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I got it working, everything's good now but, recently my home button stopped working. The physical button is jammed down and refuses to be able to be pushed. I woke up and it was like this, I have no idea how it came to be, I tried alcohol but it only made it worse. please help!

Thank you so much!

Thank you so much. This helped me understand so much better. =) I hope you have a wonderful day!

Thanks! I'll do it

Thank you for both of you guys advice, it was very helpful, and it has also given me a more positive outlook on my next step in life. Once again, thank you.

Thank you!! Your answer appeared well thought out. Your way of telling if you're in love makes a lot of sense. You probably don't care, but for the record, he definitely has some flaws. But that's what makes Michael, Michael. :3~ Thanks again, I appreciate your advice immensely!

Thanks! I agree with what you are saying. I personally don't like the idea of circumcision and plan to tell her why and show her different responses. Ultimately it's their choice but they should be a little more informed now.

that is what i thought but i didn't want to be mean until i was sure it was ok! THANK YOU!

Thanks. I will have a talk with my Mom. And yes there are other things he wants to change but there are little. But I don't think he will ever hit me. Thanks again.

Thank you so much!

Thank you very much Xenolon. You were really helpful to me. I will definitely going to tell the truth because i knew if not, it will become a poison in me..i am quite worried on how he will respond to me but i just want to be honest and have a divine relationship.

I agree with what you say and i thank you for your help. It is very sound advise i cannot think straight at the moment so thank you very much. very helpful advice.

Thankyou so mcuh!

Yes,so I've read as weel,but I was hoping to know something about her,thanks a lot!I'll follow your advice

Thanks. First 3 paragraphs were unnecessary. I'm not stupid.

Charm bracelet it is, thank you

thank you, it really helped(: she told me to keep it a secret so I guess ill keep it that way. Ill for sure educate her on this and hope she will stop or at least cut back! Thanks again!

Thank you for your time! Your advice was great. I tried talking him to getting back on the medication and he refuses too. He's being stubborn. He called me selfish, when in reality, I'm trying to help him (he has a very short temper on some topics) He says I only want him on medication so he'll change, and I told him 'If your memory is this bad now, and you don't figure out what it is, than it's only going to get worse later on. It may not even be ADD, and if its not, you can always STOP taking the medication, but we need to figure out what it is exactly thats causing you to have such a terrible memory' But, once again, thanks!!

thank you :)

Hi, I am 13 and I have always enjoyed un worldly things. My imagination is too big for the world and I very well know that the tooth fairy isn't real. That one was for a younger friend. But being someone like me you just can't help but feel like things like faires exist. Thanks

The question was a financial one, not a moral or romantic one. Divorce is an expensive and complicated matter that cannot be afforded at the moment. The doubt is not if we will work it is about if the financial problems of for sake of argument 'his wife on paper' will affect is long term.

Thank you. Now I know how it happened. Wish I knew before :(

Thankyou :)

thank you so much, I am getting there, just kinda expecting he would be ready.. but if not, then let it be.... guys and girls sure are different!! I really appreciate it!!!

Thank You

I'm not friends with her at all, she told me when she was all hysterical about him slleping with me and i can't turn my back on this i have to see these people every weeekend as we're part of a sports club that i really don't want to leave but thanks for trying.

Thank you:)

Thanks! But, I have trash bags on my windows because my other step brother used to peak through the windows while I was getting dressed, so there is NO way my other stepbrother can be spying on me through the window!

hahah thank you. And having a baby to make them bigger is a little too extreme for me since i'm only 18 :) but thank you anyways!

thanks ! made me feel better but i still want to look more like them..

Good idea! Thanks you :)

I've picked up my cat numerous times, She was VERY light there was no weight whatsoever. I know the difference but thank you anyway.

Glad i didn't see your answer first because i would not have called. who are YOU to tell people that worrying about your helth isn't important! if i didn't call then i probably would have died! i am in the hospital now writing on my iphone and i am going to have surgery tomorrow to clear a blockage in my artery that was causing my chest pains. you didnt ask WHY I was worried about my health you just told me i wasn't important! good JOB! oh one more thing is that i asked and where i live there is no charge unless they transport you same as all the other people who answered except you. you still get a 5 because you tried but you are completely wrong. no charge for anything less than transport and the 911 people said that any time your body does something that scares you you should pick up the phone and dial immediately and not wait. you are COMPLETELY wrong in both respects and i am asking you to delet your answer because if i had listened to you i would probably be dead or a vegetable. please don't leave your answer up there and hurt anyone else the way you almost hurt me.

thank you!!!

i wish everyone here was as grown up as you cause taht is the best answer i ever got here! thank you! ps i would never play mind games like the other guy said!!

Thanks so much for the help:)

I wasnt asking about what I could do, I was asking if there was anything that could be done. I dont need you analyzing the relationship I have with my boyfriends mother consider she's the one who brought it up with me.

thanks

woah, this was major help, thanks so much <33

wow... you wrote a lot thank you from, pinkcherries

Thanks so much. I completely agree with the whole 15 thing. I'm not planning on doing anything like that anytime soon, me and my friend were just wondering. But thanks!

Thank you so much! You have, as ever, really helped. I actually do know and like this young man as a person, which is what makes this sudden lust a little disturbing, but you're quite right, it's nothing serious. Thanks again!

