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Kissing
I got my first kiss the other day and wen he went to put his toungue in my mouth i kept it shut i wudnt let him enter i duno why! and anothe thing i also had no idea wat to do with my toungue i tried to go with the flow bbut i was so lost and i thought id do something wrong i just dont kno wat to do i was very confused and im afraid the enxt time it happens i wont know wat to do again and i like to be in controol alot thankyou in advance
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It was pretty crude of him to slip you the tongue for your first kiss. That's something that comes much later.
If you're still going out with this guy, explain to him that you are new at this and that french kissing is something you want to build up to, not jump into all at once. There are gentler and less intimate ways to kiss, and those are more appropriate when a relationship is new and when one or both people in it haven't done much kissing yet. You will be able to maintain a measure of control if you start at square one and build up to more intimate ways of kissing and touching as time goes on.
I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt and assume that he didn't really know what he was doing either, because if he did, he should have realized that he was being way too forceful with you. If he's a decent guy, he will apologize, back off a little, and take it slow, waiting for you to be ready before trying a tongue kiss again. If he continues to try and kiss you in ways that you're not comfortable with yet, though, tell him what to go do with himself.
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Well if your asking how to kiss go to www.sextutor.com and click on kissing. Just remember to spell your name with your tounge and don't be scared. Just go with the flow. While your making out play with his hair, or hands. Like draw on it with your hands, or run your hands threw his hair, or tug on it. Just start out slow and get alittle more aggresive, but not too much. Hope I helped & good luck!
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