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what are some ways to FORGET a guy? i love him so much but i need to get over him! its so hard cuz he likes my friend and she likes him back and they're rubbing it in my face. how can i forget him?

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I talk to a guy online who used to go to my school, then moved to another state, when he went to my school we werent really friends, and never spoke to eachother.

Then a friend gave me his email. So I added him and started talking to him, this was about a year ago. He had a girlfriend back then, and I, also, was with someone. We only spoke about once a week, and always ended up having an arguement over silly things.

Then about 3 months ago, we started talking normally. I fell inlove with him. He always called me things like beautiful, just flirting. Then he started liking some girl, and he stopped calling me nice things, I was heartbroken.

After that we didnt speak as often, but then one day he said "Hey beautiful, thats what I'm gonna call you from now on" I was happy, then we started talking more regulary again.

I always told him I loved him, I think he thought I meant as a friend. Christmas day I sent him a really sweet text message saying:

Hey Mike!

Merry Christmas...

I don't even know if you're awake yet, but you should be.

Nearly a year since I met you!

I didnt want to add you on MSN when Abel told me to, but I'm glad I did.

You're really awesome, and sweet. And I'm glad you're in my life.

I love you, xxx.



That night he said sorry I didnt reply, I didnt have any credit, but your message was really nice. He was being so nice to me.

Then lastnight he kept calling me beautiful and being really sweet to me, saying he wishes we could meet up, knowing it would be impossible, me being allowed to leave my state alone and all.

We stayed up till 3 talking to eachother online. He said he was going to bed, and kept like putting the love heart sign thing [

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so im 14/f and im so called "different" from everyone else. i dont look the same as them because i have my own style and im myself. being a freshman sucks too. anyway i dont have a boyfriend. i mean boys talk to me all the time i guess they just dont like me? This one even walks me to class and sits by me all the time. So does that mean he likes me? How can i tell if they like me?

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im a 14f and i was just wondering what guys think is sexy. what makes you like a girl or ask her out. and what are some reasons you would not ask a girl out
THANKS!

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hey im 14 and well my mom doesnt really let me go out shes very picky and i was wondering if maybe anybody knows ways to go out with out making it obvious.

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do u still like luke

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ok i know it seems weird soem girls just talk about how horribel it is to have small boobs but i feel insecure about myself becasue i have realy big boobs adn i am only 13 i have a size D cup and i here guys talk about girls who have big boobs liei soem of my friends and say how big boobs are hard to work with and that big boobs are good to a point i dont knwo if i shoudl try to reduce the size of my chest or keep it normal i need help thanxs so much and no stupid remarks pleezzz

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heyyy vilLy! you were like a featured columnist so i figured maybe you could help me out!
allrite so i really really like this kid joe..and he knows. the thing is tho he likes both me and my friend mary. well mary knows i like him ..and sadly mary likes him back. so theres this big love triangle ..i like joe he likes me.. mary likes joe and joe likes mary..and me and mary are kinda friends but not like ..tight you know?
sooo okay that was sooo confusing im really sorry. well tonight online he told me to call him around 8...so i did naturally. he basically said on the phone ' sorry i cant talk im shopping' and i said oh allrite and he hung up! wtf?!
i later find out online that he was at the movies with mary and never told me. mind you that me and him are "bff" and so are me and mary.
sooo tonight i flipped out on him cuz he wouldnt talk to me or anything! i cried, yelled..the whole nine yards..he said he was sorry and it was dumb but like should i get over him? let it pass?...what do i say to mary? i really really like him and i dont want to let him go.
THANKS SOOOO MUCH GIRLLL

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this is what happened..

an hour and 10 minutes ago my phone rang and my caller ID said it was my boyfriend so i was all excited and im like 'hayy' and my 'friend' answers so im like what? She goes 'hey its ***** im at the mall with *my boyfriends name* ahahhaahahhaha ok bye' im like what the hell that was really mean and i start hysterically crying.
so i call my boyfriends phone and she answers nd im crying nd im like 'can i talk to *my boyfriends name*' and shes like 'why are you pist' nd im like 'because you call me and your like 'oh yea were at the mall and im with *my boyfriends name* and your not haha'

