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I know you are going to think I am stupid but i really want to work at subway. I used to eat there all the time when I was younger and since then i have ALWAYS wanted to be the one making the sandwiches. Now I am older but still afraid that I am not old enough so how old do you have to be to work at subway anyway? Does it change depending on what state you live in or anything?
Thank you!
Signed,
Make mine a footlong!
Hi,
No, I don't think it is stupid at all to want to work at Subway; whatever floats your boat. Usually, you have to be at least 16. In some places, I hear you have to be 18. It depends on where it is located. If you are absolutely curious, just walk in there and ask. They don't mind people asking questions. Asking shows that you are confident. Don't be afraid of your age and do not be afraid to ask questions. Just go for it if you want to do it :)
ive been on the same birth control pill for over a year now
my periods usually been somewhat consistent, i get it on the 2nd or 3rd day of the last week of taking the pills (monday or tuesday)
todays wednesday and i still havent gotten it
my body has been acting up though...major weight gain and just feeling randomly upset
my boyfriend and i were safe everytime
is it possible to just skip a period on the pill without being pregnant?
Hey there,
Yes it is possible to skip a period when you are on the pill. You could still be having your period, its just you might only have a little spotting of blood, etc. It all depends on the person. Everyone is different.
On the internet some girls say they missed their period the whole time when they were on the pill, while some said they only missed thier period sometimes. So it all depends on the person.
But, just in case, I would buy a home pregnancy test or go to the doctor, just to make sure
I have been with the same person for the past five years. Just a few months ago he informed me that he was engaged to someone else. I told him I loved him & his reply was that, I was never more to him but a piece of a##. He has devestated me & ruint my reputation over his actions. I still love him. Is there away to turn the tables on him? I guess maybe I'm niave because I'm 50 years old & I have never had anyone, treat me with such desrespect or abuse. Any input on how to handle this???
Hi,
If he was with you for five years, then maybe he only thought of you as a good friend.. then when he found a girl he really liked, he kind of just bombed you without realizing what he had done. Guys can be pretty clueless. Did he know you loved him throughout those years? Or was it sudden news to him when you told him just lately? That could have been what made the situation the way it did.
If he is engaged... I don't know if it possible to turn the tables unless they don't get married or get married then have a divorce.
If you want to be with him, you have to tell him firmly how he hurt you, try to find his positive side, start a friendship again, and then see if you could get together sometime just for a coffee or something.
Ask if you can start fresh after that, as if you just met again.
If he is a nice guy, then he will at least be your friend again. Not everyone is meant to be together, but at least friends.
Communicate, restart, forgive, forget, move on (as in get past the incident).
Hope this helped
I had this happen and I didn't know what I should do so I basically just stood there completely quiet and blushing! :( I SO like this guy!
Now he just walked away and doesn't talk to me anymore. I don't see him ever talking to me again like can you imagine how embarrassing it would be if that happened to you? I guess if I am lucky though it might happen again someday so can anyone tell me what to say to a guy asks who how you would feel about a kiss?
Hi,
If you really like this guy and you would like to give him a chance, I think you are going to have to talk to him first. Standing there quiet could have made him feel like you needed more time to think about it, you werent ready, or maybe that he shouldnt have asked so soon. It depends how long you have known him and have been friends with him.
If he is a sweet guy, he should understand that you were shy and he will definately give you another chance.. but, only on your terms. Meaning you have got to talk to him. Tell him 'Sorry, I wasnt really expecting that the other day', 'I would like it if we could get together sometime', or 'I like what you offered me the other day'. This lets him know you are interested in him, but that he may have to give you a little time.
When a guy asks you how you would feel about a kiss, gather up your courage and be completely honest with him. Guys understand. Not always, but most the time. You just have to pull out your game and give him hints so that he knows you are still interested! Wink at him, smile, look him in the eyes, touch his shoulder, sit beside him! AnYtHiNg to let him know how you feel inside about him asking you what he did.
You have the courage within you. Go for it! Be yourself and let him know exactly how you feel
18/m
college student
I love my girlfriend. we've been together for a year or so. I have always put her before me. I want her to be happy. I want to take care of her when she needs it and give her consolation when she's sad. we were best friends before we were in a relationship. we live several states apart and always have. the first time I was with her for a decent amount of time was July '09. I'm visiting her in ~40 days.
lately I have felt lost and havent felt that excitement I always felt when I thought about her. it will come back for about a week but then ill be bumming for a few days. its been off and on for ~1 month.
