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We're not fighting...
If best friends fight, and they've never fought before, does that mean they've stopped loving each other?
People have been coming up to my friend and me and saying 'sorry to hear you two are fighting.' Is it normal to fight? We're not really, but there was an issue involving the guy she's with making up stuff about me. I talked to her about it and this whole dramatic thing started.
Can we fix this? I told you, we've never fought, ever, in our three years of friendship.
What can we do?
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Fights are needed in any relationship to keep them healthy & strong, but too much fighting can be bad.
Anyways, talk to her about it calmly & try to resolve it with her.
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Most, if not all, friends will fight or argue at one point in a friendship. It's healthy. One little arguement doesn't mean that you have a bad friendship, or that your friend doesn't love you anymore.
You need to talk to her about it again. I know that talking to her in the first place may have caused some drama, but nothing good will come from this situation if you sit there and do nothing.
Since this is between you and her, talk to her alone. Involving more people will only cause more drama.
Let her know that what the guy said hurt your feelings. Tell her that you care about her and don't want to lose her friendship over this.
If she says that she's sorry, accept the apology. If she doesn't show any remorse... that's when you should reconsider how great your friendship with this girl is.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders
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No, just cause yuo fight doesnt mean you guys stopped loving eachother. I mean every friend ship has its bump in the road. See i had a friend i knew for about 15 years!!! and we just got in our first fight about a week ago but we made up and now were back to ourselves. And even though fights come and go a friend is ALWAYS suppose to have your back no matter what bf she has, so you need to talk to her if she says she is not gona conffront him then you know that thoese 3years of friendship could be brought down by one boy and mabe that bestfriend isnt really the best friend you could ask BUT BEFOR you make that desicon ask her first to talk to the boyfriend!!!! hope i helped
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Well, fighting is just apart of a healthy friendship, and if the boy she is with is making up stuff about you, you need to tell her straight. Maybe she will listen if it was just you two talking. Try it, its useful! Good Luck!
~Re Re
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you tell her look ive been there for you for three years and im going to be here for you through your long relationship with {whoever her curent boyfreinds insert name here} {you dont want to say when they break up because if you do your saying your routing for a break up} and say i love you and i never want to fight again
good luck!!!
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