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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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seriously i hate them right now.
i mean they give me no privacy. they just go 2 my computer and search history. i think that is really disrespectfull. i mean i can't do that with them , so they shouldn't spy on me!
anyway the also looked at my myspace and i've got some pics on there. all of my friends do , but nooooo my parents don't allow me now. (they never new i had myspace so it's not like i broke a rule or something) i'm aloud 2 have myspace , but no pics. i think that's really stupid cuz i settet my myspace private anyways!
so how can i convince my parents 2 have pics on myspace?
AND what can i do about my parents reading everything-> like comments and stuff like that.
i am really disapointed in them! they always said they would never spy on me blablabla , but now they did!

Maybe they have rules that you should follow.

i dont remeber it, but i heard it today, its also on cheaper by the dozen ( first one) when they are making breakfast, its " i think its tottaly groovy now, that people are finally getting together, i think its wonderful that .. " whats the song called! i love it. thanks

I know there's this title of a site.

ITS CALLED GOOGLE!!

Okay can someone please help me. i'm trying to get on my edit profile but it kicks me out every time i click on it why????
i ask tom but he didnt send me a relpy yet. did that happen to you all before? how do it fix it?

its not my computer i try it on other computers and it still does it. my sister went to hers okay but mine is all scewed up!

Yeah possibly. When they have the bulletins with stuff like "Free cell phone ringtones" or something like that, it's more than likely a virus, and if you clicked it, then you've got it too now.

Just try to make a new account & delete that one. It'd be your best bet because Tom is super hard to reach.

15/f

well to start off I've never had a real true bf but like 2 in elementry school but that was stupid stuff. anyways now i'm a freshmen in high school and never havin a boyfriend is really starting to suck. and therefore no bf has resulted in never being kissed. and all my friends except for one (my bff) has been kissed, made out with a guy or done other stuff. and i don't wanna go around having sex but i just wanna kiss a guy and its really startig to make me feel like crap when i see people kiss i just think ughhh i want a kiss. but i want my first to be spcail not some random guy at a party. but i'm starting to worry that when i do get a bf and he kisses me he'll be like wtf she can't kiss? and ughh i know i should be proud that i'm not going out makeing out i have morals but i just feel soo stupid and loser-ish for never being kissed or anything and i don't know what to do.

You're right. You should be proud. You've got morals & those other girls probably don't. Just keep waiting. Some kids don't get their first kisses for a while, so it's not like you're abnormal or anything.

what are some songs about summer and stuff? for example, summertime by kenny chesney, summer by tasty merc, or in the summer by m something? anyways tell me some other ones besides them. thanks

This could've easily been googled.

do they have pregnancy tests at gas stations? how much are they? lol you dont have to be a certain age do you?

I don't think so. At a grocery/drug store, they're about $15-20 bucks. And no.

my friend is a virgin and she told me last night that she thought she was pregnant. i really dont see how this is possible but this is how she explained it: She told me she was fingered and then im guessing she gave him a blowjob and she got stuff on her hands.. she washed her hands and then put a tampon in cause she was on her period i guess. She thinks some cum got on the tampon.

i really dont understand!! is this even possible?

Your friend's an idiot. She's more than likely not pregnant.

ok i have thick hair, and when i straighten it gets smooth and shiny, and looks good and healthy, but its too thick for me, like it's wherever i go, my hair goes, it's so annoying, is there anything i can do to get it thinner?... i get it thinned out at the salon, but is there anything else i could possibly do? thanks :]

I doubt it. Try going to the salon & getting it thinned more often.

Click search.

does tampon size depend on the size of your vagina or how strong your flow is?

If it's for the flow I don't know..on the first day it's a lot but not like super a lot because I could wear a pad for 5 hours and it doesnt even fill the whole thing.

I believe it's based on flow. If you have a heavy flow, you would use the super or jumbo tampons.

does coffee stunt ur growth?

No.

does coffee stunt ur growth?

Nope.

