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everytime ive had sex i have always been on the bottem. but i want to be on top. what do i do and how do i do it? have any pointers? it would be greatlyyyy appreciated if you helped me because im going to see this guy soon! thanks. (link)
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It's pretty simple, really:
(1) Ask him if you can be on top this time.
(2) Assuming he says yes (and if he says no, then one really has to wonder why he's being so controlling), proceed through foreplay as usual until you are ready for intercourse.
(3) While he's lying down, straddle his hips.
(4) You may need to point his penis in the right direction with one hand, as he won't be able to move around enough to "aim" properly.
This position can be enjoyable for women because it gives them control, and enjoyable for men because they can relax and they can use their hands more freely to touch you.
For more detailed advice than that, you're going to have to try visiting a website more about sex techniques. On a site such as this, where people as young as 13 are allowed in, that's as explicit as I'm prepared to get, and I'd rather not even link to one. Try Google.
Use protection!
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how come no one gives you "feed back" on your answers anymore. like serouisly. (link)
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I still get lots of feedback. My guess is that it's because I take the time to write detailed, thoughtful answers, and people tend to appreciate it.
One should not expect much in the way of feedback from short, one-sentence responses. If these are the kinds of answers you're leaving, then you shouldn't expect anyone to take time to comment on it.
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There was this guy who liked me I guess, so I walk the same way home as him, and he starts walking with me. I didn't mind it that much, and then he started with the hand around the shoulder, still didn't mind it. Then he started pretty much hugging me really tight, while I'm trying to walk home. When I got home, after him pretty much not letting me move in anyway, or being able to kick/punch him. He asked me out, I said I liked someone else, and he basically got really bitter and started to ignore me. He never said anything about how he feels yet he does that[recap]
Now, a few days ago again, he walked with me. Did the hand on shoulder thing, hugging etc. Then when we got to my house, he pretty much started to put his hands up my sweater and tickling me. That crossed the line, I do not understand why he would do so because he knows I don't like him. I told him to stop but you know... weird guys + hormones. It was scary IMO. Then he kept asking me what I was doing over the weekend, and asked me if I still liked that person, and then he started to ask like 50 questions.
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He's definitely crossed the line. You must terminate any and all friendly relations with him NOW. His behavior is sending up all kinds of red flags, and you definitely have cause for concern.
For whatever reason, this guy has a very messed-up idea on the right way to deal with people. I wouldn't be surprised if he has some kind of social disorder. Whatever the case, his advances toward you have been neither considerate nor appropriate, and you must cut him off cold. He doesn't get to put his arm around you anymore, or walk home with you, or touch you in any way. Any personal questions he asks must receive the same answer: "That's none of your business." Do not initiate conversations with him or respond with more than the bare minimum when he talks to you. You must do absolutely NOTHING that will give him the slightest encouragement. Any leeway you give him will be interpreted as an invitation to go further.
I strongly suggest you get your parents involved, or if that's not possible, talk to an adult from your school. It's my opinion that this kid needs some psychological counseling, and the sooner he gets it the better.
Hopefully, something constructive will be done so that you don't have to deal with him any longer. If he does continue to hassle you, though, start keeping a record of his transgressions, and report them when they are sufficiently severe (touching you without permission, stalking you, verbal attacks). The purpose of all this is that you may need to eventually take legal action or otherwise prove your case against him, and it's going to come down to your word against his. If you have documented evidence, it will weight things in your favor.
It may sound like I'm being overly dramatic, and that may be the case, but in a situation like this it's better to be too careful than not careful enough. It's my opinion that you need to view this kid as a threat to you, and you must protect yourself.
I don't know how to say this without sounding way over-the-top, but the fact is that in this day in age, high-school students occasionally shoot each other when they don't get their way.
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okay so i like this guy that is alot older then me,but he has a job,and a car,and lives with my brother in law cuz its his cousin.I know im not aloud to date this guy,but i really lioke him and would be willing to keep it a secret.2 days ago when he dropped me off at my house,i said "you shouldnt punish me just becuse i was born later then you",and he leaned over and kissed me.Then yesterday i was whispering to him across he room"so what ae we doing"and he just shrugged his shoulders at me.im not sure if he knew what was taking about or not.how is a good way to ask him? (link)
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Here's what you're doing: you're flirting with disaster.
