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My name is Kristen, and I'm seventeen years old.

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There is a school dance tonight and i'm not sure if i should go!! i want to but there are these girls who are mean and i'm afraid they might try to pick a fight with me tonight! Should i go? and if i go and they confront me what should i do? what should i say?

dont let them ruin your fun. if they try to start something, just walk away. try to have friends around you at all times. a guy would be good too ;) .. have fun!

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is this bad?? OK i was playing basketball today because we had a game and i got pushed down and landed on my hand and got it pulled back and now it wurts to move it i cna but not in one drection!

is this bad?

congrats on the win!!

go have it checked out just in case. in the meantime, put ice on it

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Hi everyone! I wanna be an actress so bad! I'm 13/f. I live in Grafton, WI. I love making my own movies and acting in them and I'd like to be a famous actress. How could I get a start?

start taking acting classes. join your school drama club and be in school plays. if anyone tries to bring you down, screw them. you can do it, with lots of hard work and dedication. good luck!!

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Well this girl who I'm good friends with has invited me to watch some DVDs have have pizza at her house tomorrow night. There will be some other people there who I know but I don't have much in common with them and we aren't great friends. I want to go but I don't want to be left out of the conversation. What should I do?

try it out. don't let your ex boyfriend stop you from going. try talking to other people about anything, school.. boys.. have fun!! and make sure you have a backup plan if something doesnt work out. g.l

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hey u guys im a 15 year old male, and i was of course playing truth or dare with mostly grls and a few guys, and a grl dared me to go in the bathroom right then and there and SHAVE MY LEGS! well i wasnt gonna turn down a dare so i did it, but im wunderin if i should like wear pants to school until they grow back cuz usually guys wit shaved legs r gay, or do grls think is hot??

well.. do you feel weird about it?? if you do, then wear pants. but if you really don't care, just wear what you normally and screw what people think. just tell them it was a dare if they ask about it and have people to back you up.

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can you put water on your contact if you're in school and don't have your solution?

i wouldn't suggest it. get a little travel sized bottle of contact solution and keep it in your binder/handbag/whatever you carry around.

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Okay...long story short...i need an afro by halloween! i was going to get my hair braided then leave it in and just take it down on Halloween nite but ive missed that stop so now i need to know how to make my hair a huge afro. dont tell me wigs or anything because if all else fails thats what ill do but right now i wanna try my real hair??? any suggestions anyone??? no smart ass comments from jackasses this time thnkx

i guess just keep growing it out and tease it.. sorry i couldn't be more help :-(

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Hey... im making my Xmas list. I need advice on how to get my mind to think up what i want lol... or does anyone have ideas that a girly girl prep 13 yrz old girl would like........................................


thankx xoxx

clothes, hair accesories, shoes, money, makeup, CDs, shower stuff, earrings, a nice necklace or bracelet..

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my mom is starting a clothing line and wants me 2pick the name but i have no ide of what it should be!!! its going to be sorta like baby phat....that type of clothing for girls/women....any ideas?

do something with your initials or something like that. send me a message, i'll be able to help you more!!

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k me and my [ex] bf broke up ALONG LONG LONG time ago..i think he even has another gf now, but neway its been like a year or something that we havent been together and we havent even talkd in almost that long..it would be our 2 yr anniversary comin up in like a month...we broke up in tha rainy season and it was SUCH heartbreak for me..i cried every night for like 3 months straight....but the thing is, not even like 2 hrs will go by that i dont think of him...and since its the rainy season im thinkin about him so much more and im really sad..this isnt normal to STILL not be over some1 by now is it?

omg i went through kind of the same thing. we broke up like 10 months ago and i wasn't officially over him until.. a month or so ago. it is soo completely normal. it's hard to get over someone who you loved and had your heart broken by. you have to remember that you have to go out and live your life!! don't get hung up on one guy when there's other people out there. feel free to send me something or IM me to talk.

