HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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PLEASE HELP IS NEEDED AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
14/f- lives with mom, aunt, grandma, grandpa, dog.
today i went over to celebrate my 2 month anni with my boyfriend. we were going to go swimming and then out to dinner at the mexican resturant guatalajara. my mom dropped me off about 11am. about 2pm we get a phone call at his house saying that my grandpa was mad and wanted me home at 5:30. i asked if i could stay later so we could eat dinner. he said flat out no and that he was going to pick me up right away. i was lke then can you wait til 5:30. he said no. my mom came to pick me up from his house in tears. he had pushed her out the door to pick me up. once we got home, we yelled an cussed at he which led up to him hitting me, my mom, and my aunt, who had to separate me from my grandpa. he hurt my aunt and broke 2 of my mom's fingers. the reason he is so mad is cuz i was out with a boy. just that. nothing else. he yelled at me and told me to move out. like he wants me out on the street without a home.
does he have the right to hit me like that? why would he be so mad that i was out with a boy? what should i do? should i tell someone that he hit me, enough to possibly cause a bruise? what should i do? (link)
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Well its normal for guys in the family(father,grandpa) to get mad that the daughter is dating because they get worried about her heart getting broken or her being played with but what your grandfather did was a little overboard.I think you should tell your mom to keep him from hitting you but dont go telling the police or a teacher.Afterall he is your grandpa and hes an old guy and cant take his anger out in any other way.Just make sure he doesnt find out anything about your personal life or that you go out with your guy.
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well they say breakfast is the most important meal of the day. its always hard to make up my mind on what to eat before school.
and i'm asking if anyone knowns some quick healthy breakfasts that i could at least eat every other day. or what foods i could alternate with. thanx for the advice. (link)
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Any kinds of cereals would be great because theyre full of protiens.You can also eat flavored yougurt.
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Is lipgloss, lipliner, eyeliner, eyeshadow, mascara, foundation, and concealer too much for a 10th grader?
I haven't seen other girls wear this much makeup.
Is this too much makeup for my age? [15]
It's not caked on or anything... I'm just wanting your opinion. (link)
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Way too much.If you want to look good in
makeup,the key is to look natural.Too much makeup at school can ruin your skin.You can have on a peache colored lipgloss and blush and mabey peach coloerd eyeshadow but concealer and foundation will ruin your face especially in the morning sun.
ok mabey it was ruined since the 6th grade but if you keep wearing all that makeup its going to get worse till theres no way to fix it.You can go to a beauty center to get face peeling,its 100% safe and will make your skin better and the key is to wash your face in the morning in the morning and before you go to sleep.
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okay well this is obviously about make up. i have light blue eyes and they changed to green sometimes. i always wear black eyeliner and white eye shadow, where its real thin, and im bored of this look.
i would like to know what new colors of eyeliner/eye shadow i should use?
thanks. (link)
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This would look great on you,try aqua(light blue) eyeliner on the top of your bottom lashes(you know the skin right under your eyeballs.You can also try light blue eyeshadow on your bottom lids and powdery white on top.These would make your eyes stand out and look great.Try it.
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Before I ask this question, which may seem to have a simple answer to some, I must first try to put you into my situation. And if i do this properly Im sure you will find that it is not so easily answered. I am a seventeen year old girl starting her senior year in highschool who has never even been spoken to by a guy let alone kissed. Usually I am invisible to them, and when i try to talk to them they usually just ignore me. I used to think it was because i was a bit of a nerd but not even the nerdy boys liked me. So one day during the summer I was just browsing the web reading my favorite fanfiction stories and i come across a dating service advertisement under the romance section. Anyhow i find a guy my age and Instant Message him on aim. He and I have been talking ever since (for four months about two hours each day) just casually and we ask each other for advice, and argue mostly about what we read or hear in the news. he is about a year and a half older than me and lives about an hour and a half a way. I know he is not a freak because i have done my research and if anyone has the right to be sceptical about or relationship it should be him since I am the one who instant messaged him and he has no idea how I found his name. I am going to be busy with school soon and Im not sure if i should keep talking with him or not. He and I enjoy talking with each other and we feel we can share nething even the most embarassing things about ourselves because we dont know who the other person is. Our relationship is almost freeing. But He will be starting college in the fall and I feel as if i would be bothering him, although he asks my help with everything. Is he worth my time?? or is my relationship just brief infatuation?? and if it is is infatuation is it really bad to have a friend that is a guy?? (link)
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And why not keep talking to him?This guy can teach you so much things you never knew and teach you how to be more open with guys.Since you guys are going to be busy,talk whenever you guys are free only.You dont have to talk 4 hours a day when one of you guys got a test tomorow.
