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Kissing and Best Friends who Make Out.
I am 13 and Well i have a bf and he is the best bf i could ever have but we havent kissed yet. I dont care or anything but he said when hes ready he will do it. Im ok with tht but Im really scared when hes going to do it and if im going to be good a it.
I just need to know if i should kiss him 1st or really wait for him????
Another thing is I have a girl best friend and a guy best friend and there dating each other. Thts not it but. They always make out everywhere when Im with my bf and it get annoying. It makes me feel weird becz I havent kissed my bf yet.
And on one field trip we had they were making out on the bus and like touching each other everywhere and me and my bf were just sitting there with his arm around me. They keep on telling him to kiss me and it gets annoying. I just want him to do it on his own and mi girl best friend keeps on telling me that hes a bad bf becz he hasnt kissed me yet. It just gets annoying becz she doesnt support me at all. I just wish they would leave me alone. What should I do on this whole situation.
PLEASE HELP ME.
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Some people in relationships move faster than others. It does not mean one relationship is better than the other. It sounds like your friends are just not nervous about making out and PDA is deffintely not an issue. Your boyfriend wants to wait until he is ready. Thats actually a sign of maturity, because isnt going to rush into anything just to do it, he wants to be comfortable and ready for it. So wait for your guy to be ready, and he'll make a move. He'll appreciate that you dont mind waiting for you, and it will make your first kiss that much better.
Talk to your friend. Ask her to respect your boyfriends decision to wait a while, and that it doesnt mean he's a bad guy. If she won't, just politely tell her that you dont need her advice and you can handle it on your own. Also ask her to let up on so much PDA. Its a bit tacky, actually. Nothing is wrong with making out, but in public it just makes many people around the couple feel uncomfortable.
Good luck!
-Abby
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Tell your friend to grow up and have some respect
for the people around her. No one wants to see her and her boyfriend make out. It's rude and disgusting. Short, quick kisses are okay in public, but nothing more.
Kissing is a personal, intimate thing between a couple. It's none of your friend's business and make sure you tell her so. If she's really a good friend, she'll stop bugging your boyfriend about not kissing you. It's VERY immature and she is most likely making the two of you uncomfortable, which can delay your first kiss even longer.
Now, if you really want to kiss your boyfriend, do it! I'm quite sure he'll be happy you do. Then again, if you'd rather that he'd do it, give him lots of opportunities.
Just a few ideas to try:
When you're watching a movie, at home or a theatre, sit close to him and link your arm around his. Randomly look up at him, smile, and say he's cute or any other compliment you can think of. Make sure your faces are close when you do it. I'm sure he'd be VERY tempted to kiss you then!
Or, let's say you two are hanging out at the park. Walk around with him, hold his hand, and be cute and flirty. Then, do the same thing I told you earlier, just stop, look him in the eye, and say something really sweet.
I'm not sure if you guys say "I love you" yet, but that's one thing you could say. You could also say something like "You're amazing" or "You make me sooo happy."
If all else fails, just give him a peck on the lips yourself when you feel the time is right.
Good luck!
-EDIT- No problem I'm SO glad I was able to help! I have had friends like that in the past and I hated them for doing that to me.
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Your friends are being childish, immature, and furthermore they are butting in on something that is really not their business.
For them to make out on the bus with all their friends around is more about putting on a show than enjoying each other's company. The fact that she was upset over you not doing it too shows that she was less interested in actually making out and more interested in other people's reactions. This kind of behavior reeks of insecurity.
You and your boyfriend are acting appropriately. There is not reason for the two of you to do ANYTHING that you're both not ready for, including kissing. And it's certainly not something that you deliberately put on display as if it's a juggling act. Your affection for each other is not a peep show.
If you do want to kiss him (and it would seem that you do), then definitely do it when the two of you are alone. I think that the best way to do it would be to simply ask him to. If he's nervous, assure him that you are too and that you're sure it will feel right because it's with him. I don't think he'll turn you down. And don't worry about being "good at it" - you'll find that it's not difficult, and that instinct will guide you. Just enjoy it when it happens; you'll have plenty of time to "refine your technique" later (and you'll have lots of fun doing it!).
After a while, you will feel very comfortable with kissing each other, and it will become something you do in public without a second thought. Serious making-out, though, is never really appropriate in public situations. It makes people around you uncomfortable (you've experience that first-hand) and, as I said, it displays insecurity and immaturity. People who do it are basically saying, "See? We're such a great couple! We LOVE to kiss and make out! Watch this, we'll prove it!"
The fact is that if you ARE a great couple, you don't need to advertise it. It's the people who are unsure about their relationships that feel the need to show off.
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ignore the people that keep on getting on your nerves!! when your readdy kiss him and when he is readdy yall shall kiss don't make people make yall kiss You should do it for the love yall have for each other. Your friend is being mean to you tell her you is not like her you don't want to make out like her. when you and your bf is readdy kiss don't do it cause anybody want yall to kiss do if yall really want to.
don't let people get it your way ignore them!!
hope i help if you need any else to talk about talk to me
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