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ex bf
k me and my [ex] bf broke up ALONG LONG LONG time ago..i think he even has another gf now, but neway its been like a year or something that we havent been together and we havent even talkd in almost that long..it would be our 2 yr anniversary comin up in like a month...we broke up in tha rainy season and it was SUCH heartbreak for me..i cried every night for like 3 months straight....but the thing is, not even like 2 hrs will go by that i dont think of him...and since its the rainy season im thinkin about him so much more and im really sad..this isnt normal to STILL not be over some1 by now is it?
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People wonder about theri ex's all the time..even though he isnt in your life anymore, he still meant something to you long ago..and since its the season when you broke up its no wonder thinking about him..but its normal, takes girls a longer time to get over relationships then boys..its normal dont stress yourself..getting in touch with might not be the best idead IF you were thinking about it..but you never know..always have to have options, just dont stress too much hes a guy. Youll go through more than plenty...and there will be some you HATE and some you LOVE it happenes...jsut dont hold on too long could make you mentally sad
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I was in your position a while ago, and its gunna hurt and sting and really be painfull for you, so my best advice is just to get it over with and flat out tell him how you feel, you dont ever want those kind of feelings lingering, they tear you up inside and leave more emotional scars. If you have taken my advice, gimme a post at BigTank7116 and i hope that things go well for you.
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omg i went through kind of the same thing. we broke up like 10 months ago and i wasn't officially over him until.. a month or so ago. it is soo completely normal. it's hard to get over someone who you loved and had your heart broken by. you have to remember that you have to go out and live your life!! don't get hung up on one guy when there's other people out there. feel free to send me something or IM me to talk.
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That's the thing with seasons. They bring back old feelings over and over again for the rest of our lives. I know the feeling. I go through with the change of every new season. It must be normal human feelings, because I feel the same as you. Do you wonder if he thinks the same as you do? It's just endless dizzy wonder that doesn't seem to go away. I'm sad right now too about somebody, yeah it's normal, but it also sucks. What to do about it is another question!!
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dont worry its perfectly normal.. and i think your a little sad.. but i also think yew love him and that yew miss him being your b/f.. talk to him.. then yew will most lykely find out wif yew love him, lyke him, or whut...
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there is NO time limit for getting over someone you love. maybe you should try to talk to him! maybe you guys are better at being friends.
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Yah, it is totally normal. Maybe yuu should try talking to him or even try talking to your friends. Maybe a new boyfrined would be better for yuu, but don't just use a guy to see if yuu can get over your ex. Well, ii think the best thing to do is to talk to your ex and maybe explain how yuu feel. And just so yuu know, when it is rainy outside, people normally do feel more depressed then usual. Well, good luck. Hope ii helped.
Muahsz . Katie
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No.. Its normal to miss someone u once loved. I still love my ex.. and I only dated him for 2 months.. but he was my first love...
Don't worry about it if your not over him.. I would say its totally normal..
Hope I helped!!
P.S. To get your mind off of him... find a hobby that keeps your mind busy.. like a sport.. or a craft.. thats how I kept my mind off of Jason (my ex) most of the time.. Just keep yourself busy!! It helps.. a little!!
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Who cares about normal, people move on at different rates so there's no right or wrong. If this guy has another girlfriend then he's obviously moved on and so you have to accept that you're not going to get back together. Get a hobbie, hang out with friends, go shopping, go clubbing, go out with some other guys, whatever! You've got to put some effort into moving on and taking your mind off him. Evidently it'll take time but if you try then it will happen.
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i had the same problem, and it is totally normal to still think about someone you loved. even if you don't care about them anymore, it's still difficult. take your time to get over him, and don't worry about it. i still thought about my ex boyfriend until i met someone way better. so just don't worry about it, you'll find someone who is right for you that makes you feel great about yourself. you and your ex may even ending up back together if you're right for each other. i'm hoping that the guy that made me say "seth who?" about my ex will end up asking me out, so if your "seth who?" guy finds you soon, hope you guys get together. good luck, and hope this helps.
Sierra(arlo)
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Yes, it is possible to still not be over him. You obviously had really strong feelings for this guy! There are probably things going on around you that remind you of him, i.e-- the rainy season. If you want to get back with him, talk to him and let him know how you feel. If you WANT to be over him then try avoiding the things that remind you of him. Since you can't avoid the rain, just try focusing on other guys or do other things to keep your mind on other things besides him. Hope I helped!
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