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hey
i am 15 and he is 16.. should we have sex??
we really love each other and we think its time.. plus.. how do you have sex? we don't know how..
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I dont think you should do it now.Youre way too young and you can end up regreting it like ALMOST EVVVVERYBODY thats 15 does.What if after you have sex you guys break up and it turns out your pregnant?Youll be a child with a child and both need mothers.You should be sure that the guy your gonna do it with doesnt have stds and that you will be staying with him forever(marriage)Besides if you do it now and break up and get another boyfreind,do it with him and break up,your reputation is going to be terrible.Think of the consenquences of your actions.
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ok.. so today.. my boyfriend broke up with me (after 17 amazing months of making out)
before he broke up with me.. he told me that i made him gay.. and that he now has a boyfriend that he's been seeing for a little less than half of our relationship..
He told me that he loves him and is going to get married to him.. and now i feel like crap
I mean.. all we did was make out.. and he says I sucked and he turned gay...
then to prove he was gay.. because i thought he was kidding- he showed me a picture of his boyfriend on a gay porn website.. then he showed me that he was on the website too..
I still thought he was kidding- so i went to give him a kiss- and he said "sorry- I'm really gay, Kayleigh.. i'll show you my boyfriend and i'll make out with him".. so he showed me his boyfriend (who was sitting about 20 feet behind us) and they made out for like 5 minutes..
so now i don't know what to do.. i feel like crap because I turned my Ex-boyfriend gay.. and now i've got his parents on my back yelling at me because he's gay now...
WHAT SHOULD I DO?? I need help!
I thought about suicide.. but i'm not sure?
am I going crazy? am I really that bad of a kisser? please help!
~Turned-My-Ex-Gay
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WOW!You did NOT turn your ex gay,trust me.If there were troubles between you and him,he could have confronted you about it but he had a thing for guys all along.Many ppl break up and dont turn gay.Its not your fault you were being respectful and didnt do anything eles with him.Forget about him!Are you actually planning on being the gf of a gay dude and taking him back?!?They probably had (ew)sex and you can get stds if you ever do anything with him.Omg committing suicide and ending your life over a gay dude??You gotta be kidding.How old are you?If you commit suicide now it means your not strong enough to face life.Youre going to meet other problems in life and if you think about commiting suicide at everthing that bothers you,youre gonna die early.If he wants to be gay,he can go to hell.If you need more help contact me.good luck
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16/f
to make a long long story short..
there was this guy (jeff) that loved his gf and they went out for like a year and 4 months they broke up he thought i was really hott and wanted to do stuff with me and we start "talking" then he went back out with his girlfriend now they broke up i had feelings for him and NOW...
tonight jeff was sleeping over at my cousins house with their other friend joe. well my best friend/cousin nikki was there and all of a sudden i get a call from her so im like ok hello? and it was a guy and theyre like hey baby blah blah we gonna do it tonight? like joking and i was like uhhh i dont know who this is! and they're like come on how can you not know baby. and then it ended up being jeff and but was joking! but then nikki wanted me to sleepover and i wish i could of but i have to go somewhere early tomorow morning and jeff wanted me too. ;) i wouldnt have SEX with him though im strong enough to say NO. but do you think he is interested in me? i know he is deff. attracted to me he even said so himself. but i know he wants to do stuff with me! but im glad that he is still thinking about me. i dont know what do you think about this whole deal. hes so nice and everything treats his gf's like queens! and doesnt rush anyone into something they dont want to do. but i know he just wants to do stuff with me and im fine with making out but nothing really more. he said he still loved his girlfriend and wouldnt give up on her but then why is he talking to me!? (link)
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Ok since this guy like worships the ground his girlfreind walks on like you said,then i think hes only flirting with you at first he did it because he broke up with his girl and probably wanted to get her jealous but now,i think he just wants a lot of girls liking him becasue he likes the attention.He might like your body wand want to do things with you but keep in mind that if a guy leaves his girl for you he WILL leave you for another girl.
