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Location: Brooklyn,New york
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Age: 17
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I'm about 5ft and 125 Ibs and have a I consider myself as having a big butt...am I fat? I wear baggy clothes because I'm afraid people will see and I'm really self conscious and pretty sure guys find big butts unattractive..well one guy asked me out because he liked my butt but he was kinda wierd. So my questions are: Am I fat? And if I do have a big butt do guys not like that? (link)
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Just becuase you have a big behind doesn't mean you're fat several guys love girls with a body especially with a booty.Lots of girls consider it a gift like Kendra who is one of Hef's girls likes having a big behind.So you should be glad to have that.
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i took a ept pregnancy test and it came out positve could the test be wrong (link)
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It's possible because don't you notice that some of the labels for different pregnancy tests say like 95% the one you should have tried was the one that is 99% gurantee for showing whether you're pregnant or not.So if you haven't tried that then you really should or if have but still have doubts go see the doctor about it, and your doubts will of course be gone.
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i'm 17 and i've been wondering something confusing about girls.For instance take these two scenarios:
1)I went to a camp and this gal was looking and smiling at me alot and i did the same too, then later i saw her profile on the internet and messaged her,but she didint' reply back.So has she forgotten me?is she playing hard to get?she doesn't want to look desperate?she doesn't want to look to obvious?
2)Second scenario, I see this gal regularly when I pick my sis up for dance lessons,she keeps on looking at me and I know it, but after a while she stops looking at me and acts as if I;m not there?
Is it because she doesn't want to be too obvious?playing hard to get?forgotten about me?or lost feelings for me?
thanks for reading and I hope you can answer my question. (link)
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As for the first scenario it's most likely that she has forgotten about you since the girl liked you a whole lot.The second scenario is either she doesn't want to be too obvious or is playing hard to get.I remember that in one of my classes well in my freshman year she asked all the guys in my class who likes girls that play hard to get,all the guys raised their hands except one guy who was a player,I knew him he was nice to me so,and it shows that several guys don't like easy because it looks to them that she probably isn't decent.
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k i got this friend we been friends since school. Then a found out she lied to me about tons of stuff. During summer break she calls me to tell me she was sorry. We are friends kinda. Do you think I made a mistake by taking her out. (link)
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Maybe you should give her a second chance since she apologized but you did make a mistake for taking her out since all she does is lie all the time.If you forgive her,let her know that if she starts lieing to you again that there won't be any friendship between the two of you.
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Today I went to my friend Lindsay's party. It was a swimming party, Lindsay's friend from another school, Ashleigh, was thier. All the boys love Ashleigh. Im so jealous of her. Im kind of fat, and they were forcing me in the pool. I just said that I had my period. Ashleigh calls out "I hate fat people." Everyone always does that to me and I neved know what to do. Any ideas? (link)
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You should tell Lindsay that you can't be around Ashleigh anymore because she was being disrespectful,that she should talk to her about having some manners because it seems that she is not well educated,it's not right to make fun of others it's just so wrong.You're better than her you want to know why because she has like no life just making fun of others like a little brat and you will be a professional one day don't you worry she'll one day be suffering while you will be having a blast of a wonderful day.
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Hey,
My hair is just past shoulderlength and Ive decided that i want to grow it to about the middle of my back.
I was just wondering if anyone knew any general facts (like the average rate of hair growing or how long you reckon it would take) and tips for growing hair quicker and healthier.
Ive heard that horse shampoo is an effective way to grow hair quicker but I want to be certain before I go buy some :-s :-)
ty in advance for any tips you have for me
luv Rachel x (link)
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The average rate of hair growth is about 1 inch each month,the average number for scalp hairs on an adult is 100,000.For each day hair growth can grow from .2mm to .5mm I recommend you try Garnier Fructis for hair growth it really works.
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is it worth going to a dermatologist for acne? i have little acne - but a lot of blackheads.should i get a facial for the black heads? i just dont know what to do with my face any more!!! what are some REALLY REALLY good brands to fight away acne and blackheads? any help is appreciated- thanks! (link)
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The best thing to eliminate breakouts,acne,blackheads is to get proactiv solution it's even recommended by a dermatologist I really suggest you try this product, and I guarantee you won't regret it.
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Ok there's this really cute guy at my school I wanna ask him out only Before when I asked a guy out I always got turned down everytime should I change my additude and clothes or just with a better additude? sincerly boycrazy
(16 F) (link)
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I say a better attitude,if you wear nice clothing then you don't have to worry about that.
