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God gave us two ears and one mouth so we could listen twice and speak once.
Hello Sunshine!
My name's Jamie..call me what you prefer.
I'm not here to judge, just to help people with their problems.
I love helping people out, it's one of the most satisfying feelings.
When you rate me, I'd prefer if you put a reasoning behind the rating, just so I know how I'm doing/how I can improve.
Feel free to leave me questions!
XOXO.
>> PS. If you plan on asking me a question, please, type grammatically correct and put punctuation marks where necessary...instead of like this: "muh boyfran lefff meh nD eye dunno waddado. halp?" (haha okay maybe that's a little exaggerated.. but you get my point!)
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I'm looking for stores that sell clothes like Alloy, delias, forever 21, and rave. Anyone got any suggestions?
Places like, Marshalls, TJMaxx,..anything like that.
They have good prices there too :)
Hope I helped!
-Jam
do you shave "down there"? is it weird if you do, or if you dont? i wanna know, because me and my boyfriend have been doing a lot lately, and i think he wants to go further, and i do too, so should i shave "down there"?
It's up to you, it's based on your preference. Your guy should love you for who you are. It's your decision, not his.
However, it's not weird to shave "down there".
It's not weird to not shave down there either.
Again, like I said, it's based on your preference.
Hope I helped,
-Jam
My boyfriend & I's one year anniversary is coming up in a week. I have no idea what to do for him! I want to take him somewhere, but I'm not sure where. I also wanted to buy him a gift or make him one, but am clueless on what to do. I had two plans- I was going to take him to this local plantation that has beautiful gardens in it, but it's closed for a bunch of remodeling until March. Then my second option was to take him to this aqaurium that is 45 minutes away, although his parents won't let him drive that far. So now, I'm stuck on what to do. There is the choice of going to the movies, but we always do that. And we live right near the beach, but it's way to cold to do anything there.
Go out to dinner, and then bring him to your house. Before you leave, however, make sure your house is decorated-use rose petals and balloons that say I love you-anything to that effect :)
Good luck, and best of luck with you two!!
-Jam
Ok so there's this guy his name is Matt and i really like him but you see first of all i've never had a bf before except once and i moved away a week after we got together so i wouldnt consider him a bf but anyway i'm a 13 year old girl and this guys matt is in my grade (8th grade) and at the beginning of the school year i was sitting in my choir class and one of Matt's friends asked me if i would go out with Matt and i said no thinking they are joking or something so then a few days ago i was walking out of my choir class and these 2 guys corey and jeremy which are matt's friends and they ask me if i would go to the Valentines dance with Matt and so i told them i would get back to them and tell them my answer later though i never did cause i wanna know if they are joking so someone help are they joking or not???? and if you cant tell jsut any advice would be great please and thanks
I agree with one of the people below me - he could be shy, a lot of guys your age are. If his friends aren't laughing when they're asking you to these things, then either they're serious or just really good liars.
I don't think they'd be kidding around with this twice in a row. But, just in case, you should confront Matt and ask him if this is true! You don't have to say it face to face (because I know that could be a little..erm, okay, VERY nerve racking!). Instead, AIM him or text him, something of that sort.
Hope I helped & I wish you the BEST of luck!
-Jam
OK, so I'm kind of interested in my ex again. We recently started talking after two years, and I think I might have feelings for him again. He's just taking a 'break' with his girlfriend. We flirted a LITTLE, but How else can I just drop him a couple hints?
Just keep flirting :)
For flirting tips...
There's a lot, otherwise I would have copied & pasted my best advice.
But yeah, good luck! :)
-Jam
okay so im blonde. and people sometimes serouisly think that im dumb - just because im blonde. and it kinda pisses me off at times cuz they treat me like im just stupid. and im not. i get A's and B's on like everything and get pretty upset if i get like a ac or lower. and still even if i tell people that im smart, they just think im stupid. what should i do?
Just let them talk! Ignore them, that's the best to do, because then they'll get bored of doing it and eventually stop. You can also show them your report card :). That should do the trick!
Good Luck!,
-Jam
i'm on i diet and i want to lose 20 lbs. what are a few healthy cereals without too much sugar and stuff like that, that i can eat every morning that are good for diets? please name a few because i get sick of eating the same cereal every morning, thanks!
-Cheerio's
hi im a girl and im in the 8th grade. at the end of the year theres this dance for everyone in our grade and we all get dressed up and the girls wear dresses. they arent too fancy or anything though. does anyone know where to get a cute dress for that? i would like it to be around knee length a little longer, basically anything just not as long as floor length. it would have to fit me too im a 14/16 girls or xs and a 00 at the biggest. and does anyone know some good makeup or hair ideas for something like this? my hair is about shoulder length and blonde.thanks soooo much!
Hey,
We had one in 8th grade too. I got 2 dresses; one from JCPenny's, and one from Macy's. Penny's are more expensive and Macy's had good prices. I curled my hair and then put it up. Just do your face makeup naturally. Good luck & have fun!
-Jam
Ok, my boyfriend is really into drumming and he was talking about wanting some "metal sticks". I was wondering where you could get some of these and what the price range on them could be?
Hey,
They're like..$35? I think
Hope I helped,
-Jam
hello! My advice column has the visitors and says"10" does it mean I have ten questions or something?