There is this boy at my school that i really really like and ive only just started to get to know him and we are getting on really well, we talk in school alot and text each other and talk on the internet but i want something more, but i dont want to rush into anything
should i wait a few weeks to see if anything develops or should i tell him how i feel about him? i dont want to scare him off
we are both going to a gig on friday night so something could happen but im scared of making a move

i really dont know what to do, i dont even know if he likes me in that way, but i guess if he didnt like me he wouldnt text me and that? i dont know

help me :)! thanks

Just go to the thing with him on Friday. See what happens there, and if nothing happens, then keep talking to him. Hang out as much as possible & then tell him how you feel when you think/feel he likes you back.

i have to write a poem about thing to sell that cant be sold, for example "a rainy day in april" or "lies" or things like that, but i dont know what to write! can i please get some inspiration? should i write about thing i'd want to be able to buy but cant be bought like love and honesty and positive things, or things that i have in my life that are bad and i'd like to sell? whats best? thankss!

Talk about buying happiness, love & lies.

im moving to dallas, texas next year. i will be in 8th grade that year, and im moving from hillsborough, new jersey. it really sucks to leave everything here behind, because i've lived here since i was six, and i'm 13 now, so thats alot of my life. anyways, whats the best school you can go to in dallas? like middle school. i looked at one called lake dallas middle school.. and holy cow! for one, they dont have soccer (my fave sport) as one of their sports (though i like vball) and they have the ugliest dress code ever. so any better middle school s around dallas? i heard dallas is really big but i dont care.. list a couple that actually have websites. THANKS SO MUCH, YOU ROCK!
im so nervous.. i want to get in a really really good middle school with great kids, great teachers, lots of field trips, lots of sports, school dances, festivals maybe, and etc. haha i have a pretty high standard of what i want it to be like. hillsborough schools are amazing, its just that the 'Boro is getting a little boring now.. not that i'd want to move, but also cause my dad is getting some job there.

Well, Dallas is kinda big so it'd be hard to find an area to decide you wanna move to. Just move to Dallas, and then find the middle school that's in your district. If it doesn't have soccer, then suck it up. Try a new sport because it might be just as fun.

haha i might just be overthinking but theres this guy i've sat next to in science for like the entire year so far.. hes also in my literacy classes (theres 2, and i sat next to him twice then), and i dunno if he likes me or not, and i dunno if i like him or not either. how do you know if have a crush on a guy, or if he has a crush on you? i talk to him mostly in science though, and hes pretty funny, nice (haha i can always get gum from him), and was born in england like me so we can also talk about places there that most people dont know about since they've never actually lived there (but im jealous because he gets to visit there alot! lucky rich bastard! lol). and.. i dunno how to explain it! jeez i hope i dont get a crush on him, hes cute i guess, but i think i like him better as a good friend than a boyfriend!

13/f

Talk to him more, become friends with him if you're not already. Hang out a lot, laugh at his jokes, smile with him, tease him playfully [but make sure he's laughing back], and make lots of eye contact.

Ask him who he likes.

I was wondering what Stairway to Heaven means. If anyone knows, or knows of a site that could give me an explanation that would be wonderful. Thanks you XD

www.songmeanings.net

I just tried smoking tea for an experiment and not getting much out of it.I started to actually feel something significant so I hopped online to do some research...and I read that tea contains LSA (a natural,less powerful form of LSD).Is this true?

Tea doesn't get you high, so I definitely doubt it.

i want to make my boyfriend a ffriendship bracelet exept idont know what style or color to make it. Do you think that maybe you could send me a link to a picture or somthing of a style that a boy would like? Idont want him to think its to girly. Thanx so much!!!
P.s 13/F
Hes 13 too

Use boy colors, like Red, Black, Green, Blue, Gray & White.

What antidepressants are approved for teenagers? And i'm talking someone who's 17, not 13. Thanks.

I'm not sure. I know Cymbalta & Zoloft are for teenagers as well as adults.

See your doctor, they can prescribe you the right one.

ok so well today i was taking pictures of me and my friends in the pool and so i kind of got it wet because my hands were wet....i know stupid..and now it turned off and wont turn back on (and no its not dead) i tried drying off the battery and everything. OK so my question is will it work again? or will i have to get it fixed or get a new phone

It might be okay, but since there's water damage, you might wanna take it back to the store. If it's under warranty & insurance, they'll replace it but if not then you might need to buy a new one because water damage can be hard to fix. Also, try not to get water on your phone anymore. When you're gonna use it after being wet, make sure you dry your hands or whatever off first.

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