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okay, PLEASE bear with me, it will be veryy long.
first off, i want to start with im 13/f.
two years ago, after moving away from my, almost perfect life, i was severely depressed, but i wasnt diagnosed with it.
i wouldnt get out of bed, and i would cry all day, every day.
i felt like everyone hated me and i stopped going to school altogether.
my mom was now "home-schooling" me, so i wouldnt drop out.
that was two years ago of course, i got over it and now, ive been great.
ive gotten alot of friends (again) and im very happy with my amazing boyfriend.
only thing is, he lives where i used to live before i moved (miami).
so i barely ever see him.
unless we go down.
for a while we were going down every week or every other week.
now we barely ever go because my mom says that "we go too often".
now, i havent seen my boyfriend for three weeks.
and tonight i was supposed to go to miami.
and i was going to stay at his house.
im a major christian and i have very high morals.
i believe true love waits.
and i would never do anything more than kiss until im married.
so, my mom knows this.
and she said, ok, you cant stay at his house.
(this was last week, when i asked her)
so tonight around 8, my brother was going to drive me down when he got off work.
all of the sudden, my mom tells me that i cant go.
she says that she doesnt want me to make any mistakes that i might regret in the future.
shes practically blaming HER mistakes on me.
which is something i wouldnt do.
she, changed her mind out of the blue.
and so i had to call my boyfriend and tell him that i cant see him.
on our anniversary, btw.
and then i had to call my friends and cancel all of our plans, basically ruining their weekend as well.
and so, i was crying.
and i dont want to sound like a baby, i was just really excited about it all week.
and she let me down the HOUR i was supposed to go.
i havent cried this hard, since 6th grade, when i was depressed.
and i dont want to go back to depression.
im tired of it, but i feel like crying alot.
i feel like i could cry forever.
and i dont feel like leaving my bed, again.
so i was wondering.
what are ways that i can get my mom to trust me more.
and how can i keep from becoming depressed again?
thank you so much, in advance.
i could use prayer, and advice.
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Well it's great that you have your morals in sex before marriage and stuff i really admire tht. But what u need to do is sit down with your mom and try to make her understand to trust you and tell her if she loved you she would trust you. And to keep your self from being deppressed go out with your friend make plans keep yourself busy even if you feel like staying in bed because the if you just stay in bed then you will get even more deppresed and it will start up all over again. You got your self out of being deppressed the first time dont let it happen again.And throwing in a prayer might help you to.
like the saying goes: laugh your heart out dance in the rain:cherish the moment, IGNORE THE PAIN, live, laugh, love, forgive and forget life to short to live with regrets
idk mabe tht helped u!
hope i helped!
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Ive been having a cramp like feeling for about a week now. My boobs hurt off and on, My lower back hurts all the time. and after i eat i get a sick feeling and im having lots of dieriah. Ive had a loss of appetite am i pregnant? (link)
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well thoese are all signs of being pregnet but the question really is have you had unprotected sex if you did you need to take a pregnecy test QUICK!
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If best friends fight, and they've never fought before, does that mean they've stopped loving each other?
People have been coming up to my friend and me and saying 'sorry to hear you two are fighting.' Is it normal to fight? We're not really, but there was an issue involving the guy she's with making up stuff about me. I talked to her about it and this whole dramatic thing started.
Can we fix this? I told you, we've never fought, ever, in our three years of friendship.
What can we do? (link)
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No, just cause yuo fight doesnt mean you guys stopped loving eachother. I mean every friend ship has its bump in the road. See i had a friend i knew for about 15 years!!! and we just got in our first fight about a week ago but we made up and now were back to ourselves. And even though fights come and go a friend is ALWAYS suppose to have your back no matter what bf she has, so you need to talk to her if she says she is not gona conffront him then you know that thoese 3years of friendship could be brought down by one boy and mabe that bestfriend isnt really the best friend you could ask BUT BEFOR you make that desicon ask her first to talk to the boyfriend!!!! hope i helped
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what would count as mental or emotional abuse from parents? (link)
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ok so mental abuse is your parents calling you names something like a bully stupid/fat/ugly/dumb any cruel thing that comes to mind kinda like you high school bully but its your parents now i think emotional abuse is simialar i think that it means you dont feel safe with them and your just emotionaly drained
BUT PLEASE: talk to your parents if that is really going on and if things get phisicall there is always that phone with the number 911 on it
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i know alot of people that get drunk on the weekend. for some reason i just really want to try it. is this like bad? i mean i dont think drinking is that bad.. it's not like smoking pot or anything. and i wouldn't get so wasted that i'd endanger myself. what do you think? (link)
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Well i decided to anwser this question cause i went through this not to long ago. You migh think that drinking is not bad and its not like you smoking pot, but if you want to drink just cause everyone else is doing it who knows you might want to pick up smoking pot if everyone else is doing it. No matter what people say drinking at a young age can harm you!!! And you could easily become addicted, you should do something cause everyone else is and if someone makes fun of you or talks behind your back just say you just want to wait to your a legall age (i no its hard to say to your friends but thats whats gona make you a biiger and better person)
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