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hey guys! my name is alicia and i had an account a long time ago but it got deleted so now im back!

yeah so ask me anything i can answer just about any question!!
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now that it's summer my bf and i spend a lot of time together. we don't have a lot of money, nor do we want to constantly spend it all...but we will spend it on things like movies and dinners. other than that, we stay at home and watch tv usually. it's pretty hot outside, so it's kind of limiting...but i'm still open to suggestions. basically- WHAT CAN WE DO? i love being spontaneous but he usually needs future notice, i'd like to plan a lot of things for us to do so i don't get bored just sitting at home. what's fun for couples to do in the summer thats not outrageously expensive? (link)
it could be fun to go to a waterpark because they are usually fairly inexpensive, its all day, and you get to show off your body and see your bfs at the same time haha

you could also try something like mini golf, go karts are fun hah or go mudding or something haha i dont know about you but thats what we do down here in texas! haa

hope i helped! xox


im trying to compile some music which is up tempo and easy to dance or run to.listening to music while trying to get fit really helps so it has to be up beat and make me want to run dance etc. (link)
hmm i would def. put some black eyed peas on there that always gets me pumped for a work out! hope i helped hun! xox


Heyy im 16/f and ive had stretch marks on my breasts pretty much since i was little and it really bothers me because when i wear a swimsuit you can see them and i just wanted to know if there is anything i can buy to make them go away? my boobs aren`t even that big, i`ve been a 34B for like 3/4 years now! =/ (link)
theres this awesome lotion called strivectin stretch mark cream and it helps! its a little bit pricey but it truly does work! :)
hope i helped xoxo


i like to watch gay porn and jack off to it but i hate seeing guys kiss, its just weird and i can never think of loving a guy. i date girls all the time and naked girls turn me on too i like to think of myself of straight...what do u think. (link)
hmm i think maybe your bi? its okay! if your worried about your friends or something then dont tell anyone but its okay to think of guys in a sexual matter its normal :)


14/f


without being harsh/destroying my self esteem, please look at this pic of my body and tell me how fat I am.





Like would you classfiy me as "huge obese fatass, fat, average, sexy, etc."

i'm 5'2" and could you also guess how much i weigh? (i'm not telling you straight off)

thanks.

pleeease don't be harsh though. (link)
hun i dont think your fat at all! i think your curvy and thats sexy! i would guess you weight about 125-30?

if that!

:) your body is beautiful


My boyfriend and i have been seeing each other almost every day, and i still really really like him, i just need a day without him. It's come to the point where even the little things he does that wouldn't/shouldn't bother me normally and are just little pet peeves are having me question our relationship, even though i know i'm being stupid and blowing this out of proportion. The only problem is that he sent me this really long email last night about how he misses me already even though it's only been like an hour since he saw me and how much he wants to see me today, etc, etc. I don't want to lie to him about why i can't see him today, but i would really like to let him down easily. any suggestions? (link)
you dont have to lie to him you can just tell him that your not in the mood for hanging out and you just want to nap or rest or something! if he doesnt take it well then just be straight forward with him and tell him that you need some time to yourself.

hope i helped! xoxo


ive been going out w/ my boyfriend for about 7 months, and im still a virgin. i have been thinking about losing my virginity to him a lot lately,and he's a virgin too. so, does it hurt badly when you lose it? or does it depend on the guy? any info or tips would be fine! (link)
honestly yes it will hurt because your breaking a lining and it sometimes can actually bleed so dont freak out!

but just talk to your boyfriend about it and do it slowly dont just rush into it because things might end up hurting more then they should! if you need more advice just ask hun! xoxo good luck!


