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Hey I'm mystical_breeze! I'm a Christian, so Jesus comes first in my life. When I'm older I want to be become a comsmetologist or a writer. I love the jonas brothers like whoa man :]

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OK I've tried everything I possibly could to fix this friendship but I can't. She's impossible!! She even signed on to my crush's xanga and left me a note telling me he liked me when it was really her. How do I rekindle this friendship? No smartass answers. I rate 5's!

Forget about her or talk to her about it. This girl isn't worth your time, and honestly, do you want to keep dealing with this from her? She might think it's funny to pretend to be your crush and all that crap, so just ignore her. Don't start freaking out on her, just tell her she is really bothering you and she needs to stop. If she doesn't listen, ignore her. Follow what your mind says, and I think it's saying, "Forget about that girl and let her down easy,"

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i am 15 and going to be a sophmore at my highschool. and i guess me and robbie had a crush on eachother in 5th grade and we went out in 6th grade and 7th but on and off ( you now how those middle school relationships are, dont mean anything) but i guess its funny because we even talked in middle school after elementary and he IMed me the other for the first time since like 8th grade.. but we have been talking online the last couple of weeks and lastnight he asked me to hangout sometime next week. we will probably end up going to see a movie or sumthing but honestly ive never really been on a date. ive had serious relationships but i mean we didnt go on dates first, i dont know how to explain it. so i need some ideas on where to go, what i could wear, and some stuff to talk about. thanks alottt

The movie theater is an awesome place for first dates, and if you go there with him, wear something comfortable and not too fancy. Jean caprees and a nice t-shirt with matching sandles would look cute (Don't spend a lot of money. You can find good clothes just at Walmart or even Fashion Bug). If you're going out to eat to a nice resturaunt, a cute skirt and a button-up, short-sleeve shirt would be fancy enough. Whatever you're comfy in is what you should wear. Honestly, guys don't care if you dress up like a model, they will like you for just keeping yourself nice. The mall, the zoo, even just hanging out in your house and watching a movie will be a good date.
Talk about things you're interested in. Don't talk about boring things like school, because that conversation will end up being boring. If you like sports, talk about which teams you like. Talk about your fave celebrity or singer, and just tell your opinions.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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My dog's throwing up blood, and I need to know, is there anything we can do??? & We can't go to the vet.

CALL THE VET. You can't just say, "Oh my dog is throwing up blood, but I'm too BUSY to get help for him," Call the vet and tell him/her what's going on with your dog.

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What does btw mean?

BTW means by the way

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ok.. here we go.. I am totally in LOVE with my ex boyfriend.. the only reason we broke up is because he went back home (to minnasota from newjersey) he's comming back durring the winter varation. I miss him so much! but i like this other guy who's about to ask me out.. but the thing is idk if i'm ready to stop thinking about my ex right now. but i don't wanna ruin my chances with this new guys.. wat do i do? PLEASE help!

I suggest really think about this. Decide if you want to stay with your boyfriend, and if you really love him, you'll wait for him (even though you're both in a long-distance relationship). I suggest not going out with a ton of different guys, because that can just make things worse. You have to decide by yourself if staying with your boyfriend is the best thing for you and him, and if you decide not to, you can't keep going back.

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How do I show or tell my boyfriend how much I love him?

You are his girlfriend! Be creative... think about it.

*Edit: No prob. Ask again =D

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what are some REALLY good icon xangas?

http://www.xanga.com/love_icons

http://www.xanga.com/lovely_icons

http://www.xanga.com/icons_for_you

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i am 13 and my boy friend is 13 we have been goin out for 3 days and he wants to hang out but i dont no like what to do when we hang out im kinnda shy so what should we talk about give me ideas on what to do and what to talk about

Buy a throw-away camera (or use a digital camera) and take pictures of you both together. It'll be fun once you look back at the pictures. You should also talk about personal things (not boring stuff like homework and school). Maybe tell him some funny things you experienced, and that will make him want to open up to you also. Ask him what kind of music he likes or what kind of movies, then maybe you could rent a movie to watch.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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Okay, so i met this guy on july fourth and ever since then we've been hecka tight. like we hang out all the time and stuff, and we're pretty muchly best friends. So like 4 of my friends like him. And so i asked him who he liked and i thought it would be one of them.. but then he goes and says that it's me and he was totally serious. And, i hope he wasn't just being friends with me cause he liked me. I mean, i just like him being there as my best friend. I don't know i told him and everything and he was like oh don't worry that doesnt hurt my feelings i know were hecka good friends and stuff.. and then we just talked for a couple hours last night about just regular stuff.. was that the right thing for me to do? i mean.. i told him the truth.

Yes, you did the right thing by telling him the truth. If you lied and said you liked him back, well that would turn into a mess and a lot of trouble. It's a good thing you told him how you really felt. It might've hurt his feelings but it's better then lying and then him finding out the truth after.

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Aight, which girl should I go with? Here are my options:

-Sort of preppy, very smart, I like her, she likes me as a friend
-Best friend's sister. Sort of tom-girl-ish
-Internet girl. 2 years older than me. I like her, she likes me. We share similar interests. Don't know what country she lives in. Haven't seen her in 2 months.
-Tomgirl. Known her since I was a year and a half old. Fairly smart.

Please help, I usually rate 5s if I choose to rate, and I'll leave comments. Wiseasses get 1s.