I started to feel better about it today. I felt bad earlier this morning but she texted "I need you to be strong for me" and I just kind of snapped out of it. I sent a huge message to her telling her about how it was all going to be alright. I felt alot better about it after that and although I felt a little empty in the back of my mind, I overall did a pretty good job of not thinking about it. we had a really good conversation. you were right. It really was that I just miss her. but I'm starting to fall back into the feeling again. I tried calling her and saying I love you over and over but I still just felt a little empty. I cant get rid of it and its eating me up. I really do love her. I know I do. but now is just idk.
I never questioned the foundations of our relationship before but several people have told me that long distance doesnt work and that maybe I want to date other people and Im starting to beleive them. I dont want to! I want my girlfriend. Im in college and theres lots of other girls whom I find attractive, and I crush on them every once in a while, but I know that after a year or so, I wouldnt be as happy with them as I have been with my girlfriend. I have so much in common with her. music, politics, style, viewpoints, everything. but I just find myself thinking about these other girls. I just want to love my girl and not crush on anyone else. how do I get rid of these doubts? I never felt like this before but now I feel like other people have pushed these negative thoughts into my mind. how do I focus on her? I love her. I miss her. i need her. I was so happy with her before all this and I dont want to throw what we have away for some silly crush. please help me.
have you been in a working long-distance relationship before?
have you ever felt this?
im so lost.
-M
Hey there,
It sounds as if you have met your perfect girl. Thats one in a billion zillion million.. I can imagine what you are going through.
Hearing her voice or reading her text messages is what keeps you going. Everyone needs someone who is loving and will always be there for you. I think knowing that she is still rooting for you, even though shes not physically there, is what keeps you strong. I know what it is like to want to be with a special someone forever. I know what it is like to need to be with someone, hold someone, love someone, and be loved. It is not the easiest thing and no matter what, you just have to keep communicating with that person, stay positive, chin up, never stop your leisure activities, and never let go of your closest friends. If you truly love someone.. do not let ANYBODY stop you from being with them.
If you know her well and already know she loves you, then don't let that go. Keep reminding yourself she will always be there for you. Text her, tell her how much you miss her, tell her you love her everyday (and I mean EVERYDAY!), never hold back or she may never know how you truly feel inside.
I believe this girl is the luckiest girl alive to have such a wonderful, caring, sweet, kind, guy like you.
Do not let any guy or girl get in your way. You don't need them. Just her. And she will only know that if you continue to try. Keep contact and always always communicate. Even if its a simple 'Hi there' or 'I was thinking about you' or 'how are you feeling today?'.
Its the simple things that mean the most. In any relationship. Follow your heart
15/f
okay, i keep this short and sweet. He wanted to talk, whilst talking i got mad and walked away, thereby 'ending the relationship'. That night he emailed me apologizing. i said i couldn't decide. i waited too long to say anything and he took it as an apology unnaccepted. His friends say he likes someone else now, but he says he still loves me. Is it too late for me to tell him i want him back? Should i wait for him to start talking to me first, or should i shoot him off an email right this second?
XXXOOO
Lonley_girl
Hey there,
If he apologized, it obviously meant that he wanted you back. Plus, he said he still loves you and that means alot. I don't blame you for wanting to think about it for a minute... but don't just leave him hanging and free for someone else to take (!) Expecially if you feel you want him back. If you trust him with your heart, text him or call him. Tell him you are sorry too and that you hope you could get together again sometime soon :)
Do not shoot him off if you want him or else he may not come back. Tell him how you feel about him and say something such as 'I liked it when you held me'.
Don't wait for him to talk to you first, guys are kind of stubborn at times. Talk to him; be honest and be completely yourself. If hes the right guy, he will be smiling as soon as he sees your name pop up on his cell phone or email ;)
I am a 13 female in Florida and i have been in 2 plays and have taken 1 acting class. I practice all the time; day and night. "I am a great actress", says everyone who has seen me act and myself. I just have ONE SIMPLE QUESTION.
WHERE DO I GET MY START AND HOW? I know this question has A MILLION answers instead of 1 but i have just gotten so many answers i'm confused. Everyone says "oh well it DEPENDS." Have i mentioned how much i HATE that word! =)
I would like to do movies by the way. So if you could help that would be FANTASTIC!
luv you!
