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boyfriend & best friend.
my boyfriend and i are good together, and not much can come between us... except for my best friend. my best friend is a guy. and my boyfriends quite and is kinda emo. he gets upset easliy, and when he does he just listens to music. and then when he does that durring lunch. i lean towards my best friend, and we arent touchie, like we joke around, like try to pick each others noses (yes we are 9th graders) and my boyfriend always gets pissed. and is like you were all over him. im kinda temped to break up with him, but i love him. and i dont know. would you like to give some adivce.. ? please
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He has the right to be jealous. My boyfriend's jealous of my close friend & I. My close friend is also a guy. I told my boyfriend that me & my friend are JUST FRIENDS and that's it. We have no interest in each other, and we're just super close. I also told him I see my friend as a brother figure more than a boyfriend figure. Let him know that, and if he still gets jealous, then I'd let him go. Jealousy is healthy for a relationship, and sometimes it's okay, but too much of it can make you feel crowded.
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Okay i think your bf is jealous and he has the rite to be. although to you it might just be the way you and your best friend play around, you probably shouldn't in front of your bf. guys get jealous of this type of thing, (ive been in a similar situation). i think the best solution is if you love your bf then you shouldn't dump him. its not his fault he's jealous. you should talk to your best friend and explain that you shouldnt be so jokey around eachother, even though its not touchy some guys see this as flirting. hope i helped
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Your boyfriend is a little jealous, and honestly, if I were him, I would be too.
When you start having new relationships, sometimes old ones have to change. Certainly you should be able to have the friends you want, both male and female, but you may not be able to relate to them the same way you used to.
Consider how you would feel if there was a girl in his life, someone he had known a lot longer than you, who was a friend of his, and they fooled around the same way you are with your friend. Maybe you wouldn't get jealous about it, but perhaps in that light you can see why he might feel that way.
Try to be a little less physical with your guy-best-friend. It would be respectful to your boyfriend to show some restraint.
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