Thank You So Much, You're absolutely right!

Thankssss :). Im definitly gonna try three, and thanks for the last bit too. That really helpedd mee. xx

thank you! best answerr ever: ]] you helped me a lott

Thanks :D

Thank you so much :)

lol im 13 hese 16 rlly.. lol best advice .. seriously. thank you so much!

THANK YOU FOR YOUR OPINON, APPRECIATE IT A LOT!!! :) Thanks for taking the time out to answer this so honest! Really do appreciate it. Keep up the good work with all of your advice! Really helped.

thanks

Thank you thank you thank you! I have just read your response, and what you say makes so much sense. I'm in a much better place than I was even a year ago-I can now recognize an abuser for what he is, and I am so sck of feeling low about myself all the time. I probably will post the question to Sabine-I'd also welcome a female perpective :-) But your advice has helpd so much. Thanks again!

thank you!

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Thanks.

good point :)

Do it for the right reasons - don't do it just so you can say you did. You want your first kiss to be something memorable, not something you did just to get it over with. That's been such an issue for me ^^ Thank you!

love your advice.

amazing..thanks

Perverted-Justice does not take volunteers under 18 but thanks.

thank u.

thank you soooo much. You told me clearly that if me and Jacey are really close that I shouldnt go for Tom unless I truly love the guy. But i mean what sholuld I do if she is alright with me still having feelings for him? She knew before we were good friends that I liked him, and we are still good friends. What should I do?

Thank you!

thanx

Thanks hun! :] We'll see what happens.Hopefully we'll work it out.

thank you so much. i'm glad that you let me know all of that about the scantrons because now i have a better idea of how it works

boo you whore. go tell some one else your sob story. Rating changed by L2 moderator. This advice was spot on. It is unaccetpable to forbid advicenators to not give you certain answers, especially with a list so comprehensive as yours. Such behaviour shows that you do not really want advice, but for people to just blandly agree with you, and this is not why the site is here. The 1 rating should be reserved for answers that are absuive or harmful. If you rate good advice this way again simply because it disagrees with you, you are on line for a ban. Consider this a warning. It is also unacceptable to use insults in feedback. Your use of the word "whore" was unacceptable. Again, you need to modify your behaviour if you want to stay on this site. I am also sending this to your inbox. hailebop

Thankyou for your advice. I've decided that I don't like either of these guys but thankyou anyways!

the store is not yet open... i can't just get an application...

Thank you so much!

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Thank you!

Thanks, I'll try it :)

thanks but its very hard for me to leave him because i know wat hes doing now and im worried about him and everythin but sometimes you have to let things go and this is something i think i should let go. thanks again.

Thank you for your brutal honesty. It is what i needed to hear and insight on what she is trying to do. Thank you.

Omg. Thank you SOO much. You have no idea how much this advice helped me. I now look at AJ in a different light and see him for who he truly is; a jerk. And you're COMPELTELY right about EVERYTHING you said. I do need to get over him. And Thank You So Much. Again... I appreciated it alott. haha You have no idea. thank you. :]

thank u so much! i took your advice and it helped so much. now we r going out!! YAY!!

Your grammar and all is really good, but your answer wasn't very informative. You don't seem to answer my question very well, just suggest things. Thanks, anyways.

Thanks very much, I'll give that a a try!

thanks

thanks for taking the time to write such a long, in-depth answer

thank you

I am being patient, and i dont want to push her. i just curious of what her reason is thats all. but thanx for making me understand now.

Thanks, it seems to be working for now! lol

Yes jack as our friend, thank you for your advice. now it makes more secnes.

lol

awesome thanks

I completely understand that girls will not say yes on the dot, neither would I, and i've heard of almost every sexual act out there which leads me to saying I would not perform anything a girl asks, I was just asking about the normal girls who like to have normal sex

FYI i am a girl. thinx for the advice.

hey :] aha thanks ! he's 15 turning 16 this year :P umm well you have the right idea for a few things but a lot of my friends know him and my mom and brother do too and none of them say hes bad, hes really nice and like he doesnt use girls. umm the calling thing he was j.k about, he gave me his number b.c i wouldnt give him mine b.c i dont want ppl calling my house, so he gave me his number b.c he doesnt give it out a lot. :P he only lets pretty girls call him i guess :P anyway thanks for the advice :D aha you've def. helped me b.c now i can be a little more cautious ♥ Sabina xox

thanks

Hey thanks for the advice , i like it!!! Im going to try it!!!! Heres my im if you want to chat n help me with more, blknspice@yahoo.com

Thanks. Yeah, we are completely honest with each other and she knows about my feelings. Sometimes I feel so sure that I want to be with her forever and then other times I wish I was with whoever my latest obsession is with. It's confusing. Oh, and I do have a job, but I earn only about $200 a pay check, which really isn't enough to support myself.

i think i am in love with you

Thanks

Yukssss... disgusting spacesuit indeed.

i worded that wrong. she does care...but she can't really do anything about it because he's stubborn...but with me it's different cuz i'm still a kid. and yeahh. thankss

ok thanks. thats kinda weird. why dont they just let us delete them but ya thanks <3

Thanks. Yes ,he's had his shots

wow. thank you soo much. this reallly helped A LOT.

if you call paragraphs short small answers thenn i guess im leaving "short small answersss" =] aighht? lets not jump to conclusionss.

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