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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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whats it mean when you're ears itch on the inside and kinda hurt? i have a sore throat too and it feels like they are connected because when i swallow i can sorta feel it in my ears.

you may have an ear infection.. talk to your mom about it.. and if she thinks you need to consult a doctor.. do so ..

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i been with my gf for 2 months and she says she loves me. i told her its not love, we are getting 2 know each other love will deverlope if we meant 4 each other, time will say so. was that right?

i totally agree.. and i am so extremely grateful that i'm not the only one who feels that way! i believe that in 2 months you can't love someone.. it's just puppy love and can turn out to be real love.. and yeahh time will say so =] so you were right in my eyes .. good luck with her hon

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im 17 male 5'7" weight 130 lb.'s its it ok for my age cause i look realy skinny how can i gain weight i eat a lot fat foods but don't gain weight. can some one give tips.

work out.. muscle weighs more than fat.. ;] plus it's gonna be hard for you to gain weight because you probably have a high motabalism

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Heyy. There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He's not in any of my classes, i only see him in the hallway. Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. Honestly, I have no idea if he likes me or not. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥

lol well if he's shy to you.. you should be really outgoing.. you have to kinda throw yourself out there ;] and be like hey! what's going on .. see if he has a s/n cause that makes it way easier to talk to him =] sorry it took so long for me to respond =/

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Do you guys have ANY ideas on what to buy or make my BEST friend for her birthday?! I want it to be special, but I can't think of anything! Please help.

a photo album with a picture fame in the front and put a picture with you with her in there! =] good luck =]

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I saw my bf at the mall with another guy kissing him! Not just kissing but making out! What should i do? Should i confront him?!
HELP me please!
Thank you soooo much

confrount him.. how else are you going to find out =] i hope everythign works out for the best :/

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hey! okay, i'm 15/f and i'm allowed to get my belly button pierced after our last cheerleading competition, which is around march 13. but, we are going to mexico for spring break on march 24, and i don't know if i should get it done before spring break or not. i want it when i'm laying on the beach and stuff but will the water in mexico and all the chlorine be bad for it? i don't know if i should get it done before or after mexico. any ideas? any info on belly button piercing would be great too!

rather you knwo it or not... chlorine and salt water is actually really good for piercings because it speeds up the healing process so i say go for it! =] i'm getting mine done real soon too.. ;]hehe good luck sweetie =]

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Does anyone know where you can buy the diamond Chanel logo earrings (the two C's)?? Store names or links would be fabulous. :)
thanks!

heres a couple that i found in google =]

http://froogle.google.com/froogle?q=diamond+Chanel+logo+earrings&hl=en&lr=&sa=N&tab=ff&oi=froogler

hope i helpedd

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ok.. so i know this isnt good. but the other day i had a really low self-esteme and i took painkillers.. how many would like really harm me because im worried..

i woudl guess around 15... it's more that patients become addicted.. more than they take an overdose.. hope it all works out sweetie =]

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what events are held at the olympics , not just the winter sports.

swimming, snowboarding, skiing, bobsleding, volleyball, ice skating, track, hurdles, curling, pole fault, high jump, long jump, meter dashes, etc. =]

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has anyone here had a nose job? what was the whole experience like?

i haven't.. but a friend that i know has.. she said it hurt because she had to get it cause she broke her nose or something in softball and had to get plastic surgery =/ but it's weird.. and you get headaches and stuff.. hope it works out for you

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How many calories and grams of fat are you supposed to consume per day to avoid gaining weight?

it's usually 2,000 per day... just try and watch your fat consumed..

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I think that somebody is signing on IM using my screen name. two people have said i said things that i know i never said. they have said i used swear words and have been very rude to them. which i know ive never done. i unlinked all of my sns and deleted my buddy lists so this person could not antaganize any of my friends. i have also signed on another sn that no one know about and kind of been monitoring weather someone signs on using my sn or not. i want to be safe and make sure this person wont do anything more. any ideas?

also -- i had a dream the other night about someone hacking my screen name, does this mean something?

most of the time it's just random friends acting retarted and trying to taunt people.. for fun... try to think if you gave any of your friends your password... then if you remember one that you did.. ask them about it =] hope i helped

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I need to know if anybody is really good at biology? I am struggelling nad could use some help.

i am in biology right now... it depends what chapter your on.. i can easily help you if i went through the chapter i can surly help =] just let me know what you need help on ♥

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my mother is sooo protective.i cant go to the clubs my friends do, i cant go out with my boyfriend on the weekends, i can barely go out at all, shes a real bitch. this makes me have major strops and crying fits, i want to be free for once. all my friends have great lives. im 16 going onto 17 this year and she treats me lka child. i hate it. please help, hel x x x x

i know this isn't what you want to hear but she's just scared for you because your her baby you know.. and if she would loose you then her whole life would go downwords and she would blame her self so here is what i would do... talk to her about it.. i don't know how close you are to her.. but tell her that you know that she's scared for your life and that she doesn't want to loose you but tell her that you need to be social and that if she doesn't let you go out then it will be taking away from your time with your friends and you fun with in your highschool career.. hope it all works out for you =]

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I like this guy but i am not allowed to date till i am 18 and i am 13 now. all my friends are dating and this is the most i've felt for a guy. what should i do or say?

what ever you do..odn't go behind there back.. because they will then loose trust in you and then you will never be able to go out.. i say try to type up a report about why you should be able to date.. it sounds corney but it works 75% of the time.. it will get your parents to put your thoughts into perspective you could also write a letter, or just talk to them aobut it stating your facts and why you want to date.. hope i helped and if you need anythign else just let me know

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Hi
ok well me and my boy friend just broke and i dont like him any more at all..at least thats wat i think...and i wont to get a date for my valintine dance....also its been a year and im goin back to my old ways...blemic stuff(im 5'2 and 141)...its because im fat and its gymnacitic time at my school and im on the team...but i feel way fater them the other girls...and its the only thing i can conterl....my grandma is livein with us and i the one have to take care of her and shes 85 and my mom and dad are never home...and how do i know if my "friends" are really my friens...i know u have alot of these thing but i really need help...asap

alrightyy well i don't really no how to destinguish if a friend is a friend or not.. but let see.. what would i do... it sounds kind of cheesey! but i would prolly 3 way the girls with one of my friends who i know is my friend... and have them start talking about me to them ... and see what happens.. like if they talk crap on me or w.e but idk if you would want to do that.. =] idk how that would work for you .. hope i helped and if you need anything else just let me no && i'll be happy to help

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wow i know this is soo sick but i was wondering if its ok to have a hairy butthole...not like the actuall butt hole but the surrounding area...and how do you get rid of it

lol.. yeahh it's fine.. ig uess.. it depends on where you body grows hair etc. but you could always shave it if you don't want it =]

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my hair is poofy whenever i blow dry my hair when i wash it. believe me when i say its poofy.. so i heard that when you scrunch your hair after you wash it ..it will work and be curly but i have tried it a billion times scrunching it and when it air dries or even when i blowdry it with it scrunched.. its poofy and it doesnt look as good as others.. so what is something i could do so when i scrunch it, it wont come out poofy

you have to use gel to make it unpoofy! =] i use V06 curl construction i think it's called hope i helped!

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i just got my period, but the thing is, i got it 2 weeks ago, too. im really worried, im not expecting it for another 2 weeks! whats wrong?

nothings wrong hunny! don't worry.. everything is fine.. it's normal to have irregular periods =] hope i helpedd

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