That's not a slam against the guy; I'm sure he's a very decent person. But you are unable to date him, as you say, and to ask him to date you in secret is just plain not fair.
Consider the consequences for you if you get caught dating him: you get in trouble with your parents, most likely. Not really a big deal.
If HE gets caught dating you, though, he faces major consequences. People will look at him like some kind of pervert, for being involved with someone so much younger than himself. It could cause a major family rift. Your brother-in-law will probably be very upset, and it might affect his relationship with his wife (presumably, your sister). YOU won't be blamed for much; after all, you're "just a kid" and not expected to know any better. He will be blamed for everything.
If you really like him, then don't put him in such a position. Go ahead and tell him about your feelings and that the kiss was great, but have the maturity to realize that it has to end there.
For now, that is. Once you're over 18, I'd say he's fair game. At that point, the way to ask him is to approach him and say, "I'm all grown up now, and I still think you're hot. Let's go out sometime."
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My current boyfriend has had a bazillion girlfriends before he started settling down. I'm not usually the jealous type, so trusting him has been easy. But latley, he's been leaving picture comments (including texts too) to other girls saying "wow you're gorgeous" or "hey cutie, i miss you" which has got me suspicious. I've tried talk to him about these, but naturally its no big deal to him.
Well, one of the girls he's beens flirting with, is going on a trip to Europe with him for some organization. Its kind of got me worried, how do I know when he's gone too far with all of this?
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I'd be concerned if I were you, but I'd also give him the benefit of the doubt.
He has a flirtatious nature, that's for sure. This doesn't necessarily mean that he's a cheater, but there is the chance that a girl will respond to him and he won't be able to resist temptation. Now he will be in a position where he'll be alone with someone for a while, overseas, with the knowledge that if anything happens between them he probably won't get caught. He should understand that this is not the sort of thing that is going to make you sleep easily at night.
I don't think you would be out of line to ask for him to make a solemn promise to the effect that he will remain faithful. It might help if you tell him that you do trust him, but you don't trust the woman he's going with to keep her hands to herself, and you know that it would be only human for him to succumb to a moment of weakness.
Also, give him an "out" - tell him that if he doesn't think he can control himself, then he needs to break up with you now, not after the fact. This will make it so he can't say that you "gave him no choice" or some such nonsense.
Give him something symbolic to take with him - a picture of the two of you, or a ring that you wear, even a lock of your own hair, to remind him of who waits for him back home. This will make a real impact on him - guys are affected by symbolic objects.
He may laugh it off or say that you're being melodramatic or needlessly jealous. You need to calmly explain to him that this is important to you and that if he won't take it seriously, it only makes you more uncomfortable. No matter what, don't let him leave without specifically promising you that he will not stray.
And if he gets home and it turns out he couldn't keep his fly zipped... show no mercy.
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I was madly in love with my exboyfriend whom I've been dating for a year and 2 months and till this day I am still unsure why we broke up. However, about 3-5 days later I meet my other exboyfriend and he is now my current boyfriend and we've been going out for almost two years by the end of this month. I love them both very much and I hurt my current boyfriend alot because I always think about my exboyfriend. The thing is I cannot choose who I want to be with..these two are complete opposites...and I dont know why I love them both very much..my ex still loves me as much as he did and I love him to...my boyfriend loves me very much and I love him to...I just can't decide on whom I want to be with...they both love me and take care of me very well...my boyfriend is very career oriented while my ex is very love oriented..i love them both..but what should i do? whom should I choose? I can't explain everything in this paragraph but based on the situation that I am in love with both these guys..whom should I choose? my ex or my boyfriend?
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No one here will be able to advise you how to choose. We don't know the guys in question, and it would be impossible for you to give us enough information to make the call. Heck, even if you could, it would all be coming from your perspective; and since you can't decide, we probably wouldn't be able to either.
There are three things to consider before making your decision:
(1) Where do you want the relationship to go from here? In other words, are you happy with a boyfriend, or are you "husband shopping"? It is often the case that a great boyfriend is not necessarily marriage material. There are issue of compatibility that have to do with your long-term plans for the future, how you plan to raise children, differences in your religious beliefs, and how well your families get along, and of course, whether he WANTS to get married.