Hi,
I believe that you should audition, aUdItIoN, AUDITION!! Search around and see if you can find any movie or other play auditions. There are always some somewhere. The more acting positions you get, the more you will be noticed, and the closer you will be to your goal. Also, your talent bin will increase and you will have loads of fun doing it :)
What you want will not happen overnight... it is the time you put into it that will make your success
next weekend me, this girl and a few friends r going out smoking and seeing a movie. its basically like going out with some friends, but i kinda want to make it more than friends with this girl, what can i do?
Hey,
If you want a girl to know you like her, ask her subtly if she likes you.
Smile at her when shes looking at you, make eye contact, communicate with her, hint that you like her, touch her body (her hair, her shoulder, her arm, hold her by the waist), flirt, and as always relax and just be yourself! Otherwise, it may seem awkward and she might think you aren't being serious.
Get her alone, hold her hand, tell her how you feel, and she will know what you mean ;)
I found out today that my best guy friend that I've been crushing on years has just asked a frined of mine. Before this he kept flirting me,caring about me. Making me believe that we were more than friends. I had just work up the courage to tell him. I was going to tell how I feel on friday. Than i hear this "great" piece of news. The crazy part is that i'm not mad. I don't want to cry, i don't wanna break anything. Honestly i just feel nothing. I feel nothing, i'm numb. I don't know if i'm ok with it our just in shock to feel anything. I feel played, he really lead to me to believe that he liked me. Dagger in the heart. However, the girl he asked out. I like her, me and her our good friends. I don't hate her at all. I don't even hate him. I'm so confused. Why am I not feeling anything? However, her answer was maybe. Part of me whats her to say yes so i can let it go. The other part wants her to shoot him down cold. So what do i do now? Tell him how i feel? shut up? move on? stay in the same place? Or simpy step out of the way and ignore him.
Hey there,
The reason you feel nothing, is because he hasn't truly shown his love for you, you are a little stunned by this, or you are still unsure about your own feelings. I think he kind of did play you if he flirted with you and lead you on, then asked someone else out. The part of you that wants to let it go, is telling you that you know he is a great guy and she deserves someone like him as well or you want to support him in his decision, but then the other part is your heart feeling the love you really have for him.
You shouldn't shoot him down cold. I think you feel this way for you are saying in your head "how could he do this to me?", But then inside, you still like him and know he is a good guy. You are stuck in the moment, which could be why you feel nothing.
I would take him aside or get some alone time with him when your friend isn't around. You should tell him how you feel, he may never know otherwise. Don't keep it inside, try not to be lost in the moment, and don't just shut him out And lose him to another girl. Once he realizes what just happened, he will come back down to your level and just be there for you and with you; At the least, as a friend to start.
I don't know if his flirting was meant to be real, maybe you should ask him how he feels about you.. if he says he feels the same way, im sure changes will be made. If it was all just for show, then support your friend. Someone better is out there waiting for you
My best friend at college and I are in the same major and its very hectic and challenging. We work really late nights in the studio, last night we finally went back to our dorms at 5am after working since 2pm. We keep each other sane during times like this. I'm kind of crazy about him too and I can't tell if he feels the same way but whenever I come to work at his desk he always plays music about relationships and I can't tell if he's hinting something. I broke up with my boyfriend a little over a week ago for other reasons and he really helped me through all of that but when I was with him my friend would play "Over and Over Again" by Nelly..which if you haven't heard it says "I can't keep picturing you with him, and it hurts so bad" and now he plays songs like "Crush" by David Archuletta "I Gotta Feeling"-Black Eyed Peas, "Down"-Jay Sean and "Wonderwall"-Oasis.
I don't know if this is a coincidence or a hint. But sometimes he asks me to pick songs to play but I can't think of any on the spot.
I'm in this situation almost daily, what songs can I play that are about being over the past and having feelings for him?
Hey there,
It sounds like a hint to me. You could always ask, or just flirt with him to be sure ;)
Here are a few songs for you: *Believe-Cher *I Will Survive-Gloria Gaynor *Since You've Been Gone-Whitesnake,Head East, Wierd Al Yankovic, or Little River Band *More Than You Deserve-Meatloaf *You'll See-Madonna *Listen to Forgiveness-Don Henley *Before He Cheats-Carrie Underwood *Bye Bye Boyfriend-Fefe Dobson *You've Got a Friend-James Taylor *Don't Stay-Linkin Park *Don't Speak-No Doubt *You Otta Know-Alanis Morrisette *Don't Look Back-Boston *Gone Forever-Three Days Grace *Never Again-Kelly Clarkson *Time For Me to Fly-Reo Speedwagon *As If-Blaque *There You Go-Pink *Strong-Jordyn Taylor *Fighter-Christina Aguliara *Me, Myself and I-Beyonce
If you want to check out some of the lyrics to these songs.. and more, Check out this website:
http://www.kineda.com/top-10-breakup-songs-to-get-over-your-ex-boyfriend/ it has a ton of songs listed; including the ones above. But if you scroll down, there are a ton of more lists/songs made in all of the comments going down the page.
