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What to say to a guy when he asks how you would feel about a kiss?
I had this happen and I didn't know what I should do so I basically just stood there completely quiet and blushing! :( I SO like this guy!
Now he just walked away and doesn't talk to me anymore. I don't see him ever talking to me again like can you imagine how embarrassing it would be if that happened to you? I guess if I am lucky though it might happen again someday so can anyone tell me what to say to a guy asks who how you would feel about a kiss?
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say i'd love one and cutely smile at him:) works every time. lol.
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At first, it's scary cause youu might think you don't know how to kiss. But in my opinion, I think you should only kiss when youu are ready. DOn't let someone pressure you cause then it won't be soo exciting. You want to have excitment in everything you do. But honestly, there is plenty of boys out there. So don't let just one bring you down.
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Hi,
If you really like this guy and you would like to give him a chance, I think you are going to have to talk to him first. Standing there quiet could have made him feel like you needed more time to think about it, you werent ready, or maybe that he shouldnt have asked so soon. It depends how long you have known him and have been friends with him.
If he is a sweet guy, he should understand that you were shy and he will definately give you another chance.. but, only on your terms. Meaning you have got to talk to him. Tell him 'Sorry, I wasnt really expecting that the other day', 'I would like it if we could get together sometime', or 'I like what you offered me the other day'. This lets him know you are interested in him, but that he may have to give you a little time.
When a guy asks you how you would feel about a kiss, gather up your courage and be completely honest with him. Guys understand. Not always, but most the time. You just have to pull out your game and give him hints so that he knows you are still interested! Wink at him, smile, look him in the eyes, touch his shoulder, sit beside him! AnYtHiNg to let him know how you feel inside about him asking you what he did.
You have the courage within you. Go for it! Be yourself and let him know exactly how you feel <3
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You know what I would say?
I would go up to him with a big smile and say...
I'm ready for that kiss now.
And just look open and happy and accepting. Look him in the eye. He needs to be sure that you are not teasing him.
I guess he felt rejected. That is why is not talking to you now. It must have taken all of his courage to go up to you and say that. And he surprised you. And you didn't react fast enough. And that is OK, because you are both young and just learning how to be comfortable with members of the opposite sex.
And once you do have that little kiss. You can say.
I am sorry that I did not say YES when you offered the first time. It is just that you surprised me.
"But I couldn't think of anything that I would like more." Then say.
"And while were at it....why not a hug too?"
If you think you'll be nervous, then practice saying it. There is nothing more attractive to guys than a confident girl.
Michele
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