Im like 'can you put him on please' shes like no why are you pist' im like 'can you put him on please' nd shes like no nd im like can you just put him on! and she goes YOUR A BITCH and hangs up!!

so now im crying 10x harder

I call one of my good friends for support and when she answers i hear their voices in the backround talking about it so im like OMG SHES WITH THEM! I say 'are you at the mall' nd shes like 'yea why are you mad at *friends name*' nd im like 'is *my boyfriends name* there' shes like yea nd im like can i talk to him shes like r u crying? im like yea and then she screams '*my boyfriends name* YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS CRYING COME HERE NOW AND TALK TO HER!!"

I hear "*my friends' name* screaming NO NO NO DONT TALK TO THAT BITCH and MY BOYFRIEND IS LAUGHING!!!!! and she hangs up on me like taking the phone from him. so now im crying 10x than before


I call him nd hes like 'why is *'my friends' name* so pist at u' nd im like 'howcome when i ask to talk to my boyfriend i get called a bitch' and hes like 'i dont know because your being..nevermind im not gonna say it *our friends name* you say it' and hands the phone to our friend.


So then our friend says "why are you mad at *'my friends' name* nd i told him nd hes like ohh or whatever and my boyfriend gets back on the phone nd im like 'you know what go go be with them because i dont give a shit. go have fun'

He goes 'no' nd im like YES **** BECAUSE I DONT CARE AND NEITHER DO YOU SO HAVE FUN' nd he goes 'sorry bye' nd i hang up! that makes me 305894085940865 times worse because he doesnt even care


i was crying for so long. this is soo horrible! what should i do? and he always says to me 'what are you doing later/tomorrow want to hang out?' and im always like 'yeah' but we never wind up doing anything and now he goes to the mall with my best friends and he doesnt invite me, neither do me so called 'bffs'. im so effing upset right now. any advice? anything at all. oh and if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all'


thanks for reading all of this. xo byee

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13/F

okay well me and this guy Jordan dated for 6 months and he dumped me in August. I know I had my chance before and everything but now i realize i still really like him! I really never stopped liking him acctualy. But now my best friend Chelsey is dating him!! What should I do? I can't tell Chelsey that I still like him becauase then She'll hate me forever. Should I try to break them up? Should I talk to Jordan about it or maybe straighten things out with Chelsey (( prefferably not )) ? Please help me. I'll rate 5's unless you're mean.


Sincerley,
Broken-hearted lover

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what is zen nano I was just asking because i have no clue what a en nano is LOL

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OK i am 14 now and my hole life i have never cut my hair ewell i mean trims and when i got gum in it but thts diff. ok its dirtyblond brownish. and past my hips. and lots of people think i should cut it but others think i should leave it alown. and it looks really good when i curl it or what ever but i don't know cus i don't look at it from other peoples point of view so I don't know what i should do with it cut it or no. and also if you have any ideas about stuff i can do with it like styling it like other than down and ponytails. please help
~Goldylocks~

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CDZINC.COM
how do you take the music from there and save it to your computer? i want to put it in dell jukebox, but it opens up in windows media player. so basically all i want to know is how do you take the music playing in media player from that website and save it to "your music"
thanks.

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My friend Kim is really down because her mom just found out that she has cancer. I had her over to my house to make her feel better, but I don't think it helped that much. I don't know what else to do to make her feel better. What should I do?

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LONG STORY!!!!SORRY
I'm 16 and recently went back to work at the restaurant I worked at the previous summer. I was surprised to find out that J., 20, had started to work there on the same day that I came back. We worked together last summer, I had no strong feelings for him this way or that.

I began to flirt with him immediately, normally I wouldn't do this, but I am comfortable around him. He's always set me at ease. I did childish things like throw parsley at him, he often attempted to throw it right back.