(2) The decision is not yours alone. It's also up to them. Your ex-boyfriend might find someone new any day now, or your current might decide that he can't deal with you having feelings for someone else. Factoring into your choice should be the idea of how they feel about you, and whether you think that feeling is permanent or fleeting.
(3) Right now, you are in a committed relationship. Your current deserves a greater degree of consideration simply because he IS your current boyfriend. The playing field is not level, and you just can't do things like date both of them and study the results. Basically, you need to give your current guy every chance to "win you over" on his own merits. Don't compare everything about him to your previous guy; it's not fair to either of them, and it's a bad habit to get into if you ever want a lasting bond with anyone.
Perhaps instead of trying to figure out which one you would be happier with, it might help you decide to imagine which one you would be sadder without. In other words, pretend one of them met another woman, fell instantly in love with her, and ran off to Vegas to elope. Which one would leave you the most heartbroken? Don't base your entire decision on the answer to that, but it might help you lean one way or the other.
I will say this: for the sake of all three of you, you will need to decide soon where your heart lies. Otherwise, you may end up losing both of them.
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I have a Canon Rebel (35mm, not digital)
I know there's a way to double expose photos, but how? (link)
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Go to this web page:
http://www.usa.canon.com/consumer/controller?act=DownloadDetailAct&fcategoryid=313&modelid=10466
There is a link to the instruction book for your camera (pdf file).
On page 42, you will find the information you need.
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what do you guys like a girl to know how to do. like examples..?
im talking like physically.. and how. thanksssssss (link)
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You're going to have to get a LOT more specific about what kind of answers you want here, or you're going to get everything from "Macrame" to "Putting her ankles behind her head".
If "talking like physically" means SEX, then please come out and say it.
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im grounded. i cant leave the house. i have absolutely nothing to do. ideas please? (link)
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Apparently, you have internet access. There's the world at your fingertips.
Being bored and trapped at home is the POINT of being grounded, I'm afraid. It's not supposed to be fun. Depending on what you were grounded for, you might be able to shorten your sentence by "righting" whatever wrong you committed - if that's possible. If not, then suck it up, find a good book to read, and just wait it out. Whatever the length of your term is, it's probably not until the end of time. You'll make it.
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Okay this sounds like i'm coomplainging but everytime when I try to help someone out to the fullest, I end up getting a lousy 3 or 4, and I think people are being really inconsiderate, because I am trying to keep my average score for helping up, but anyways is anyone else having the same problem? To me It's not even worth answering peoples questins anymore cause I will end up getting an even lower score...so basically my question is this
Is anyone else having the same problem?
and please don't tell me oh you probably misread the question or misundestood it cause I just double checked all of the questions I answered and I have tried helping them. (link)
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One of the most important things to do, and it's something very simple, is to make sure you're actually answering the question.
Most of the lower scores I've seen fall into one of four categories:
(1) It's genuinely bad advice. Usually, though, responses like these don't seem to get rated at all.
(2) It's good advice, but it's not what the questioner wants to hear, so they get childish about it and rate it low. These low scores are ones you should not be concerned about. In fact, be proud of them.
(3) It's a one-sentence reply that obviously has no thought behind it. These are times when a low score is clearly deserved.
(4) It's a rambling commentary that doesn't actually answer what was asked.
Actually, my response at the moment falls clearly into the fourth category, because I have yet to address your actual question: "Is anyone else having the same problem?" The answer is probably yes - there are likely a number of people on this site who are doing the best they can and getting poor scores.
The best advice I can give you on the unasked question of what you can do about it is to simply continue to try your best and not let the score bother you overly much. Think of it this way: when someone asks a question, they are not going to check on your average score before reading your response. Your responses will be read no matter what your score is. The only thing that a high score does for you is to get more people to send you questions directly rather than in the general pool - and to tell the truth, most of the "private" questions I get are pretty moronic.
Try not to be bothered by a low average. It doesn't really mean much.
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my best friend, hes amazing, loud, hiper, HOTT (!), and depressed. and i cant help but have feelings for him, i mean im a horney girl (lol). but i miss him, he was admitted to the phsc ward in a hospitale. and i havent talked to him in 3 days. and i need to talk to him sooooo badly. but like he knows my number, and i know that there is a pay phone there. but i know he has like really bad depression and i know he gets embarrassed easily, and i know he likes me. and he dosent know i know hes in there. but his mom told me (and his mom told him to call me). and i know he has feelings for me. do you think hes embarrassed? what do you think i should do? (link)
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Here's an important thing to know about guys of any age - they do not like to look weak.
