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Hi, Me and my people were wondering what "cum" means, or what it is. We are pretty clueless.
Thank You In Advance.
Its sperm. Theres alot of names for it that are slang but sperm or semen is the "scientific" name. If you need anymore slang terms defined check this site out..
http://www.urbandictionary.com/
its really good. Hope this helped, and your welcome.
I straigten my hair everyday. and i always have a hair on top that kind of sticks up like obviously. and i condition my hair daily, where antifrizz stuff.
what else can i do?
Give your hair a rest sometimes. Try not straghtening it everyday. Srunch or let it towel try for a bit. Theres tons a cute things to do without straightening. I usually straghten my hair 1 or two times a week so it isn't nasty, and it isn't nasty at all. Also, sometimes when I sleep with my hair wet it gets weird and "static-eletricity"-ish in the morning. When I blow dry it, its more undercontroll. Hope this helped.
16/F
When someone has a boyfriend, how long should it be before they begin to "french kiss"? My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a month, maybe a little more. The other night, when he was dropping me off, he began to kiss me. Now, don't get me wrong, I am fine with a quick peck on the lips. But he opened up my mouth! I felt a little uncomfortable, but I let it go... until he started to use his tongue! I told him he was going WAY too fast. Did I do the right thing?
If you felt uncomfortable, then of course! You should never do anything you don't want to, and your boyfriend should understand that. Don't let anyone pressure you if you don't really want to do something.
i tried out once in 5th grade. didnt make it. i was okay but not good enough.. atleast i dont think. two really bad girls payed to get in a still do but not that this year there are HIGHSCHOOl tryouts im thinking to try out. do they let you pay to get on the team in hightschool? right now im taking tumbling and learning stuff like backhandsprings. what do i need to do to get on the team.. i really need this. badly. and my dad says they might ask me questions....what kind would they...
thankss soo much..
andd i would REALLY like for some one to give me tips. and way to get on the squad. thankss again.
You pretty much need a flipflop(backhandspring) to make it. Work on jumps big time. Do them alot and ask girls you know to help you with them. Also work on tightness, smiling, and dancing. Those are important too because if you don't have a good attidute thats not good. Know the fundimentals of stunting, how to do atleast one position besides flying (base, back spoting, fronting, flying: mostly baing or backing). Get stronger becase if you make it you need stamina to do routines. Just keep trying on your flipflop. Ask girls to help you out because they probalby would . And no, I dont think you can pay a highschool cheer coach and you Shouldnt anways because its wrong. Hope this helped and good luck!
f/12 well idk but it is kinda weird but every time i go to the bathroom my eyes water and it is really weird. i no its not that bad but it is kinda werid.
thanxs =]
Well depends on what your doing in the bathroom. If its #1 then ive never known of someone who does that. But if its #2 then that should be normal if you have watery eyes. Don't worry unless if it starts to get really weird you can ask yuor parent. Hope this helped
his name is adam and he's one of my best friends--and i love him. i've known pretty much all along he never had those feelings for me back, but six months ago i told him how i felt for him. it was a little awkward at first, but we got over it and managed to keep our friendship. i told him i didn't ever want him to hesitate when telling me anything, especially about his love life or whatever. now, five months later, i'm not so sure i want to hear it anymore. last night he told me he liked our best friend, lauren. we're all mutual best friends and that's what makes it so hard. he told me he wanted me to tell him what i thought of it and if i was okay with it. i think i was so shocked and hurt at first i didn't realize it was true, so i said i supported it and i didn't want him to hold back. i thought that's what being a good friend was all about. i want to see him happy, but i don't know how she feels nor does she even know he likes her. but i still feel caught in the middle--i mean he told me he would try to forget her if it meant things between the three of us would get weird.
i love him so much, and i have for a year and a half. he means the world to me and the last thing i want to do is hurt him, or be the reason he's unhappy. but i know it would kill me inside to see him with anyone else. do i suck it up for their sake like i had originally planned, or do i be brutally, selfishly honest and tell him i don't want him to go after her?