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Oh no! i have a problem. this boy asked me out like a week ago and he is seriously...like so in love with me. the problem is that i dont think i really have such deep feelings for him. and i cannot break up with him because he keeps on telling me he keeps getting hurt by girls..and that i make him so happy and you know things that would make it impossible for me to break up with him. So any suggestions on maybe how to get myself to like him more?? Or even what to do?!THANKS i need it. (link)
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You need to realize that you dont meet guys like this everyday.Take a moment to realize all the good about him,go out with him more and take the chance to like him more.But you have feelings for him,and they will eventually grow.
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I have a boyfriend and weve been going out for a week. I know it doesnt seem like a long time, but he and I liked eachother for a long time. Well he recently is kindof ignoring me, not talking to me (like in short sentances) and he took me out of the first spot on myspace and He doesnt call very much. Its kindof getting annoying and I think he might cheat on me. My problem is, I still like him, but I do want to be happy and get rid of him early so it doesnt get bad. What do I do? (link)
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I think hes doing this on purpose.I dont think you should confront him though because if you do,hell be happy about the fact that he succeded to pisss you off.Dont talk to him in a while and try to get over him.When you do call him up and tell him that your relationship is over.Or if you want to confront him you can tell him that hes been ditching you and that it pisses you off and he can deny it.
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Will you lose weight if you only drink water AND only eat peaches, broccoli, spinach, and carrots? Thanks. (link)
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It depends.If you eat that and dont exercise you can either stay the same or gain.Because the body has stored fats and when you dont give it the amount of fats it was used to getting,it brings out the stored fats making you GAIN weight,therefore,eat what you mentioned and EXERCISE to burn the stored fat that the body releases.
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ok so about 4 months ago i saw this guy, that worked in this shopping mall ... i had never seen him before... the point is was staring at me all the time i was there( in a really nice way..) and i did the same :) I kept going back for weeks... Till I plucked up the courage to give him my phone number and email address we spoke twice on messenger.. and sent each other a few emails.. the point is he continued staring every time i went there even though his friends have been there with him sometimes and I get the feeling he has told them about me.. but we havent exacly spoken face to face.. he has given me mixed signals cause i am usually the one who has sends him the emails and he doesnt answer for weeks . But a guy who stares at you for such a long time every time you see him... should mean something.. right? He has told me he is kind of shy… and he has a boring life.. Could he be hinting me indirectly that he is single.. Or something? He is working when i see him but that doesnt mean we cant speak...
I am really confused!! And any sort of help would do.. Ohh by the way im 17 going on eighteen and he is 21
Thanx!!
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Well he did tell his freind about you but i think you should stop having to be the one that emails and calls first because that way hell go braging to his freinds and use you as a spare.He can even have a girlfreind and just have you on the side so he can brag because he likes attention,i mean hes never had the guts to come talk to you face to face!And its usually the girls that are suppoesd to be shy.Just dont talk to him or email him or anything because that way hell take advantage of your feelings and when you finally get over him,hell talk to you and mess up your feelings again and that my dear,is called PLAYING.
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this year money is tight {i think} my dad put off school supplies till the last second and he only gave me 20$ i need a new backpack cuz he made me get rid of my old ones but i also need like paper pens nd everything to i dont no waht to do i cant ask for more he will get mad but i cant get my stuff with only 20$ he didnt give me any money for clothes or shoes so now i get to go to school with shoes that are falling apart and jeans to small for me and we jusy moved too so i need to make friends but i will look like a loser with no backpack or new shoes and lod clothes that are praticaly to small i need money but i have no way of etting it there is no one to babysit and i am only 13 and get cant a job and i need a haircut as well like bad so how can i get my neccesities it is too late to get stuff from the salavotion army (link)
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What about trying to ask your mom for the money?Tell your dad this,dad what am i suppoesd to do with 20 bucks?I need a backpack and shoes and school supplies and clothes and 20 dollars isnt going to get me a backpack!You need to tell him that.
