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My boyfriend's gone for the weekend, and I want to make him a really nice dinner tomorrow night when he gets back.

Thing is, I can't think of a good dessert to make for him. He doesn't like cheesecake, and I don't want to make a cake, because we'll never eat it all before it goes bad.

Any ideas for a really nice dessert for two?

Try homemade cookies,or make him a tray full of deelishes things he likes!Good Luck!

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15/f. first of all is it weird that i'm in 9th grade and i like an 8th grader? anyway the guy i like is super nice to everyone but the problem is that he has a girlfriend. his girlfriend goes to another school so i don't actually know her but i heard that she can be a realy b****. anyway i've started talking to him afterschool and he is so nice to me and a lot of the time he seems like he's flirting with me. like the other day he hugged me, and he is always asking me to come with him and follow him if he goes somewhere. then when i sit down he always sits next to me and then leans in real close (its kinda ackward actually lol). well we are in the play together and he was trying to twirl this one girl. and the girl messed up and he was jokingly like i bet megan (thats me) could do better and he like held my hand and twirled me. it was so cute and he like randomly will like put his arm on your back if he is standing next to you.

ah omg its so weird becaues it seems like he's flirting but then i remember that he has a girlfriend. what can i do?

You do the hardest thing. You ask him, maybe he will say yes, or frogot to tell you that he broke up with his girlfriend or something. Maybe he really does like you and since you like him things could turn out okay. Hope things turn out okay!

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how do i let the real me out at school.

me at school:
-shy
-quite
-goody
-not alot of friends
-push over

real me:
-loud
-out going
-crazy
-social (with people at... OTHER schools because i couldnt give a fuckkkk what they think but they like me.. atleast the guys =] )
-usually dont take crap


its getting KINDA warmer were i live and i ussauly the SMALLEST bit come out of my shell at school. what can i do.. to let the real me come out.. i mean.. i really need friends.. and bf because rumors are starting.. what can i do to let me come out.


and you think if i did let the "real me" come out.. people would like me.. ?

anything else you have to say about this make sure to tell me!

thankss sooo much.

You could start acting like your real self and maybe you could have the friends you want and you could build up the courage to ask a boy out or something. Point is, if you start acting like your real self. People well see your real self!
Best of Luck!

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how can i look prettttty.
i have blonde hair and blue eyes.

Try wearign some some stylsih clothes and you could do something nice to your hair. maybe even wear some makeup! Good Luck!

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I'm moving soon, and want to have an office in the house. I'm a student, so I thought it would be a great thing for my school work and other things I have to work on. Can anyone recommend or suggest somethings that I really need to have in an office? Also, I have to sell this idea to my parents, I'm in high school.

#1 thing to hav ein a office is an computer. Very useful in doing homework and stuff. #2 a reading area. Like a recliner, bookshelf, and a floor lamp. And #3 a window. So if you don't want your lights on you can open up your curtain. It is also good to the window open too! Good Luck!

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My Daughter is 11 and she tells me shes old anough to babysit but i dont know if she should. I started babysitting when i was 11 but i want to make sure its a good age. Please help!

I think it is a good idea to let an 11 year old baby-sit. Maybe she can learn something. But you should start her off on something easy. Like babysitting a (8 or 7 year old).

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Hey everyone.

Well our choir instructor wants us to do a bunch of fundraising. The thing is the stuff that he picks is very boring and typical that we don't want to do it and he gets mad about it.

Like bottle and can drives and selling cookie dough and such.

Does anyone have some good and FUN fundraising we can do?

You could wash cars. They always end up in a soapy fight. That is always fun! Maybe you could talk to your instructor about changing things up a bit. Best of Luck!

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i was thinking of getting highlights for my hair. i have the filipino skin complexion, you know like the asians do. so i was thinkin about what color to highlight my hair. i want to get like a reddish kind but i'm not sure. and i'm also to emo kind so yeah. and my hair is also straight and layered, if that helps.

I like blue and red. I have seen it in asian hair before. If your skin complex is asian maybe you should also hae like an exotic hair-doo!

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hi, i dont know whar to do. but i have been talking to a boy, lets call him Rick. and Rick is my boyfriends best friend, and we started talking for fun. and then we noticed we have SO much in common, and we have become best friends, though we have never met. so one day we did a 3 way call with my good friend, lets call her Jen. and they dont have much in common, and ussaully they just talk to me. but now Jen is UPSESSED with Rick and likes him. and forced him to give her his number, and invited him to go camping with us, and invited him to sleep over when he comes up from maryland to visit me and my boyfriend. and jens like i like him and do you think long distance relationships last? and im like ummm. and like i like rick tooo, and shes being stalkerish. and shes pissing me off. and i dont want to be rude and be like back off, but i dont want her to keep doing this to him. help please.

Well maybe telling her to back off is the right thing, but don't tell her like that. Tell her nicley, and maybe she will understand. There is nothing wrong with having an long-distance relationship, sometimes they can last long ,but thats only if you really, really, like this person. Ask your friend does she really, really, like him. If the answer is yes than it is posible for them to have a long-distance realtionship. Now the only question is does he really, really, like her? Think about that. Good Luck, with your problem!