Bear in mind, I'm NOT saying that being hospitalized for any reason is a sign of weakness, nor is a mental health issue something that anyone should be ashamed of. But that is probably how he feels about it himself.
It is important to him that he be allowed to show personal strength and solve this problem for himself. For you to intrude upon him during what he sees as a moment of weakness would be terribly embarrassing for him. Perhaps someday your relationship can evolve to the point where he feels he can lean on you in times like these, but for now you cannot support him in any way except by being there for him if he reaches out.
When he does reach out to you (and I hope he does, because you seem like a very caring person), know that he's going to be vulnerable and that he will have lingering issues of shame and self-doubt. The best thing you will be able to do is praise him for having surmounted his problems and for being able to get through a difficult time. This is the kind of support he will need; it will give him confidence and strength to continue to heal himself.
There is an appropriate time to tell him that he can call on you for help, and that is (strangely enough) when he says that he won't need it. When he says something like, "I'm going to be all right," or "don't worry about me," then that is the time to tell him, "I know you'll be all right, and remember that I'm here for you." Basically, you're telling him that you believe in his power to take care of himself, but that you will share the load if he asks you to.
Also, bear this in mind: he's probably always going to need more support than some other guys. Make sure you're prepared to offer it if you want your relationship to become closer. If he tells you what it is that he has (sounds like bipolar disorder to me, but I'm no psychiatrist), then do what you can to find out about it so you will be able to deal with it in the future.
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my boyfriend and i are good together, and not much can come between us... except for my best friend. my best friend is a guy. and my boyfriends quite and is kinda emo. he gets upset easliy, and when he does he just listens to music. and then when he does that durring lunch. i lean towards my best friend, and we arent touchie, like we joke around, like try to pick each others noses (yes we are 9th graders) and my boyfriend always gets pissed. and is like you were all over him. im kinda temped to break up with him, but i love him. and i dont know. would you like to give some adivce.. ? please (link)
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Your boyfriend is a little jealous, and honestly, if I were him, I would be too.
When you start having new relationships, sometimes old ones have to change. Certainly you should be able to have the friends you want, both male and female, but you may not be able to relate to them the same way you used to.
Consider how you would feel if there was a girl in his life, someone he had known a lot longer than you, who was a friend of his, and they fooled around the same way you are with your friend. Maybe you wouldn't get jealous about it, but perhaps in that light you can see why he might feel that way.
Try to be a little less physical with your guy-best-friend. It would be respectful to your boyfriend to show some restraint.
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I am 13 and Well i have a bf and he is the best bf i could ever have but we havent kissed yet. I dont care or anything but he said when hes ready he will do it. Im ok with tht but Im really scared when hes going to do it and if im going to be good a it.
I just need to know if i should kiss him 1st or really wait for him????
Another thing is I have a girl best friend and a guy best friend and there dating each other. Thts not it but. They always make out everywhere when Im with my bf and it get annoying. It makes me feel weird becz I havent kissed my bf yet.
And on one field trip we had they were making out on the bus and like touching each other everywhere and me and my bf were just sitting there with his arm around me. They keep on telling him to kiss me and it gets annoying. I just want him to do it on his own and mi girl best friend keeps on telling me that hes a bad bf becz he hasnt kissed me yet. It just gets annoying becz she doesnt support me at all. I just wish they would leave me alone. What should I do on this whole situation.
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Your friends are being childish, immature, and furthermore they are butting in on something that is really not their business.
For them to make out on the bus with all their friends around is more about putting on a show than enjoying each other's company. The fact that she was upset over you not doing it too shows that she was less interested in actually making out and more interested in other people's reactions. This kind of behavior reeks of insecurity.
You and your boyfriend are acting appropriately. There is not reason for the two of you to do ANYTHING that you're both not ready for, including kissing. And it's certainly not something that you deliberately put on display as if it's a juggling act. Your affection for each other is not a peep show.