Anyway, as time went on we'd stand close together in the doorway, just subtle flirtatious things like that. Later, he began to flirt back with me by putting me in headlocks and lightly pushing me. Sometimes we'd hold hands until the next session of flirtation began.

To make a long story short (I'm sorry! I don't want to bore you! ^^;;) I asked him if he had a girlfriend, and he said he did. I almost slapped myself, was he ever planning on telling me if I never asked? I guess I should have asked earlier, but maybe I didn't want to know if he did...

So even though I really liked him I tried to not flirt with him, I felt that things were just "weird," because it feels so natural to have the flirtation between us. I don't want to hurt his girlfriend, but I can't help the way I feel...

So later after I pretty much had stopped my advances, he starts to flirt with ME again! (not vice versa!) What am I supposed to do?! I flirt back, because I still have strong feelings for him.

One night when we worked alone we got drunk (well I had 2 beers, he had 3) and we played around some more. We did the normal flirty things that we usually do, stand really close together, he holds me and runs his mouth/face over my neck/collarbone. Then our boss shows up, we scramble outside and I ride around with him in his car (I was afraid to drive).

He said he wanted to have sex with me, and I told him, "No way. I'm a virgin. I'd never have sex with you unless I really really liked you and you were my boyfriend."

I told him the last part to be nice. I'm really saving myself for marriage. Later before he dropped me off and said that he wanted to kiss me, but he said he shouldn't because, A. I'm "too young", and B. he has a GF. I gave him a kiss on the cheek and told him Goodnight. That way his GF can't be mad at him.

Another night (next week) we got drunk again at work, I had 3 wine spritzers and he had a beer. We fooled around some more and I kissed him, or he kissed me...I don't know. He told me I was a good kisser (but you never know because boys lie! :-P) and that he wanted me to kiss him again. I eventually end up kissing him more and more that night before we went over another restaurant that my boss owns. He's my second kiss, and I love kissing him. Of course, because I was drunk I told him that when I was kissing my first kiss I was thinking about him. (I was!)

He told me that he would date me if he didn't have a girlfriend already, I told him that I would wait for him...oh, he also said that he likes me.

He also told me that someone told his girl that I had a crush on him. We think it was one of the waitstaff, that told one of HER friends, that told his girl. (Yes, one big long chain of ppl ^^;;) I asked if he would act weird around me when that certain waitress was around, first he said probably, and then he said he would act the same around me. I was happy when he said that, I don't want things to change. Oh, this was also on another day of working alone together, we were sober!

So the day after our kiss, he acts Coldly around me. He tries to avoid me if possible, and barely talks to me. The next day is kind of the same, but he tells me he had a huge fight with his girlfriend (that wants to beat me up..) partly over me. He told me that he told his girl that he didn't care about me.

So here I am. I'm confused and lost. I really like him. I don't want to get burned, but it appears to be too late. I know that if I dated him, I would be the only one..but how would I be for sure when he flirts with me and has a girl?! I don't want to have these doubts, I trust him completely.

How should I act around him? What should I do? I just want to flirt with him, and he with me, and have everything be alright.

I can't stop thinking about him, and I just want him to come back to me. What has his problem been lately? I just don't understand. I can't turn to anyone else for help.

Thanks!

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Ok well i want to downlaod music free, but not illiegal. Not going to download a program like limeiwre or winmx. I need a stie wehere i can get them for free that are compatible with ipods. Know any?

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what is love really about?

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Ohkay, let's say im sick, just congestion. Like my nose is all stuffy. And i go out and by a naysel spray. if i take too much of that even by accident, can i permenantely damage my brian or body?

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this guy that I like wants me to hang out with him and a couple of guy friends. he told me to bring along some of my friends but the thing is i dont really have any and i dont knwo what to do its embarressing.

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I dont really have friends and I know its all about conversation but I kinda get stuck on what to talk about. I dont do anything during vacations or weekends. What should I do to get me communicating better

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