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Now i have a friend and i have had this friend for my hole life 15 years and we talk about everything a girl can talk about nail hair and boys. But latley ever since she has been makeing me really mad liing the guys i like taking my own friend aay from me never telling me when someone talks about me and talks about me to others now 15years is a long time and i ahve never seen this behavior from her befor do i throw that 15 years of friendship away????


now i have another friend i have only known for about 3 years and she always trys to make me jealouse by hanging with my other friend i was talking about and just leaving me!!!!


and my grades are bad i just feel like my life is all mest up!!!!

Well you need to talk to your friend about that, ask kher why she'sbeen so mean over the days. Now you've had 15 years of friendship, and I wouldn't throw it away over some nonsense that can be sorted out with talking & understanding! Tell me how it works out!

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If best friends fight, and they've never fought before, does that mean they've stopped loving each other?
People have been coming up to my friend and me and saying 'sorry to hear you two are fighting.' Is it normal to fight? We're not really, but there was an issue involving the guy she's with making up stuff about me. I talked to her about it and this whole dramatic thing started.
Can we fix this? I told you, we've never fought, ever, in our three years of friendship.
What can we do?

Well, fighting is just apart of a healthy friendship, and if the boy she is with is making up stuff about you, you need to tell her straight. Maybe she will listen if it was just you two talking. Try it, its useful! Good Luck!

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Okay so i herd that walking is better then running for loosing weight. So if you take a walk for 30 minutes everyday and then do 10 sit ups 5 crunches and 100 that excercise thing for your abs... and eat heathy can you loos weight or do i have to exercise more or less eat less or more?
my eating
Breakfast - nothing (most of the time) sometimes cereal)
Lunch- Apples&sandwich
Dinner-Rice or somethingelse.. a dinner meal (all sorts of things)

Is that okay and plus my excersising? or should i excersise and eat less please help?


Thanks,
15/f

Well I think the things you just said are very helpful into loosing weight. Maybe a little more vegetables are good too. You shouldn't have to run so much. If your eating healthy and doing sit-ups and crunches. Do all those thing once or twice a day, you should be good! Best of luck!

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i know there is probably a lot of questions like this but whatever haha. well anyways im 14 and ive never had my first kiss yet. i know it seems young and all but dont be like "it will happen when it happens". because by the way im in high school. i have had the opportunity, but turned it down many times...it is because im scared of messing up, or not knowing what to do, or forcing it too much or something. and i dont want to seem all inexperienced. some of my friends have even went all the way!! its disgusting and i would never do that this young, and im not wanting my first kiss since all my friends have had it, i just want to be able to like go to parties and feel comfortable with being with a guy. also, i avoid having boyfriends because i know they'll want to makeout, and i dont want to seem prude. because like with other things im not, it just is confusing to explain about my fear of messing up when making out haha. i just dont know what to do please help! thanks!! and please dont answer if you're just gonna say "just go with the flow blah blah" haha thanks!

Well, you have a tough situation, but every situation can be sorted out. Truth is i'm 13 and I haven't had my first kiss yet. Don't Freak Out!
I know that you're scared, sometimes it can get scary, but next time if a boy u like wants to kiss you and you wnt to kiss him. Go for it. It might turn out okay! Best of Luck!

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sorry, wrong category i know. anyways, every time i get out of the shower, my hair is super tangley. i use shampoo and conditioner every time, and ive tried a bunch of different stuff. but it is always extremely knotted and stuff when i blow dry or comb it afterwards. it takes forever to get it dry and untangled. what should i do about this?! please and thanks :]

Do you wear a rubber band in your hair before you shower? If you don't you should try it some time. If it does get taggled, it won't be alot. It will be easy to come out. Hope it works out!

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so basicaly, my best friend kristen is friends with a veiw people i dont exactly hate, but dont like. yesterday i went to a funeral, and no thats not the problem, it was my dads uncle, but i havent talked to her in a day, and last time i tryed to call her, there was no answer, and i feel like shes out with these people she claims she hates, but now im getting the feeling shes begining to hate me, and i have no one to talk to.

You need to talk to your friend. Let her know how you feel. So, you tried to call her don't give up. Go over to her house and try to speak to her. If she's there you 2 have alot to talk about! Hope it all works out!!!

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my hair is totally wrecked!

i use a curling iron as a straightener for a while and i think it destroyed my hair.
it has split ends and is really poofy and frizzy.

what kind of shampoo/conditioner/hair treatment will make my hair healthier??

thanks!

Well, I have really long hair for a black girl. I goes to my shoulder blades. Well anyway, the conditioner, shampoo, and hair treatment I use is pantene. It always get my hair fresh and clean. Oh yeah don't use a curling iron and a straightner at the same time. Best of luck!

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my cousin is only 13 and she doesnt have her period and she got a tampon from her brothers gf
and she wore it .
is anything going to happen to her
cuz she was freaking out but im scared for her cuz she isnt used to this feeling !

HELP !!!!!

It's normal to not have your period at the age of 13. You can be 15 and still not have your period. If she doesn't have it at the age of 15 and down. Maybe you should contact a doctor. They always find a way to help you out!

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