~*jcjenniz987*~
ps:I am a member here and need help with some things and is new
Hey,
Welcome to Advicenators!
It means that 10 people have looked at your advice column.
If you need any help, feel free to drop me a message in my Inbox!
-Jam :)
hi im 16/f & i need some tips on wht should i do for my 16th b-day party? thnx byee!
Hey, Happy Birthday!
Hope I helped!
-Jam
ok so i really like this guy but i dumped him cuz he was going to dump me but i still want him but hes going out with one of my good friends even though she said she wouldn't i think shes a backstabbing slut but shes my good friend and if she likes him i want them to be happy but i am still in love with him what should i do get him back and how or leave like it is him being happy and me being so lost and sad
luv ya like a sista
Hey,
K this was very hard to read. PLEASE use punctuation marks next time, alright?
DON'T BE HAPPY FOR THIS "FRIEND"! THEY'RE BACKSTABBING YOU IF THEY SAID SHE'D NEVER GO OUT WITH HIM!
And as for the boy, just forget about him. If he was going to dump you before, what makes you think he'll stay with you this time?
Save yourself the heartbreak, and move on from both of these two timers.
Hope I helped, and that all goes well.
-Jam
Heyy everyone! :D
im Hailey
Hey,
I'm a girl, but just as anyone, I'm sure that they like to be chased...to a certain extent. Don't do it too much, for they may come to think of you as a stalker.
Don't go out of your way to talk to them. Just act CCC-Calm, cool, and collected.
Do ask him for his s/n if you want it, though.
But, when you talk to him, don't bother him, you know?
Do show interest if you like this kid, but not too too much.
Hope I helped, good luck!
-Jam
I have a younger brother who is 13. Everytime I have food in my room such as a gift basket my friend made me with all kinds of sweets, he ends up taking a bunch of it. Sometimes it's just one or 2 pieces out of 100 so I don't say anything. Today I found a sucker wrapper and I told my mom about it because I was mad that he went into my room and took it...and it's the hundreth time. She didn't really do anything...just told him "sternly" that she didn't want him in my room. What can I do to keep him from taking my things??
I gave him a big bag of 3 musketeers for Christmas and I share with him sometimes. We have cheez its and wheat thins in the pantry so he's not starving.
my mom tries hiding food from him too and he always finds it.. and also, I want easy access to MY food and MY things.
Thanks for any help. - 16/female.
Hey,
Find a really good hiding spot.
Then, put a basket of "candy" out--
But replace the candy with a note that says "Better luck next time!"
Good luck,
-Jam
My school is going on a trip to Islands Of Adventure in Orlando, Florida. Does anybody know how much express passes are? You know, the passes that let you get on the ride faster? Answers will be greatly appreciated.
Hey,
You just got me sooo jealous of you!
Haha. Anyways, they're about $25. [ I THINK ]
Have fun!!
-Jam
Corel Paint Shop Pro XI.. does anyone know the website.. to download that?
Hey,
http://www.download.com/Paint-Shop-Pro-Photo/3000-2192_4-10585273.html?tag=lst-0-1
It's only a trial though.
Good luck and happy editing!
-Jam
Does anyone knwo how to change the background color to your avice column? Right now mine is yellow and brown =/. Pleaseeee help lol. Thanksss soooo much!! :D
~hailey~
Hey,
Try this! :)
http://www.advicenators.com/backgrounds.php
-Jam
13/f
I really want to be a film director, and I havn't told my mum. She has always said that I can do any job I want as long as I am happy. But I can tell she just doesn't mean it. She wants me to do acedemic stuff and keeps hinting that I should do something to do with maths or science (even though she knows I hate the subjects). It's annoying cos I know for a fact that when she was younger she hated maths and science herself, and wanted to do something creative.
She hates the media, she thinks everyone involved in it are sad and attention-seeking. Whenever she talks about it makes me feel really hurt cos I want to be a film director more than anything in the world and that's to do with the media.
I'm only 13, so it might not seem like a problem, but we're choosing our options at the moment so she keeps asking me what subjects I want to take and what I want to do when I'm older. I just keep saying I don't know, even though I do, because I know she wouldn't like the truth.
I just don't know what to do. I can't keep it a secret from her forever. Any ideas?
Hey,
Just be honest! As long as you're happy, she should be too. She also should be more acceptive of the fact that you REALLY want to do this.
But, keep in mind, that, yes, you are 13. You still have a long way to go-consider other options if worse comes to worse.
Hope everything goes swell! :P
-Jam
this year all the boys in my school are having bar mitzvas, and theyre all dance partys. i was wondering if anyone knew any places to get dresses that arent to expensive and that i could dance around in? im pretty tall (5'4) and skinny, and i have brown hair if that means anything. o and im a girl, if you couldent tell. the dresses would need to go to the knee but can be sleevless. thanks!!!
Shop at DEB'S!- They have the best, and they're not too expensive.
Hope I helped! :) Have fun.
-Jam
hey guys..13/f and i live in Canada..i have a book report due soon and im not sure which book i should read. I loved The Outsiders and if anyone has ANY suggests of any book with that same idea (Not including the other S.E Hinton books), or just any good book that is grade 8/9 level, PLEASE let me know!
Thanks:-)
-Krazy
Hey,
Well I have no idea what the Outsiders is like, but I do know a good book.
"Don't Die, My love" By Lurlene McDaniel =