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okay well.. im straight edge... and i didnt want to have sex. and hes older. and i told him it was ok,. weve been together 7 months. i guess i thought i wouldnt mind? or maybe i thought he wouldnt do it. but he did. and now i just dont know if i can trust him. or if i should try and get revenge. and it sucks cause the girl was/is? my friend and i told him how much i hated when the would flirt. so i just dont know what to do? should i dump him? should i ignore it? pretend not to care? get revenge? any advice at all would be great.
--thanks

dump the loser. no one should ever go behind your back and have sex with your friend. and that's not a very good friend either. you deserve a lot better

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im 13 about to turn 14... im about to have my birthday party in 3 weeks... i have an idea of who to invte but the thing is im thinking of having it at my friends house. im stressed out right now and im really really tired and i have alopt on my mind right now... i never get bored because theres always something i can think about that i have to do. its friday s thats good... i just feel like a stressed out tired teenager and i want to know how to make it where i enjoy everything a little more. i get to sleep at 11 or later and i used to go to sleep at 9:30 im getting used to going to sleep later but the thing is im tired all day... i have no problem waking up or anything. how do i get myself out of this tired stressed out slump?

you need more sleep. do your homework as soon as you get home from school. that way you won't have to do it later. resist things that might get in the way of you sleeping. put a blanket over the TV so you wont be watching it. don't go on the computer or watch TV becuase they stimulate your brain or something and make it harder for you to sleep. if you need anything else at all, come talk to me. i'm the same way

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hey,
hey i was woundering if you knew where to get those Armstrong things that go aroung your rists, and what color do they come in. I know this is kinda wierd asking for it.
Thanks alot,

Someone who is very coolerthan you, jk

they're Livestrong bracelets that benefit the Cancer Society (i think). They only come in yellow. go to wearyellow.com or ebay

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How do you scrunch ur hair?

mousse and gel. apply it and scrunch your hair. spray some hairspray on it for staying power

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should I be proud of what i am?

of course!!! you should do whatever makes you feel happy, and don't listen to what others think.

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Ok! Well I have to go to the doctor tuesday with my mom to get birth control. Im just really stressing out about the papsmear. I shave down there and Im not sure whether or not I want my mom in the room when they do that. They also have to ask you if your sexually active and I really dont want my mom knowing all that either! Any info, advice, etc.?

you have the option of whether or not your mother can come in with you.

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i invited my friends over for a special one night and they couldn't all of a sudden attend so basically they ditched my they said they had excuses and were really sorry ... my friend wants me to order pizza this time at my house and hang out! should i bother making another night for us to hang out? and what if they ditch me what should i say??

make another night. talk about it and make sure everyones schedule is clear. if they ditch you again, wait a while before making another night at your house.

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i want abs badly i want a major six pack wut is a quick way to get some i dont care wut it takes i just want to see some change wut excercises can be done for abs???

lots of crunches and situps... just be careful you dont want to pull anything or do something bad. and make sure you eat right and drink lots of water. that'll just keep you healthy

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Tomorrow my friends and I are making lunches for each other, just to have a change from the normal boring stuff we usually make ourselves. I'd love it if I could get some ideas on things I could make for my friend. Nothing too complicated, but not too boring. Basically I need to bring her a drink, the main thing, a dessert, and some snack-type foods. So yeah, any ideas? Thanks!
P.S.:I can't use mayo.

drink- capri sun, iced tea, lemonade, snapple
sandwich- roast beef, PB&J.. buy a big sub for the week and cut it up and serve it piece by piece
dessert- oreos, chocolate chip cookie, twix, skittles
snacks- doritos, cut up veggies and dressing, crackers w/ peanut butter, poptart

have fun!

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So I like this guy, and he was about to sign off so he was like yeah call me or whatever so I did...and he said hes going to call back in a hour. but I'm soo nervous when i talk to him! I need things to say on the phone when he calls me because If I dont practice I'll end up being retarded!! What things should we talk about??? awww i love him! :D!

school music homework ... anything!!! just remember that it's a guy, and dont talk about your hair in great detail or something.. g.l

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