If you do want to kiss him (and it would seem that you do), then definitely do it when the two of you are alone. I think that the best way to do it would be to simply ask him to. If he's nervous, assure him that you are too and that you're sure it will feel right because it's with him. I don't think he'll turn you down. And don't worry about being "good at it" - you'll find that it's not difficult, and that instinct will guide you. Just enjoy it when it happens; you'll have plenty of time to "refine your technique" later (and you'll have lots of fun doing it!).
After a while, you will feel very comfortable with kissing each other, and it will become something you do in public without a second thought. Serious making-out, though, is never really appropriate in public situations. It makes people around you uncomfortable (you've experience that first-hand) and, as I said, it displays insecurity and immaturity. People who do it are basically saying, "See? We're such a great couple! We LOVE to kiss and make out! Watch this, we'll prove it!"
The fact is that if you ARE a great couple, you don't need to advertise it. It's the people who are unsure about their relationships that feel the need to show off.
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I got my first kiss the other day and wen he went to put his toungue in my mouth i kept it shut i wudnt let him enter i duno why! and anothe thing i also had no idea wat to do with my toungue i tried to go with the flow bbut i was so lost and i thought id do something wrong i just dont kno wat to do i was very confused and im afraid the enxt time it happens i wont know wat to do again and i like to be in controol alot thankyou in advance (link)
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It was pretty crude of him to slip you the tongue for your first kiss. That's something that comes much later.
If you're still going out with this guy, explain to him that you are new at this and that french kissing is something you want to build up to, not jump into all at once. There are gentler and less intimate ways to kiss, and those are more appropriate when a relationship is new and when one or both people in it haven't done much kissing yet. You will be able to maintain a measure of control if you start at square one and build up to more intimate ways of kissing and touching as time goes on.
I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt and assume that he didn't really know what he was doing either, because if he did, he should have realized that he was being way too forceful with you. If he's a decent guy, he will apologize, back off a little, and take it slow, waiting for you to be ready before trying a tongue kiss again. If he continues to try and kiss you in ways that you're not comfortable with yet, though, tell him what to go do with himself.
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I met my bf online a year ago. We talk a lot, like everyday. We usually talk on skype, which is by the way a good program. One time, I called his house phone and asked for his name but an old lady said there is no one by that name who lives in there. I called the next week and i got the same answer. For some reason, he gave his password in his e-mail and maybe he forgot to delete his sent mails and read that all his mails had a a girl's name on the end. I asked him about it and "he" vehemently denied it. He said, he's sharing an e-mail account with his cousin Leah. Well, the pictures he gave me was that of a guy and he sound like a guy..he sounds husky. I am in love with him and I don't think I could accept the fact that my bf is a lesbian pretending to be a guy. He sent me pics of a guy, and even a driver's license with his name and picture on it. I asked him many times if he could get a webcam so i could view him but he always say, "yeah, next month baby..." until i completely forget about it. We plan to get married and he's coming over my country this christmas (as what he said). Now, im really confused. I don't know where to seek help to make sure if my bf is really a guy... My bf is from ontario, canada. (link)
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One thing is fairly certain in all this - this guy is not who he claims to be.
Consider:
He's probably given you a false name. The person who answered the phone could have been his mother, or his wife for that matter, and since you didn't have his real name she assumed it was a wrong number. Have you EVER called and gotten someone else who knows him by the name he gave you? Do you have any independent verification - something you didn't get from him - that the person he says he is exists?
There is NO REASON why someone would share an E-mail account with a cousin. They're free! I could go out and get a hundred E-mail accounts on a dozen different providers and never pay one thin dime. Why would he choose to share an account with someone? "Leah" is much more likely to be another alias he uses.
The pictures he sent you could have been anyone. Don't trust them. As for the driver's license, such things are easy to fake, especially since I'm guessing you are not a law-enforcement officer or a bartender and don't have much experience in detecting fake IDs.
It's suspicious that he won't get a webcam. I don't have one either, but I'm not having an online relationship with someone, and besides it seems strange he would tell you he plans to get one repeatedly and never actually do it. Clearly, he has something to hide.
If I were you, I would have serious second thoughts about this! If you've given him any personally identifying information, like a real name, address, and phone number, DON'T give him any more. If you plan to meet somewhere, do it in a public place and make sure someone knows where you are going and when you expect to be back. Better yet, have a friend go with you. He/she could stay out of sight, but you would have the backup if you needed it. (If he refuses to meet you unless you're alone, that's a red flag - don't agree to such terms!)
