner if your going on a dinner date.
As for the smell; well we all have some odor back there but if you have showered before your date and are clean back there it should not be a problem. From what you have written your boyfriend does not seem to have a problem with any odor you may have so stop worrying.
One other thing; What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Buy a regular sized dildo and or strap on and get your boyfriend to let you fuck his ass. It's not gay for a man to be fucked in the ass by his girlfriend with a dildo and can be quite enjoyable for him if you massage his prostrate gland with the dildo. Like he's doing to you try sticking your finger up his rectum during love making and see what happens.
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I haven't been on here for a while and so I sorta forget the rules about answering these questions, so I hope this isn't a violation.
Almost all of those problems can be dealt with by going to the bathroom right before anal sex. I know that sounds counter productive, but if you have just gone to the bathroom, then your bowels are empty, and if you have proper hygiene and wipe yourself, then there shouldn't be an odor.
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