Hope this Helps!
19 female. i fell for a younger guy. he will soon be 18. whatever, the age difference doesn't bother me AT ALL.
but my problem is that .. he doesn't treat me very well :( i mean he doesnt physically abuse me or ANYTHING like that but he emotionally drains me. he's basically a player and has a way with words urrrgh sucky for me. we are close friends and i think thats just what i want to remain. i think it would be the best for me.. i'd rather be a good friend than just another girl. i didn't even tell him i liked him but i know it shows everytime i see him. i should be upset with him for what he put me through and acting like he "cared" about me more than a friend but he's just one of those guys you cant get mad at no matter what. i want that to change. i hate being SO nice. i'm sick of being stomped all over and beaten down because i'm like that. i always give in. everytime we see each other i fall for him all over again and i give him all the attention.. which is what he loves. he flirts with me tooo .. and its cute but i can't take it anymore. i guess i have a hard time though because i have a flirty personality.. bad. its how i am. i don't know the difference between acting like a good friend or having a crush on someone. how can i just act like a good friend around him without seeming standoff-ish and like i'm ignoring him. i know if he starts flirting with me i will do it back because i also love the attention but i wish i wouldn't. ugh i have a problem. how can i fix this.
Hi,
If he doesn't treat you well, the first thing you have to do is tell him that he doesn't treat you well. He probly does not even realize that he makes you feel this way, and if he does; more reason to tell him that you don't appreciate it! I know what you mean by 'I don't want to be another girl', and you shouldn't have to be. It kind of sucks that he is So nice, but it just comes naturally to some people. You have to let him know that he can't be playing every girl that he wants and if he does want to be with you he has to be 100% honest and not goof around. You don't deserve a guy whos like that. Try as hard as you can to not give into him, and say that to yourself constantly when he is around. Be serious and firm around him as well or he won't ever take you seriously, this is key
i did something stupid in the past accadental but noone knows the true story just people think i am crazy and weird for it. it was 6 years ago tho and i have gotten past it. whenever i least expect is tho, it comes back to haunt me and peopple bring it up. im always scared to yell at people and be who i am bc im scraed people will bring it up and i am powerless to it. i didnt kill anyone or anything serious. it was just a mistake and i get tortured mentally for it.
i was drunk and i was tlaking to this kid in my shcool a year younger, and he brought up what i did and im scared of a boy a year younger! thats how pathetic i am. i dont want to go to school bc i am scared hell bring it up or something. uch what do ido.
Hey,
If it was an accident, other people should know that it was. Instead of wanting to yell, tell those people that 'bring it up' to you, that it was just a mistake. No one will truly understand, until they know the truth. You shouldn't torture yourself for it either. You know it was an accident, it doesn't matter what anyone else says, and you can gain the strength to ignore them if they continue and get through it.
As for the boy; you have more strength then he does, and you happened to be drunk which is the only reason why you feel afraid of him.
Hold your head high, get past your mistake, and never hold what anyone says against yourself. You know the truth of what happened and you can choose to let those people know or not
I just got out of a semi long term relationship, so I kind of need a refresher on how to date. I've been hanging out with this guy every day for the last two weeks, and for about a week we've been kissing and whatnot. I've slept over at his apartment the past three nights (no sex) because he asked me to stay with him. Since us hanging out has kind of become a nightly thing, I sort of was surprised when he didn't invite me over last night. I didn't want to text him and seem clingy, plus it was kind of nice to just hang out with my roommates, but now I've been wondering why he didn't ask me over and all that good stuff. So my question is...do I text him and tell him I kind of missed hanging out last night? Or would that make me look too clingy? I just want to be sure there's still something between us, but asking straight up would probably freak him out. I mean I understand that we're not gonna see each other every day and all that jazz, but is it too much to say I missed him? Because as much as I don't want to seem clingy, I also want to be sure he knows I'm still interested. So help?
Hi,
He may have been busy or something came up and he couldnt have you over. I would text him. It doesn't hurt just to say 'hey, I was thinking about you last night' and start up a convo. You won't seem clingy unless you are non stop bugging him. Also, guys cannot read your mind and they usually don't mind a girl being the first to start the conversation, it actually comes off as confidence if you talk to them first.