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okay i have this "best" friend that i have been friends with for such a long time. well in the middle of the school year i really liked but he started liking her. even though she knew i liked him she would still hang out with him and kiss him & everything even though she did have a boyfriend that she claimed to be in "love" with. well her & her boyfriend broke up cause he started liking our other friend and my "best" friend cried and when i told her that it was basically the same thing she did to me but our other friend wasnt interested in her ex, she told me to fuck off.. i never trusted her but i still hang out with her. well i got over that i guess and now me and this kid jake are together but now going out. i REALLY like him and i know he really likes me too. we always hang out and i lost my virginity to him. but yesterday my "best" friend told my other friend shelby "jakes cute..hes definantly a cutie..i'd go out with him if i didnt have a boyfriend." she didnt say anything about me liking him. and i didnt tell her i lost my virginity to him. she knows he likes me too and when i confronted her about it there was a long pause and she was like "no if i didnt have a boyfriend. i'd go out with kid mark.. but i only said that to make my boyfriend mad.." then there was another pause and she was like "i dont like jake" i dont know if i can trust her around him. i know that he wouldnt do anything cause he's such a nice guy but i dont know. what should i do about her? i told jake what she said and all he said was "she's dumb" or something like that. and i dont think he thinks anything of her cause he started kissing me in front of her when she came over last night. so what should i do? (link)
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You can't be with a friend who is going to try to take your boyfriend, lose the friend who isn't worth it,I don't want to alert you or anything but if you don't she is going to definitely take advantage that you too are friends to try getting close to him,try seducing him I strongly would advice you to take my advice.You deserve to be happy with someone,and don't let this happen to you again okay.
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O.k. now I always give good boy advice but this has never happened to me or anyone else I know. Ok here's the situation:My boyfriend hasn't called me in 4 days! Thats not normal 4 him he usually calls almost everyday if its only a 4 minute talk or 4 hours. I mean there are plenty of situations to where he can't call like for some example's: His grandmother won't let him use his cell(their hous phone is disconnected),he's punished, or he's working with his uncle. but he doesn't work 24/7 so he could of called. What do ya'll think of this. Is he gonna break up with me or what? I mean its ok if he wants to break up with me but everyone knows (even his own mother and my mother!!) that he loves and adores me. The last time I talked to him he didn't act like anything was wrong everything was perfectly ok and I can tell when somethings wrong with him or anyone by attitude, tone of voice, and stuff like that. So anyone got any tips on what I should do and what he's trying to tell me, (if anything, cuz no matter what he usually tells me straight up no matter how bad), or why he's ignoring me!> Just anything please help me!! I'll rate high for good answers. (link)
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Since you have said he acted perfectly fine the last time then he might just be having major problems in his house.Why don't you go to his house to investigate of what's going on I'm sure that it has nothing to do with you.Ask yourself why would he be ignoring me as far as I know I haven't done anything to upset him,I've been a good girlfriend so it must be with his family or his friends.
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my best friend gets rly jealous when guys think im hott. sometimes, she even tries to stop me from evr talking to them cuz shes jealous that they dont think shes hott, and she gets mad at me. One time online we were talkin to this guy we saw that day, and he thought i was hott, and my friend got mad and was like wouldnt let me see what she was sayin to him, and then she got kinda mad when he asked for my sn. wat should i do? i hate when shes mad at me, its really annoying. (link)
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Let her know how her bad attitude makes you feel, it's not your fault that they think you're hott,and tell her that how would she feel if her best friend was mad at her just because guys wanted to talk to you.Another thing if she doesn't change then you have two options either stop hanging her with her or break the friendship.
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i went on vacation this summer and while i was there i saw this REALLY hot guy there. he skimboards and surfs. everytime he came and left the beach we made eye contact. he was always with his friends. and i think he liked me and he told his friends, because he would look at me and then one of his friends would look too. i really wished that he would talk to me or do something (even wave). what should i have done? is there anything i could have done to make him come over and say hi to me? i'm a shy girl and i wouldn't be able to go up to him myself.
thanks! (link)
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Like smile at him,tell one of his friends that you like him,that if he could present you to him so you don't have to,or perhaps just signal him to come to you.
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On Monday Im going to go to this guys house with my friend and his friend. He's really into my friend and when we all hang out, he has his arm around her and stuff..so my question is what are FUN things to do with 2 boys and 2 girls at someones house? I dont want it to be awkward/boring..Play Games? Anything is appreciated. (link)
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Things like fun music,games like truth or dare,taking pictures of each other,making jokes,dancing,partying,and any of that stuff that we teens love to do.
