so basicaly, my best friend kristen is friends with a veiw people i dont exactly hate, but dont like. yesterday i went to a funeral, and no thats not the problem, it was my dads uncle, but i havent talked to her in a day, and last time i tryed to call her, there was no answer, and i feel like shes out with these people she claims she hates, but now im getting the feeling shes begining to hate me, and i have no one to talk to.
Xenolan answered Friday March 2 2007, 12:09 pm: People can change over time, including our friends. It's unfortunate for you that she's hanging out with a circle of people that you don't care for, but of course that is her choice.
I doubt that she is beginning to "hate" you, though it's certainly possible that your friendship is on the downslide. There are steps you can take to keep that from happening; one of them would be to make an effort to get along with her other friends so she doesn't have to make a choice insofar as who to hang around with. Whatever you do, don't get possessive; that will definitely make her choose them over you.
As far as your efforts to get in touch with her, it's only been one day. Give it a little more time before deciding that she's ignoring you. [ Xenolan's advice column | Ask Xenolan A Question ]
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