hey this is a question for all the girls>>>what do you use to masturbate? like ive used tampons before but idk. please help. thanks! (link)
well if you cant use like real sex toys like dildos or vibrators you can get creative and use vibrating toothbrushes or if you take a condom and shove a towel into it you can use that as a dildo

you can try using ends of hairbrushes or curling irons too! :)
hope i helped xoxo


in the new commercial with the M&Ms like as people.. whats the name of the song in it? (link)
if its the same song im thinking of its call This is the day by The :)


okay so i have no clue who is right in this situation. please help! okay so i saw this guy in my summer school class yesterday and i thought he was really cute but he was also very familiar. so i asked his name ad found out it was one of my best friends good friends that she met at the mall one day. so i guess she called him that night and asked if is was him in my class and he said yeah, so then se asked hmim to a movie on saturday. and after she got off the phone with him me and her were talking and i said he was cute and she told me to back off. now i would have been totally fine with this except for THIS part of the story. she liked him for like a week when she met him but after a while they stoped talking cause he was ignoring her calls and all.so she just called him last night after like thrree months of not talking..... he isnt her property and i mean i never even said that i liked him!!! i dont know what to do. it really pissed me off that she said that. am isupposed to be lie whatever and forget about him? or talk to her about it????? pleeezeee help!!! thanks (link)
it looks like your girlfriend is the type of girl that wants whatever you want and that is really tough!

you should let them go on the date and see what happens
but if you think hes cute and you like him then nobody said you cant talk to him! and if he wants to talk to you then there you go!

just go for it girl and if your friend has problems with it then whatever its not her business anyway!

good luck hun! xox


Hey, im 16/f and i just wanted to know if there is a certain age that you have to be to buy diet pills? like if i went to target and bought some would they ask for I.D?

& which would you say work the best?

Thanks a bunch! :] (link)
well i dont think there is a certain age for buying dietpills
but my advice to you is not to.


its not an easy fix i know from experience
i tried diet pills when i was 16 and became addicted and it eventually sped my heart rate up so much i almost died

its really dangerous and scary and i suggest to you that if you want to lose weight try exercise and eating right
its natural and it works!

hope i helped and i pray you dont take those pills!

xoxo


17/f
okay so my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time. the only prob is i don't really see my friends anymore. they tend to make their plans the day of or even hours in advance & by that time, i already have plans. how am i supposed to still hang out with them when i already have plans? they aren't as close to me anymore with anything which isn't good. it's especially hard because my boyfriend doesn't really like the guys they hang out with which makes it harder. so please any suggestions? i really need help getting my friends back! and hanging out with them more often!! thanks! (link)
my best friend is in the same situation but her boyfriend is more controlling of her

you just need to let your boyfriend know that you wont get to see him everyday and you still want to have your friends in your life
and for your friends you can call them and make plans in advanced when you know you have free time that way they can make time for you too!


just make sure you let your friends know you still care about them and you want to hang out with them too!

hope i helped! xox


i've been wondering about this.. i mean im a kid myself, 13, and like i see all these older people that complain about little things they dont like about themself. those people go on to makeover shows, shows where they change their wardrobe and stuff (what not to wear), and even get plastic surgery. now im really against plastic surgery.. unless for medical reasons, but anyways im wondering why kids cant say they are ugly in a way, too. adults think its soo wrong when kids say that when they do it too! and why arent there any kid/teen makeover shows too? i mean i think theres some for teens, but why not preteens or people around my age? that would be cool.. and some people dont think thats right, then why is it right for adults to do it too? now im not saying plastic surgery or anything for the kids, but like.. you know makeover stuff that could improve their confidence and stuff.

its really annoying in other ways cause like theres no tv shows about kids my age that arent like cheesy or anything. why are they so cheesy? and why do they all wear make up when not alot of kids even use make up that much. like in hannah montana.. their make up looks so professional.. yeah like any kid that age could do that everyday. and in that and other shows they always have alot of different cool outfits and stuff when thats not really how it is in real life.. well for some people but not alot of people. why are tv shows like this? i watch some of them anyways but if something different came out i'd like it. oh and the show on MTV called Made, why is it only highschoolers. i'd like to see an episode with someone from middle school or something.. and more shows about middle schoolers than high school high school high school. blechhh.

i guess these are 2 seperate questions... whatever. thanks for answering! =]] (link)
i think that adults worry about kids when they say that they have body issues because kids are still in a developmental stage! and if they start to worry about little things that truly dont matter it might liead to eating disorders or even worse!



and i guess with the TV issue the tv shoes need to have kids wearing makeup because under bright lights it fades out your skin and you would look sickly without make up but they do try and make it look as natural as possible

and MADE uses high school students on their show because the main audience on MTV is kids in high school! :)

hope i helped! xox


I just bought a tankini top (I have so much trouble finding one that fits but this one fit nicely and was cute so I had to get it) but the bottoms that went with it were pretty ugly lol. So I was wondering what would go with it if I just decided to mix and match with another bottom? There is a picture of it here:

http://img459.imageshack.us/img459/5042/...