Don't ask him straight up if he likes you, but don't be afraid to flirt or give hints that you like him ;) He will be sure that you are interested if you do these two things
OK so my cuz (lilly) and my older sister (June) just moved into my house and now I have to share everyhitng all over again. My other sis just moved out so its like I lost her and gained two others. My sister (June) spends her money on stupid stuff like ciggerets and then gets money off my parents to get other things. Then my cuz likes to barrow all my stuff with out asking me and now she is waving it in my face that she got a camera and a new dress for homwcoming when I didnt because we cant affored it right now.They both get $130 sum dollars in the mail and I get nothing. Then after I said I got a new camera like she did she went and asked my parents for more money for homecoming and I cant get any she keeps taking the stuff I want and now she is mad because I got the shoes she wants. I hate how they both dont respect the fact that we dont have alot of money and wave what ever they get in my face. How do I keep my cool and how do i confront my parents about this. Should I even confront them?
I am so confused
Hey there,
I know what you mean! I used to be best friends with this girl (her family is what I consider to be, real rich and we aren't so much), we hung out ALL the time, until she decided to completely dump me for my brother. Before she did this, she had lyed to me, backstabbed me, and used me (to get to my brother). This was a while ago, but she comes over every single day (arg). I live with my mom, and my mom treats her way better than me basically. I keep thinking to myself 'how could you treat her so nice MOM, when this girl is so mean'. No matter how much I explain.. my mothers the only one that doesn't get it.
And the only way your parents will understand, is if you confront them. Parents are sometimes pretty clueless, until you tell them what is happening right under their noses. Your older sister and cousin obviously do not know the value of money, and your parents are just giving into them. When something is bothering you, your sis and cousin might not know. You have to tell them straight up that while they are there, they have to respect you and your space.
Kind of hint to your sister that if she did not smoke, she would be healthier AND have more money so she doesn't have to ask. You can't really force her to do anything because she might turn what you are saying off, but you can suggest that it would be a good way to save money. Of course she won't stop doin it right away, you have to give it a little time but hint every now and then. Same goes for your cousin; when she starts bragging, tell her that it hurts you when she does that, because you can't afford it. She needs to know that she won't always have everything handed to her for free and that she doesn't realize the value of money by just asking for it all the time. Say how she has so much (give her a list of examples) and that she is so lucky to have so much. Does it really hurt her for you to have only ONE special thing (the shoes)? She has to let you have at least one thing, let her know that.
Also, you have to have your parents to back you up, which is why you HAVE got to talk to them. Have them understanding you, being on the same level, and knowing what your sis and cousin do to you, will let them know that it isn't fair. You do not get money just handed over to you, so why should your sister and cousin be so privileged? Ask your parents if there is a way to have Lilly and June EARN their money. Such as doing some chores or things to help out your parents.
Calmy gather your breath, and let it all out for your parents to hear. Make it clear that you need respect from Lilly and June; they take things for granted. It may be difficult, but nothing is going to change unless your parents know what they are doing. You need your rights too.
When you reach out, things only get better
16/f
i'm a junior in high school, and there's a new program which i'm taking where i go to college as a high school student/college student. so i can finish up my high school and start on my college credit and graduate with my associates and my high school diploma. in the beginning of the year, everything was perfectly fine.. i was able to keep up with everything in my eight classes and get done with stuff early. but a couple of months later, it just suddenly hit me in the face... it started getting more overwhelming, more assignments and projects are handed out, i have a car i have to repair, and to do that i also work on the weekends. is there a way where i can keep everything up and not to become so stressed out about all of is? please & thank you!
Hey,
I know what you mean, work starts to pile up like nothing. I am in grade 12 right now.
To get through it all, you must stay positive (don't forget to breath); work hard, but get your sleep and have a schedule. It will keep you more energenic and organized so you will be able to accomplish everything. Post the schedule in a place where you can clearly see it everyday and make a few if you need, so you can put them in different places. It should allow you to fit all your necissary daily activities in so you have time to do them all. Once you have made a schedule and actually follow it, you will find you can make more leisure time, which will allow your stress to go away. You will become more relaxed.
Remember, do not overthink. If you start getting tired, take a break inbetween assignments. You should not attempt to do everything at once, your brain needs a break about every half an hour. Drink water, and snack on healthy foods such as, fresh fruit and nuts throughout the day; they will keep your energy up and help you feel refreshed :)
You can get through it all! You are able to do anything you set your mind up to do
how can i attract older men/guys? what do they like in women?