Whether he's a man or woman is the least of your worries. He probably IS a man, but he may be lying about everything else. Check the fact he's given you thoroughly before agreeing to meet him. If he gave you a driver's license, you must have his address; a quick look at Google Maps should tell you if there actually is a house there, and an online Canadian phone book should give you a phone number.
It is SO easy to lie and deceive in an online relationship. Before you progress any further with yours, you need to have some solid, independent evidence that he is who he says he is. This is not needless paranoia and it is not exaggerating to say that your personal security is at risk. Even if he's not a psychopath, he could be an identity thief or other form of con artist.
Seriously. Please. Check your facts before giving him any more information about yourself, and certain don't agree to meet him until you can be SURE of who he is.
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This year our "girl asks guy" dance's theme is 'it takes two' aka matching outfits and what not. The dance is tomorrow and my date and i still cant think of anything creative besides 'color coordinating'. Any suggestions? What have people gone as before? nothing too elaborate or time consuming please, because the dance is tomorrow (short notice i know). But please help! its my first and last sadies dance. (link)
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I hate to tell you this, but at this point, you're essentially out of time for anything creative. Anything fun and different that you're likely to come up with now is probably going to take too much preparation time. But here are a few simple thoughts:
(1) Regular dance outfits with matching Converse All-star sneakers.
(2) Both of you could dye your hair some unusual color.
(3) Double-date with another couple; you wear the same dress as her, he wears the same suit as him.
With the amount of time you have left, that's all I can think of - and the third one is probably impossible as it is. Good luck!
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hey, my best friend and i go to school together and our boyfriends already graduated but our sadies are coming up and we really wanted to ask our boyfriends to the dance...TOGETHER...but we cant find any links or people that can think of any ideas..at all! if you could help at all..that would be so great! btw: sadies is in a couple of weeks so any ideas soon would be great,
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What kind of ideas are you looking for? Are you wondering how to ask them out, or what to wear, or what to do that evening? You need to be a little more specific about how I can advise you.
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There is this new kid in my school well actually not that new maybe a month or two. But I dont know how to start a conversation with him. I REALLY REALLY REALLY like him! He seems shy ish. I just want him to notice me he is kinda ok really short but not all guys care if the girl is taller then them right? please help (link)
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Most guys do prefer a woman to be a little shorter than they are, but if this guy is "really short", then he's probably resigned to the fact that he'll be dating taller women. I wouldn't worry too much about that part.
The fact that he's new gives you a perfect conversation opener. Just pick a moment, like after class or lunchtime or something, and say, "Hi, you're kind of new here, right? I'm Stacy." (This assumes that you are Stacy.)
If he has any manners at all, he'll introduce himself in turn. Then, all you have to do is ask him where he's from, and have a conversation from there. It doesn't have to be a long conversation, just enough so that you've met and know each other a little.
Then, make sure to keep it up. Say hi to him in the halls and occasionally go out of your way to ask how he's doing. If he's interested at all in you, he will start going out of his way to greet you as well, and just like that you've got a thing going. Where it goes from there is up to both of you!
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Would I need Applied Math or calculus for becoming an accountant? I've tried searching and it didn't help. (link)
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I'm sure it would be necessary to take the applied math - that's essentially the definition of accounting. Not sure about the Calculus, but it's a good bet.
The best place for you to look would be the website of a college that offers a CPA program. You should be able to check out the course listings and see what's required.
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so basicaly, my best friend kristen is friends with a veiw people i dont exactly hate, but dont like. yesterday i went to a funeral, and no thats not the problem, it was my dads uncle, but i havent talked to her in a day, and last time i tryed to call her, there was no answer, and i feel like shes out with these people she claims she hates, but now im getting the feeling shes begining to hate me, and i have no one to talk to. (link)
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People can change over time, including our friends. It's unfortunate for you that she's hanging out with a circle of people that you don't care for, but of course that is her choice.
I doubt that she is beginning to "hate" you, though it's certainly possible that your friendship is on the downslide. There are steps you can take to keep that from happening; one of them would be to make an effort to get along with her other friends so she doesn't have to make a choice insofar as who to hang around with. Whatever you do, don't get possessive; that will definitely make her choose them over you.
As far as your efforts to get in touch with her, it's only been one day. Give it a little more time before deciding that she's ignoring you.
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