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15/f. first of all is it weird that i'm in 9th grade and i like an 8th grader? anyway the guy i like is super nice to everyone but the problem is that he has a girlfriend. his girlfriend goes to another school so i don't actually know her but i heard that she can be a realy b****. anyway i've started talking to him afterschool and he is so nice to me and a lot of the time he seems like he's flirting with me. like the other day he hugged me, and he is always asking me to come with him and follow him if he goes somewhere. then when i sit down he always sits next to me and then leans in real close (its kinda ackward actually lol). well we are in the play together and he was trying to twirl this one girl. and the girl messed up and he was jokingly like i bet megan (thats me) could do better and he like held my hand and twirled me. it was so cute and he like randomly will like put his arm on your back if he is standing next to you.
ah omg its so weird becaues it seems like he's flirting but then i remember that he has a girlfriend. what can i do?
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The trouble with guys is that sometimes it's hard to tell when they're flirting with you or just being your friend. In this case, since the guy in question is friendly with everyone, I'm thinking he sees you as just a friend. Plus, since he has a girlfriend, it's really not your place to come between them. Is it wrong to like him? Of course not. Love knows no age.
Why don't you do this: next time you think he's flirting with you, and you two are at least out of earshot from other people, ask him if he has any feelings for you that are more than friendly. If he asks why, be honest with him. Say you sometimes feel like he's flirting with you and you wanted to know how he really felt. If it turns out he was just playing, laugh and tell him nevermind you were just curious. That way you two can at least be friends and maybe one day they'll grow into more.
I hope this works out!
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You do the hardest thing. You ask him, maybe he will say yes, or frogot to tell you that he broke up with his girlfriend or something. Maybe he really does like you and since you like him things could turn out okay. Hope things turn out okay!
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You should wait a like 2 weeks and if he doesnt say anything than you should tell him how you feel.Maybe if you tell him, he'll want to break up with the other girl for you.
Well hope i gave some good advice.
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