You're being a great friend first of all. Having the heart to love someone so much and hear their hearts wants.. hats off to you! You should be considerate of others, but sometimes there is a limit. I mean, you live your life, for yourself. You dont live for someone else, only for you. You don't want to waste your teenage years being in the dumps and sad about someone. You are really considerate, but treat your own emotions too! He should understand this. Maybe try telling him that you love being best friends and you love knowing that he tells you stuff, but sometimes your feelings are overcoming you and you cant hear everything he has to say. It seems tourture to me.. listening to your love talking abuot what he wants.. that hurts alot. You don't have to take away his happiness and keep him all to yourself. You can try and keep him away from her but he might still like her. So if you do tell him that it might make things akward between you he might not go for her and thats not nessicarly telling him "Dont go after her" straight up. But sometimes you can't help who people like and he might still go after her. Just try and make yourself happy before others, not saying don't think of other peoples feelings, just think of yours too! I hope this helped and if you need to talk to someone you can i.m me anytime.
my boyfriend's birthday is like really soon and i do not know what to get him!! it is really important to get him something because he gets me alot of stuff.. anyway what can i get him?
- Scrap Book of you guys
- tickets to a concert for you and him
- writing a poem is cute
- cologne
- a cd
you can make him treats too. theres a bunch of things, and its the thought that matter too.
what's the best way to gain weight, besides eating alot? thanks
Building up muscle. Muscle weighs more than fat. If you run or jog then your loosing fat and keeping muscle. If you want to gain weight, eat (don't eat a bunch of crap because then youre just making your diet an unhealthy one), and work on muscles and strengh. Lift weights, leg press, whatever there is to do. Hope this helped
Back in November, I met this guy at a party, and I felt like I connected with him right away and we grinded. However, we were having a random conversation about hook-ups and he said he doesn't hook up because he doesn't want his parents to find out. I'm depressed, whatever. But he asks for my number and screen name and we talk. He calls me more often than I call him. Recently, we've been talking even more and I still like him. Now flash forward to Saturday. A mutual friend pulls me aside and says something along the lines of "I think he likes you, but he's weird. You have to take it slow. But when he mentions you...you can just tell." And I get the sense that he likes me too, as does everyone else. This mutual friend wants to "torture" him by telling him that he spoke to me without telling him what I said. So...what should I do? Should I wait for him to ask me out or say something myself or just wait?
If you want things to change, from just calling and talking on the phone/aim then you might want to tell him yourself. He might react quickly. But if you let him talk to you, he might be really slow about it and not know if you like him so he might never ask you. I would try telling him in person or bringing up the subject if you want things to progress/differ. Hope this helped
k, so my friend thats a girl(not my gf) was going out with a guy that she didnt really like. Then her bf found out that she liked another guy, but didnt do anything about it and he let her know that he knew. Later into the relationship she didnt want to be with him anymore and they broke up. She then hooked up with the other guy that she liked and now the guy she used to go out with h8s her and is not talking to her. Also the two guys,i think are still friends.
Before someone can answer, I think you need to clearify what you need answered. What is your question? Try reasking and then I'll answer
Okay, well I am looking for a certain picture.
its of a guy and a girl in a room full of people but all the people are kinda blurred out so its just them.. and its like basically sumboling that when they are around a whole bunch of people its like its just them in the room. its really cute and i hope someone could find it for me
I don't think theres a picture like that I know of, but I found 2 sites that i used and have good photos. I hope this helped, maybe you can find another picture like that..