The only thing I'm not really open to is something that is really revealing. I would appreciate your suggestions!

Thanks =] (link)
that top is really cute! and any white bottoms would work! you could look for a pair of black ones too!
or even a little flirty skirt bottom would be super adorable!

look at target they have great suits and bottoms you can buy!

this looks like it would match really well too!
http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=br_1_13/601-9985536-3760163?ie=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B000Q6V962



good luck hun!


In a couple of days I am going to Dominica, an island in the west indies for a month to do community service with a group of other high schoolers.
Apparently at night it is in the 80's and I am very worried about having trouble going to sleep, because sleeping in hot weather is so hard. all i'm going to have is a sheet, but does anyone have ideas on what i could bring or do at night so I won't be so hot?? I'm extremely worried that I will never be able to get to sleep! (link)
i grew up in the dominican republic and i know exactly what your talking about with the heat and sticky

if your not used to it and you cant sleep i would suggest using a standing fan or during the day freeze washcloths and at night put them on your forehead or wherever your hottest. thats what my mom used to do for us when we were little! good luck hun! and have a safe trip!


i jerk off almost every day is that helthy? (link)
depending on your age it can be somewhat normal

but you have to be careful you dont rub raw or it if it starts to hurt i would stop for a few days!


I really want to get my haircut soon.

At the moment its about an inch below the shoulder with a couple of long layers and no fringe. It's also really dry and flat at the top yet sticky-out at the bottom.

I know a haircut can't cure the dryness but I would like something that would stop it from being flat on the top and sticking out at the bottom.

I want it trimmed,with lots of layers at the top to give it more body, and also some more layers towards the bottom, and then a sweeping side fringe (sort of loike an emo fringe if you know what I mean).

Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
well hun a great product for flat hair is TIGI Catwalk Root Boost i use it all the time and it works great!

if your hair is dry try using a moisturizing shampoo like Dove Moisturizing shampoo and conditioner! it works great

and if your hair is like poofy or sticks out on the ends try using a flat iron to get it the way you want it to look that can also help if you want to flip it! :)

good luck hun!


I was about 9 years old when I first got my ears pierced and found out a few years ago that i had an allergic reaction to nickle. I'm 24 years old now and I'm thinking of piercing them again beside the existing closed hole. I have a little bump on the back of my ears, my right ear lobe is nothing really. Is this keloid? Is it safe to give it another shot? It's not even big compared to the pictures I've seen, i think it's just scared puss. I knew exactly where i went wrong, i didn't rotate my earrings or clean them properly when i was a kid and it scabbed a bit. I want to pierce my ears again at a tattoo shop this time. HELP!!... i need an answer quick! (link)
if i were you i would go into the shop and explain to the person what had happened and show them the bump they know what they are doing and ways to get around it so they can give you their professional opinion about what to do! good luck!!


well i just bought the Remmington Wet 2 Dry hair straightener and you know how it has those 3 levels: blue, purple, and red? well i straighten my hair while it's dry and the blue is meant for the dry hair and it doesn't work well on me at all. so is it okay if i use the red on my hair? or will this severly damage it? (i use a heat protecting spray if this helps) (link)
i used to have the same straightener and i had the same problem so i used the highest setting with a serum and it didnt damage my hair at all! it actually made it look really cute and shiny so go for it girl!


You always seem to be in such great physical shape,do you have any diet/workout tips?
How do you keep in shape? (link)
well i cheerlead and i love to run so thats basically my workout
i dance my ass of whereever i go haha so that helps too!

for a diet just stay away from too many carbs. work on watching what you put in your mouth and if your having trouble i suggest writing down everything you eat . . you will realize what you eat thats not good for you and stay away from it if you have to face it by writing it down in a journal :)

hope i helped!




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