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Q: Is pre-cum more dangerous about getting pregant than cumming??
Nope,Their both the same because they both contain sperm.It will still be possible for you to be pregnant if its precum or even just plain cum.

♥ danielle

Q: I know some at my school that refuses to trust people. in your bio it says that you don't trust anyone. So i was wondering why don't you trust anyone. And i think i saw before that you said you didn't think that you were pretty. I wanted to know why. but if you don't want to share then dont worry about it. if you do it would be a big help.
thanxss n AdVAnce
Oh its fine hun,ill tell you.

I dont trust anyone because well when i was younger and even when i was in middle school i would tell people things and they could never keep their mouth shut even if it was personal things it would really upset me,i mean people that i thought i trusted and could keep a secret told things to people i didnt want them to tell.So i decided that since all the shit that was going on i couldnt stand it anymore so i just stopped telling people things.Like i dont really tell people whats wrong if im having a bad day or if i like someone i wont tell anyone not even my best friend.I guess you could say if you mess up once and i thought i could trust you,you would get no second chance with me and i couldnt trust you anymore.People stab you in the back and thats what i hate expecially people that are really close to you.I could probably say theres only one person outside my family thats the closest to me that i could honestly trust with anything and thats it.If you want my trua you would have to show me in a big way for me to open up to you and tell you things thats are personal.

As for me saying that im not pretty,well i answered this question before but i dont mind answering it again.I have a best friend who basically was miss popularity in school and would get all the guys and have alot of friends and have all the girls being jealous of her.Well i was one of the girls that was jealous of her.I was a little chubby when i was littler like i wasent overweight or anything just a lil chubby.I hated how i looked i knew no one liked me,i didnt have too many friends and i was quite shy to say the least.I would cry almost every night because i hated how i looked and how everyone would look at my friend and not me,it was really hard when my family would say stuff to me about my weight like i wasent hurting enough you know? but i know they were just trying to help and get me healthy.I was just sick and tired of being in my friends shadow and having her getting all the guys that i liked.So about two years ago i started to lose weight because i wasent proud of myself and i lost about 35 pounds overall i weigh around 120 something now.I still hate when people point out something negative about my body and i start to breakdown and lose it it upsets me that much.Thats why i hate when people "think" im a slut or conceited becaue im not even close to being those things i dont with alot of guys as many people think i do and im self-concious about myself.Im still not proud of myself though i mean i still look in the mirror and hate how i look i cant really even look in the mirror anymore.I think being friends with my best friend really took a toll on me.I dont think ill ever really get over what had happened when i was younger it just hurt me soo much.I still cant believe people think im pretty though because honestly i dont see how people could think that at all.But im starting to get better now i think,i have a bit more confidence in myself and im not shy anymore im a loud mouth now lol and the whole thing with being jealous of my friend i dont really care about it now ive moved on,ive learned to just do my own thing.I just wish i could go back in time and change how i was before and not let my friend get to me,but im trying to make up for it now.But thats the sotry of why i dont think im pretty lol

Thank you for reading my bio,i really apprecite it,im happy to know that people actually do read peoples bio it means alot.The questions were good ones to ask.


aw its okay i dont mind typing it again.Im ahppy i could help ; ]

♥ danielle


Q: 18/G.
I am in anal sex since few months and feeling quit normal. we do this atleast three four times a week.Is there any health risk involve in anal sex? Pls. reply.
Yes there is,you can get STD's and if your parter has aids or you for that matter,could also get HIV from him/her.Its always a good thing too use a condom to protect yourself because anal sex is still a form of "sexual intercourse".

♥ danielle

Q: I'm gonna make this short and simple. Hopefully the answer is simple too. Is it possible to get pregnant from being fingered if the guy has cum(even dried) on his hands/fingers?

Rates 5 to all
Well,its possible but i havent heard too many cases of people being pregnant from being fingered so im sure your fine.Ill give you the link to a site for signs of being pregnant just in case you are pregnant,its www.surebaby.com

♥ danielle

Q: hey i got a myspace today and i was wondering where to go to put the url for the layout in?
you paste it into your "about me" section.

♥ danielle

Q: I have light brown hair and blue eyes. What makeup would look good on me and what colors, and what wouldn't look so good? Thanks I rate 5's for good answers.
For your eyes try going to these sites:

http://beauty.about.com/cs/blueeyes/a/blue_eye_makeup.htm

http://beauty.about.com/cs/blueeyes/ht/BridalBeautyblu.htm

http://www.howtodothings.com/fashion-and-personal-care/a2479-how-to-choose-the-right-makeup-for-blue-eyes.html
http://www.make-upusa.com/faq/eyesfaq.htm

For light brown hair go to these sites:

http://express.colorcom.com/bulletinboard/postings/1052259598.67.10.37.206.html

http://tvmeg.blogspot.com/2006/04/beauty-secrets.html


i also heard red,purples, and pinks are great colors for brunettes.I hope those sites could help you out!