http://www.xanga.com/vogue_photographs
http://www.xanga.com/rawrr__itspictures
well hi im angie and im 14/f and ive been dating this guy jake for 2 years now and i think hes givving up on me liek we do everyhting together and ahve sex anbd stuff like every 2 days and my friends beeen telling me that hes been all over girls at parties that i had to leave to watch my lil brother and sister and i dont know what to do because like should i brake up with him or what cause i dotn wanna be in a relationship that where the guy cheats on you =/ you know like i really love him more then anythign and now i dont know what to do should i stay with him pllz help me and give me the right choice =]
Before you regret breaking up with him, make sure that he is really being a scum bag and acting like a jerk. Once you find out that he is, make sure thats how he is really acting because you don't want to break up wiht him then he all the sudden changes. He might have an explaination for acting like this. If he has no excuse, and is really a jerk, then better you leave him then the other way around. You dont deserve to be cheated on, no one does. I hope this helped & you can i.m me at Skkatanic if you need to
Hi my name is Marge and I am a 12/f. I love my boyfriend Bryan and he is one year older than I am . Have you ever been in that position before where you are dating an older guy and he wants to do you? I am having trouble deciding if I should go ahead with him or not. Please help =)
Well I have been with someone a year older than me. Seriously, before you do sexual stuff with him, rethink it all. Look over the consequences like, what if parents found out, what if friends found out, what if something unhealthy happened to me, what if he left me? Not saying any of that will happen for sure, but you should always be sure incase it does. If you are going to do it, make sure you are ready. I think the age you do it at isn't like a big deal as long as you know what you are taking on and what might happen. Don't let him pressure you if you don't really want to. If you need to talk to someone about it you can i.m me. Hope this helped
So this guy , who is one of my good friends but isn't that good looking like at all. (Not trying to be mean) was talking about how he was getting roses for this girl for vday, and then he was like so..do you like roses? and I was like uh.. yeah..? am I just being paranoyed (sp?) Or is he getting me roses for vday?!!! I really don't want to have him give me something..but I don't want to be like oh uhh..thanks.. how do I show him that I don't like him without being mean?! he suffers from depression, so I really REALLY don't want him to get sad if I don't like him. WHAT TO DO?!
It might be you. If its not, then thats good. If it is, be like.. "thanks, none of my friends have done this for me before" and try to get the point clear that you guys are just friends. You might feel bad, but if you try and hint that you only like him as a friend then you won't have to be like "hey, were only friends blablabla". I hope this helped
im looking for this song the chorus goes "sending out an sos..sending out an sos" over and over again. (its not the one by the police or incubus.) who sings it?
Its by The Police, "Message In A Bottel". Sting and the Police; Either Or, doesn't matter I dont think. Its on Guitar Hero 2!
i do gymnastics four days a week will that stop me from getting my firt period?
It won't stop you, but usually if your active alot it comes less. I know someone who didn't get it for a while cause they were invloved with sports alot.
okay, so theres this guy at my school who i REALLLY like.... but then he found out i liked him thru some of my friends... I was really worried that he wouldnt see me the same way (u know what I mean? like evrytime we talked i wouldnt want him to think, "oh, its cuz she likes me" or something.) but he doesnt treat me different, he kinda treats me... better. He's in almost all of my classes and we talk all the time. He sits at my lunch table with me and he always sits next to me. He usually walks me out of school, even if he has to go back inside, and... he tickles/pokes my ALL the time! But now I'm not sure if he really likes me, or if he's just being nice because he knows i like him... What do you think???
I think he likes you. I never really knew of a guy who is going to be nice or feel bad cause you like them back. Most guys Ive met arnt really like that and if they do the stuff you desribed, they'd usually like someone. If you want to fide out for sure, maybe ask someone who is friends with him so you can know how he feels.
You all know already that valentine's day is coming up well i need some ideas on what to get him (R) or should i give R something from me wink wink not to sound like a slut but what should i i need answers please respond asap whom ever responds with a decent answer i will rate 5 stars thx :)
-Try baking him something
-Making a scrapbook of you and him together
- geting tickets to a concert you'd both like
- buy him flowers
- buy him chocolates
-write him a poem
theres tons of really artiezy things that are cute and you can make for him. Baking would be great too.
Hi Im 16 and I was wondering how to increase my boyfriends stamina who is also 16. We have really amazing sex but I want to know how he can last longer than 30 min to an hour. oh also would using a condom help increase stamina sense it is less sensitive? I dont need a lecture about unprotected sex. I am on the pill and we lost our virginity to each other. Thanks!
I don't know if this will work, but try teasing him untill he can get the actually sex. If you know what I mean, like if hes going to kiss you, pull away and like tease him. You can try that for sometime and fool around.
I don't mean to be rude; im just curious...
Since you're a cheerleader, I thought I might ask. Why do cheerleaders always wear fake, curly hair? haha, just wondering
Hahah well for competition we have to have our hair up and curled (most competitions.. depending on what squad or level of cheerlading your doing). And curling your hair getings annoying sometimes, so you get cheercurls which you just put over a bun and sew into your hair haha. It sounds insane but its what you do. I acutally have no idea why you need you hair up and curled though haha.