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well me and my boyfriend are back together he asked me out and i said yeah...but he is being nice but he wants to go to this place where all my friends hangout and all his friends play soccer and we all hang out there and im just worried that he will hit on my friends...and tommorow he is going to new jersey with his friends but i dont trust his friends because they always try to break us up and i dont know what i should do should i be mad that he is going to the those places?...well thank you (link)
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Don't show that you're mad you want things to keep going great between the two of you.You two should spend more time together then with his friends.As far as your friends keep an eye on them,your guy when you see that he's trying to hit on them,keep them apart,and try to come up with excuses to spend some time alone.His friends totally need to mind their business,leave you both alone,and they definitely need some girls to keep them busy.
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This has been confusing me for awhile. People tell me I'm pretty all the time. And when I go to camp or leave my town, the guys all want me. But when I'm home, it seems like they want nothing to do with me. Guys also have said I'm hot and whatever, but why do they not make a move? I'm so confused and so sick of people saying, your pretty and me not getting any guys. Why do you think this is? (link)
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The majority of the guys are taken,or want a girl to be easy but I'm not trying to saying to be easy, and you might find it weird that a few want the girls to ask them out.Guys are also afraid of running the risk of being rejected especially of a girl they consider hot.Don't be upset I went through the same thing I'm just letting you know the possible reasons for why the guys haven't made a move on you and don't think it's you you said it yourself they say you're pretty so the problem is them.
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i have a friend who has scary dreams..really scary dreams and he told me about one that one of his close family member got cut and the next day found a cut on her arm.hes really getting scared and doesnt want to tell anyone else about this ive told him to tell a parent but hes only told me.and i dont kno how to help him ive told him all i kno about telling somone who can help but he doesnt want to.
any ideas (link)
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The truth is some dreams you have actually come true.Tell him the dangers of keeping this and not seeking help,you should get him a book about dreams to be able to explain better of why these dreams come to reality.Also he should go to the doctor to give some special pills to not have nightmares anymore.
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I feel pretty weird asking this, probably because I think every girl asks at least once. I like a boy and suddenly I'm terrified to go near him. There are two things wrong with this. One, I'm the opposite of shy. I'm not just saying that, either. When it comes to anything else I'm outgoing and LOUD. Secondly, this has never happened before! I'm in 10th grade and this is so new to me, it's scary. I really want to talk to him, but I always lose track for about 5 seconds and get this powerful fluttering thing in my stomach. How do I make it stop, and what can I do? (link)
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The same used to happen to me,that shyness started to go away by itself, I think perhaps because of the simple fact that I had this guy friend,I got used to being around a guy,which also help me get rid of that fear as well.Tell yourself that you can do this,you really should don't wait till the last minute,stop worrying,act as if he's one of your friends that you talk you seem like you definitely can talk.
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i like my good friend jake & about a month ago his friend told me he liked me. then about a week ago his other friend asked me if i liked him & i said yes. so now that jake knows i like him, i don't know what to do. we haven't talked, but he seems to send messages from his friends to me.
he's a very shy so i know he's scared to ask me out, so should i do it? i'm a pretty bold person, but i'm scared to ask him out because i'm not sure what will happen. i know he likes me but he could still act weird and say no. he's not exactly the most mature guy & he might just do what his friends say or something.
the fair is coming up. should i wait for him to come to me, or should i go up to him? if i should go up to him, should i ask him out? if i should, how would i say it? i just really need help! (link)
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Let him come up to you because you don't want to risk him denying that he's not interested plus you have mentioned he's a shy person.Give him some time I'm sure you ask you out one day just have patience.
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ok well my boyfriend and i have been going out for allmost 4 weeks and i dont get to see him that much cuz i met him at this camp but he calls me everyday. the last time he called was tuesday and i have tried calling him but he hasnt answered. well yesterday i was tlaking to a friend online (he is friends with my boyfriend) and he said that they were tlkaing and he mentioned that he wanted to break up. well they talked last week on monday and i talked to him on the fone after that conversation. I dont know what to do...i tried calling im like everyday every minute but i dont know if hes really not there or avoiding the calls and if and wen i do et a hold of him...what should i say? please help...thanx (link)
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Have a talk to him,ask him how he feels about the relationship is going,that you're willing to try to fix the problem that he see's that is needed to be solved,that he should be honest with you as well as trust,show that you really care in which I know you do.
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I have this friend shes a rly good friend to me. She HAD a boyfrined for a year and then she broke up with him. Well i was frineds with him and we still are and we talk on line and stuff. But i feel like im startin to develop a crush on him. i dont kno why he was supposed to stop by my house today to jus chill, and i have no idea what im supposed to do. I like him but icant do tht to my close friend. I need help. what do ido.
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Let more time pass,ask your friend if she still has feelings for him,that if it would be okay if any of your friends date him,if she is cool with it then you could let him know you like him,then see what happens,let your friend know that you will date him but that's if she's fine with it because I'm sure you don't want to lose your friend over a guy.
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