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Heres the deal, I'm obbsessed with britney spears. i have all of her posters, 2 pepsi lifesize cardboard cutout things, shirts a ton of picturs. every magazine shes ever been on, even when she was really young. i also have 33 of her cds( including remixes and stuff off of ebay). I even have something of hers that she was selling off of ebay to raise money for Katrina victims. well here is the problem. only about 5 people know. i never have friends over because i like briney so much cause everyone thinks she is fake and sluty and stuff. i want to tell people but i know that they would make fun of me and stuff. i'm not lesbiean or anything, i just like britney a lot. i'm in middle school so you know that people would make fun of me cause thats how middle school is. i don't care about what people think but i don't want everyone talking about me and my obbsessian about her. just think about what rumors could start. help me please!!! what should i do???!!!thanks guys. (link)
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What the hell is wrong with liking britney?You can like whoever you like and dont be afraid of telling anyone that you do.If they make fun of you its only because they think that THEY have tastes and want to look cool among their freinds.Tell them if they ask and if they make fun of you tell them that(with a smiile)that you can like whoever you want and to make fun of you all they want,its not going to stop you from liking her.
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Sorry I'm not asking any questions just saying that you are a great columnist. :) (link)
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Thanks!If you need help in anything eles go ahead and ask,dont worry i dont get annoyed lol.
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yeah that whole game thing...not gonna work...IDK. whatever...maybe ill just stay single or something but hey...who knows?? (link)
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Just sit alone with yourself for a while and think of what you really want.Mabey hes not the guy for you anywayz.Mabey if you wait,youll meet your real prince charming later on.
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halloween costume ideas --
my best friend is throwing a halloween party, where guests should come in costume, and has elected myself and my other best friend the co-hosts. we've decided that we all want to have matching costumes, just the three of us, since we are the hosts. i know it's early to be planning a halloween costume since halloween is nearly 2 months away, but we want to make sure we have an idea of what costumes we want before they are all gone.
so my question is, what are some cute, reasonabally priced costumes, or ideas, for 3 people? thanks mucho!!
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here you can find the BEST costumes EVER http://www.newyorkcostumes.com/
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What's a really good masacara? Something that makes your eye lashes look really think but doesnt clump. Mine clumps so badly and makes my eye lashes stick together and it is almost impossible to wash out (covergirl) (link)
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NYC(new york color) i have the one that makes your eyelashes appear thicker and it works great.There are also christian dior and chanel(amazing brands)
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Today i got my senior picture proofs back and i emailed the ones i liked to my grandma. She looked at them and told my mom that i should of worn nicer shirts that showed more clevage and that i should of worn more make-up.
My cousn is the same age as me and shes getting senior pictures but her are going to be Glamour shots.
My grandma told me that i should of gotten glamour shots because they do the make-up for you.
I dont wear alot of make-up because i believe people dont need to wear it. Im nothing like my cousin shes really slutty and wears enough makeup for 10 people.
How do i tell my grandma that im not my cousin.
it hurts how she doesnt like any of my pictures.
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Mabey you looked pale in the pics.You should have blush on to make your face not pale.Anyway thats not the problem.Talk to your grandma and tell her that you like to keep it natural and that youre not your cousin.Tell her that it made you sad that she didnt like any of your pics and it makes you feel less confident
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I was hanging out with my boyfriend last night and one thing lead to another and he fingered me.. to make the story short, afterwards my clitoris felt like it was throbbing and now it hurts very bad, even to the touch or my underwear rubbing against it. Why is this? thank you =] (link)
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He probably fingered you too hard or mabey it was your first time getting fingered or you are about to get your period.Dont worry,the pain wont last long.Make sure you tell him to go easy on you next time.
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