Well I'm not trying to act all wise and stuff but honestly.. we don't know them and we don't know you. It's your choice who you want to go out with, but I suggest NOT going out with someone online, because it's not very romantic unless you meet in person (which I don't suggest doing for obvious reasons). Follow what your mind and heart says, because those are the only things that can tell you the right things to do. =)
Love,
mystical_breeze

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I am thinking of making a website. I know HTML and that stuff. I was just wondering if anyone knew of any Good but Free Web Host?
~Thanx alot

Um if you're not experienced you can use matmice.com, but if you are experienced use xanga.com. I personaly like xanga.com, geocities.com, and freewebs.com. If you need any help on matmice or xanga, leave a message in my inbox!

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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hello...
im 13/f and my friend was over at my house today and i showed her this site and she wanted an advice column. i told her that she was to young (shes 11) and she got really mad. so my question is:
why doesnt this site allow anyone under 13 to be a columnist?

will rate

The people who check this site won't let 11 year olds probably because people ask sex questions and a lot of 11 year olds don't want to learn about sex and it might scare them at first (it scared me when I learned about it when I was 10) so I guess that's why.
It sucks though that people have to have all these innapropiate things in their lives if they're like 14 years old with sex and everything.. kids shouldn't have sex and it's disgusting.

Love, mystical_breeze

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I have liked this guy for a year. He said he liked me and to wait till summer so we can be together. Well its summer and he still never asked me out or anything. Hes hurt me soo many times. I met this other great guy and i think we have something. And I know that he'll never hurt me. I dont know who to like!!!

Just go for the guy who wont hurt you. That other guy had his chance, and if you know you like another guy, go for the one YOU like. It was the other guy's fault he didn't ask you out sooner, and you don't have to wait for him if you have a good guy already who wont hurt you. Follow your heart, but also use your head.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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Hey I was just wondering what some good ways to find families to babysit for are. I want to babysit within my town though. I'll rate high!
Kelli

Advertise in your neighborhood, school, or church. When people find out you're an experienced babysitter (I bet you are) then people will start calling when they need you. I don't suggest advertising at a grocery store though, because then random strangers can call you. In your advertisment, include your name, age, phone number, and ages you babysit. I suggest taking a babysitting course (like I did) and learn CPR. Parents look for babysitters who knows CPR and child care usually, and you'll find more clients that way.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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Hey,
Im a 14/m and i babysit. Im NOT gay!!! i have a gf (were pretty steady) and everything. But babysitting is fun bc i like to b with lil kids and im getting payd 4 it. its easy money. Do the parnets whos kid im babysitting think im gay? bc ive gotten a lot of ppl who think im gay.

It's not bad to babysit. I think it's good you like to be with kids and take care of them.. don't worry about it. My brother who is gonna be fifteen also likes to babysit, and is NOT gay. If the parents think you're gay, just tell them and if they don't believe you, who needs them? Stop baby-sitting their children if they don't respect you.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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wut r the things that girls like about guys? and wut things should we give them as gifts? Im in despate need of help! I just dont understand girls!

Well all girls are different. You can't expect all girls to like the same things and the same guys. Some girls like romantic guys, while other girls like guys who can just be funny and not too serious in a relationship.

I like a guy who can talk to me first. Who isn't too shy and can start a random conversation with me. He would be outspoken in a conversation and can tell how he feels. He has to have a funny personality also, but can be serious when he has to be. It wouldn't matter if he bought me a lot of stuff, just a nice gift once in awhile would be sweet.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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Does anyone know any good books about like girls who are about 13 or up?

You mean fiction..? My fave are:
The Baby-Sitters Club Series
The SisterHood of the Traveling Pants
Camp Confidental

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I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend until im 14 or 15. is this fair? why?

VERY fair. My Dad won't let me date until I'm eighteen, but my mom will let me date when I'm sixteen. Honestly, 11 is too young to date, but just to like a guy and maybe be his girlfriend is okay. Parents just do this because they are concerned about your safety.

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13/m. me and my girlfriend have been going out for two months now. but im a pagan which most people think is devil worship but thats really not the case. but the point is shes christian and i dont want her to think im a devil worshiper, cuz im not, and break up with me so should i tell her about my religion or keep it ro myself?? plz help me

Well in Christianity says that true Christians should marry Christians and have a family worshiping God. If you just want a relationship (not commitment or anything) then it should be fine for you to go out with her. Tell her your religion, because a relationship is about honesty. But you might want to try Christianity if you really love her, because that would make her really happy. Don't expect to ever marry her though, because if she is a true Christian, she'll want to marry someone who loves God.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

*Edit: Well, Christians want to make the world all believers of God (because we are witnessers) because Christians believe that if someone doesn't love Jesus, then they aren't going to heaven. That is why they want to marry someone who they'd be able to have children with, that they can expect to love the Lord and someday go to heaven.

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I'm 15/F turning 16 in october. I'm desperate to get a babysitting job, so my cousin told me to make flyers to put around my neighborhood.

What should kind of information should I put on the flyer, like my name and phone number.

How should I decorate it and what additional information should I add?

Lastly, what SHOULDN'T I put on my flyer?

Thanks guys. ♥

Put your name, age, phone number, and what ages you baby-sit (example: ages 2-10). Don't ever give your address, because random strangers read those fliers. Post the fliers at your school, church, and neighborhood.
Color your flier with bold markers and crayons. Do dark colors because yellow and orange are colors that no one can read when they're driving past them.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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