Hi,
Of course, it depends on how much older of a guy you would like to have; but in general, any guy loves a girl who has a sweet smile, some of the same interests as him, an awesome personality, and who isn't afraid to just let go and be themselves! As long as you have these things, a guy will always be attracted to you. Sometimes a guy might not even know he has a perfect girl, until you say hi to him ;)
A man is given the world's most difficult crossword puzzle and offered a prize of $100 for every letter he gets right. He writes the same two letters over and over again. What letters did he write and why?
Hi,
Do you know the answer? Or do you just want to hear what others think? Anyhow, I think the letters are: O and H, because you can spell 'oh' and you can spell 'ho'. It has to be a palindrome: a word that can be spelt the same forwards AND backwards. An example is: RACECAR
i have many insecurities ever since my past relationships, and now i'm in a 9 month relationship that i don't show my insecurities, but my boyfriend does know about it. i hate feeling paranoid and stuff like that, is there any way where i can try to think positive and stop being so insecure? thank you!
Hey there,
The only way you are going to get rid of all of your insecurities, is to be honest. You won't stop thinking about the past until you let it go; talk about it with your boyfriend. I know it may be hard, but the best thing is to be honest with him. If he respects you, he will understand. You will get through the rough patches, and hopefully he can comfort you then as well. I would say, you only feel paranoid because you know you are keeping it from him. Keep thinking positive, smile lots, and gather up your strength to talk about it. When you talk about your insecurities, you will feel relieved. Also, you are likely to become even closer to your boyfriend
okay...so i started talking to this kid named tom. he is very sweet and we talk a lot. i am confused on the way i feel for tom. i just told this boy Mike that i liked him (i told him this two weeks ago) (i liked him for two years)..he never talked to me after that...so now im talking to zack a lot and i get butterflies and i feel happy and special whenever i talk to him..but i just sometimes feel different. confused. i have liked mike for so long that i havent been used to ever liking someone else. so now im just confused on my feelings because now i feel so vulnerable and im wondering.. do i really like tom?..but i know i do. i just hate the way i am feeling. i feel nervous and scared because this is going to be new for me. i havent been in a lot of relationships. and i hate feeling vulnerable. please someone tell me that this is normal!
Hey,
So you have three guys? Well, it is completely normal to feel the way you do for all of these people.
Mike is probably not talking to you, for he may be shocked that you just came out and told him that you like him without giving him time to think about his reaction. What I mean by this is, did you give him hints that you liked him? Did you flirt with him and such before you told him? Cause if you didn't, you could have made him think 'whoa, that was a little unexpected'. I am not saying thats a bad thing if you did so, but if you did, he will need a little time to grasp what you told him. When he does, he will slowly come to you again. He may think that you are like a sister to him as well, which could be kind of awkward for him to know you like him ;)
Zack sounds like a real sweet guy. If you get butterflies, and you are happy around him, it means that you feel you can trust him. When you feel 'different' around him, it most likely means you really want to be with him. By the sounds of it, he makes you a little shy when hes around because you would really like to be with him.
You feel confused, for you aren't sure which guy you like the most. But you are sure you like them all. What you should do is get to know the guys better and really decide who you love the most. Who is it that would love you for who you are, make you feel special, hold you tight, AND not take advantage of you. Which guy has everything?
If you feel vunerable, you should let a guy know that you have boundries. Make sure they know what your boundries are and that if they cross them, there will be consequences. You have to take control over your own body. If you take protecting yourself seriously, so will any genuine guy. And if they are nice guys, they will respect you.
For the most part, just trust what is in YOUR heart. Only you know what is and what feels right, and if you feel it is not, you MUST do something to change it. When you know you can trust him, when you feel like you are the most special thing in the room and do not want to be anywhere else but in his arms; you will know you are in the right place
didnt know what category to put this under but whatever.
what are some cool things i can sketch or look good with water color paint? i like drawing werid stuff, and i like blending colors i like abstract stuff i often draw eyes, mushrooms, hands and i dunno just random things. if you have any cool ideas for me let me know pleasee!
Hey,
I have painted with watercolor before. You could paint buildings, trees, or flowers. They are really good to do with watercolor. Nature in general is nice, but you could paint anything you want. If you wanted to paint vehicles, go ahead. If you want to paint animals, try it. And when it comes to sketching, if you like realistic things; you could sketch animals, people, vehicles, flowers, shoes, objects, or random made-up creatures, anything you like! Draw/paint whatever sparks your interest the most :)