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My boyfriend hasn't called
O.k. now I always give good boy advice but this has never happened to me or anyone else I know. Ok here's the situation:My boyfriend hasn't called me in 4 days! Thats not normal 4 him he usually calls almost everyday if its only a 4 minute talk or 4 hours. I mean there are plenty of situations to where he can't call like for some example's: His grandmother won't let him use his cell(their hous phone is disconnected),he's punished, or he's working with his uncle. but he doesn't work 24/7 so he could of called. What do ya'll think of this. Is he gonna break up with me or what? I mean its ok if he wants to break up with me but everyone knows (even his own mother and my mother!!) that he loves and adores me. The last time I talked to him he didn't act like anything was wrong everything was perfectly ok and I can tell when somethings wrong with him or anyone by attitude, tone of voice, and stuff like that. So anyone got any tips on what I should do and what he's trying to tell me, (if anything, cuz no matter what he usually tells me straight up no matter how bad), or why he's ignoring me!> Just anything please help me!! I'll rate high for good answers.
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ok STOP WORRING! you even said yourself that both mother's know that he loves/adores you, you also know this. he is not telling you anything, so stop tryen to fugure it out, he is not tryen to ignore you, he is simply busy, or like you said with his grandmother won't let him use his cell. if he adores/loves you like you say he does not want to break-up with you, he may be out of town for a family emergency or some of his guy friends have been over and he has no time to call you because he is so busy with them. believe me on this, ok? i have been where you are, and i made a big mistake and it was only 3 days. don't assume the same thing i did which is waht you are doing. just let it slide, try calling him if he don't pick up just let it slide. talk to his ma if you can and try to get some info on what is going on. if you love him enough you won't assume before you have proof. trust me on this ok?
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Girl you should just sit down and talk to him and ask him what is really going on.Ask him this Q:Do you want to be with me or not.
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this happened to me.... and a week later my boyfriend said he loved me... k well i tried calling him and he didnt answer.. and he didnt return my calls... so i left a message like.... _____(name) im really sad you havent been calling me back... i miss you....... and sound sad.. like how you feel.... later that day he called me back saying im sorry baby blah blah blah.. and its been good since... i wouldnt worry
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im sure everything is normal if he didnt act any different. the same thing happened with me and my boyfriend and he didnt call me for like a week. Turns out he was at his cousins house thats like an hour away. Dont worry about it, im sure he`s just up to something that he couldnt tell you about. hope you feel better =] -Michelle-
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Since you have said he acted perfectly fine the last time then he might just be having major problems in his house.Why don't you go to his house to investigate of what's going on I'm sure that it has nothing to do with you.Ask yourself why would he be ignoring me as far as I know I haven't done anything to upset him,I've been a good girlfriend so it must be with his family or his friends.
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i think that he probably got in really big trouble with his family and cant use the phone at all.Something like that definetly happened,i mean,he wouldnt cut out like that for no reason.Call him anywayz and ask him why he hasnt called.Mabey hes just really busy.If he insists that nothing is wrong and he WASNT busy then i think he might have gotten bored of calling everyday,then what you do then is try to keep your relationship with him more interesting.
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4 days is a long time. it's happened to me, and from my prior experience. it's usually because they're busy or on vacation. i would highly suggest that you call him a couple times and if he's not answering, then you know something's up. if he doesn't pick up his calls, there might be a chance that he's ignoring you, but if he didn't act like anything was wrong the last time you talked to him. it's probably not that big of a deal. but be prepared for anything, guys can be very unpredictable sometimes. take care!
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My first thoughts of why he isn't calling you is mabe because he is busy, but to me 4 days would be a big deal. Mabe hes on vacation? Mabe he's sick? Have you tryd calling him? my advise is call him and if he doesnt answer and doesnt call you in the next few days mabe he wants to break up? He just doesnt want to tell you. Don't let him leave you hanging. If you do talk to him then ask him why he hasnt called you? and then ask him if somethings wrong and if he wwants to break up. I think this has happened to me before. Why the boy didnt call me was because he found another girl. Now, i dont know if you b/f is doing that so dont worry yet. Just simply call and ask or even go over his house. Thats really all i think about your situation. Hope it works out for you and him. good luck :]
if you have any other questions then just leave it in my inbox. kthnx
&heart's; kayla
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