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depressed again?
okay, PLEASE bear with me, it will be veryy long.
first off, i want to start with im 13/f.
two years ago, after moving away from my, almost perfect life, i was severely depressed, but i wasnt diagnosed with it.
i wouldnt get out of bed, and i would cry all day, every day.
i felt like everyone hated me and i stopped going to school altogether.
my mom was now "home-schooling" me, so i wouldnt drop out.
that was two years ago of course, i got over it and now, ive been great.
ive gotten alot of friends (again) and im very happy with my amazing boyfriend.
only thing is, he lives where i used to live before i moved (miami).
so i barely ever see him.
unless we go down.
for a while we were going down every week or every other week.
now we barely ever go because my mom says that "we go too often".
now, i havent seen my boyfriend for three weeks.
and tonight i was supposed to go to miami.
and i was going to stay at his house.
im a major christian and i have very high morals.
i believe true love waits.
and i would never do anything more than kiss until im married.
so, my mom knows this.
and she said, ok, you cant stay at his house.
(this was last week, when i asked her)
so tonight around 8, my brother was going to drive me down when he got off work.
all of the sudden, my mom tells me that i cant go.
she says that she doesnt want me to make any mistakes that i might regret in the future.
shes practically blaming HER mistakes on me.
which is something i wouldnt do.
she, changed her mind out of the blue.
and so i had to call my boyfriend and tell him that i cant see him.
on our anniversary, btw.
and then i had to call my friends and cancel all of our plans, basically ruining their weekend as well.
and so, i was crying.
and i dont want to sound like a baby, i was just really excited about it all week.
and she let me down the HOUR i was supposed to go.
i havent cried this hard, since 6th grade, when i was depressed.
and i dont want to go back to depression.
im tired of it, but i feel like crying alot.
i feel like i could cry forever.
and i dont feel like leaving my bed, again.
so i was wondering.
what are ways that i can get my mom to trust me more.
and how can i keep from becoming depressed again?
thank you so much, in advance.
i could use prayer, and advice.
<3
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Well it's great that you have your morals in sex before marriage and stuff i really admire tht. But what u need to do is sit down with your mom and try to make her understand to trust you and tell her if she loved you she would trust you. And to keep your self from being deppressed go out with your friend make plans keep yourself busy even if you feel like staying in bed because the if you just stay in bed then you will get even more deppresed and it will start up all over again. You got your self out of being deppressed the first time dont let it happen again.And throwing in a prayer might help you to.
like the saying goes: laugh your heart out dance in the rain:cherish the moment, IGNORE THE PAIN, live, laugh, love, forgive and forget life to short to live with regrets
idk mabe tht helped u!
hope i helped! <3
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wow. ok to keep from being depressed you should try not to think down on yourself. dont blame yourself or complain about things. just remember everyone has problems like this and times wen they get dissapointed. try not to get your hopes about going to miami. dont expect your gonna go so you wont get dissapointed. talk to your mom about going down more often to see your boyfriend.
tell her you really miss him and its hard to keed a long distance relationship. also if you want your mom to trust you dont ask to stay over his house.
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