oh and the colors you shoudl avoid are colors like beige, orange and gold and espeically dark or very dull colors ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: What's the difference between being 'High' and being 'Stoned'?
Being "stoned" means to be under the influence of an intoxicating substance, such as cannabis .

being "high" means a state of altered consciousness induced by alcohol or narcotics; "they took drugs to get a high on"

♥ danielle

Q: do you guys remember that coke commercail for lime coke and there like near a beach and a song is playing i think it was butterfly by crazy town but im not sure does anyone know what it was. this was a recent commercial
Its an old commercial but its my favorite one next to the one where they sing "put the lime in the coconut" haha Its a really great song i like the guy who sings it,its "Starry Eyed Surprise"
by Shifty.

♥ danielle


Q: In Paul Wall's song "Oh Girl" Does anyone know who originally sang the chorus part of the song
"Oh girl, i'd be in trouble if you left me now, cuz i don't know where to look for love, I just don't know how. Oh girl"

I really want to get that song and I have NO clue who sang it originally.

Thank you sooo much
its by the Chi-Lites

pretty awesome song ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: I'm just curious to know if anyone has or knows someone who has a foot fetish? My boyfriend has one, and I dont have any problem at all with it (i actually happen to like it..go figure!), I'm just curious to know about other people's experiences.
Well one time on the radio the djs were talking about foot fetishes and the guy really seemed to love feet i even like on their website the dude liking the girls toes and feet.Theres this kid at my school who LOVES when girls have their toes painted and in cute sandals lol its pretty hilarious i must say.It seems to me that guys like girls feet more then girls liking guys feet.Personally to me i dont really like feet that much i even hate people touching my feet well because it tickles ha but also i dont really like my feet i dont think their very cute i think i have huge feet if you ask me lol.But yeah i hope i could answer your question or err opinion or poll thingy?

♥ danielle

Q: ok look. ive been having periods for like over a year now. and like. every time i use a tampon i leek with in 30 min to an hour... even if i use the super ones. and its not like i bleed a whole lot either. just regular.
am i doing somthing wrong?
Well hun,its normal its the same deal with me.If its about your first to the third day of your period because thats usually the heaviest of your flow days,so i woudl suggest changing your tampon frequently and if you havent yet,use "super plus" tampons not just "super".Now,if your talking about your tampon leeking abour every half an hour to an hour throughout your whole period then yes its a problem and you should tell your mom,sister,guardian,etc about it right away because that means your loosing too much blood.

♥ danielle

Q: what song is this..
shes everything i want
shes everything i need
shes everything inside i wish that you could be
__
i think thats how it does - do you know what song it is?
Hmm well i heard those lyrics before but their in a couple songs,im guessing maybe either "She's Everything" by Brad Paisley or "Everything To Me" by Brooke Hogan,i hope their right! i have a couple more suggestions but those are the two best ones i can think of,if you need anymore help just leave one in my inbox ; ]

♥ danielle




Q: does anyone know a good site for emo pictures?
tthankssss
go on goggle and put in the search "emo pictures"

♥ danielle

Q: me & my bestfriend are really close and we hang out pretty much every minute of the day. But Sam (my best friend) is starting to talk to Sean (a boy at school) an awful lot. Now that Sam is talking to Sean I sort of like him too. Whenever Sam isn't around I try to talk to him & become closer wit him. Sam,Sean & I are all good friends now but I do notice he talks to Sam more.I really think he likes her more & wants me to lay off. I want Sean to like me more even though Sam is my best friend and I want her to be happy. I'm so desperate that I do anything to get his attention or keep Sean from talking to Sam. But I know I can't stop them from talking all the time. Please,what should I do to get over this jealousy?
I HATE being jealous its one of my worst habits ever.This is like me and my friend shes a big flirt.In my opinion,i wouldnt hang out with her as much because if shes basically the only person you hang out with you stay jealous and cant stop thinking about it.Try to hang out with person you dont hang out with too much and try too look for some hotties yourselves like at the mall or the movies.Or if you really like the guy and you want to get to know him better ask him out too the movies or the mall so you guys can talk one on one with each other,but if the guy doesnt want to go with you,you know its a sign for you too lay off for awhile.I know jealousy is a tough thing to overcome espceially over a guy ugh thats the worst it took me like a year to get over this one kid over jealousy.You know i went on goggle and found some sites on jealousy and how to overcome it,just type in the search "how to get over being jealous" i went on one when i was really jealous and it helped me out alot.Dont worry hun youll eventually get over it just be happy for your friend right now even though it bugs the heck outta you lol

♥ danielle

Q: Where can i get a clarinet?

I'll rate high):

Try going on google i found some good places try doing on the search "where to buy a clarinet" or "stores to by a clarinet".Hope i could help hun! i used to play the clarinet in school in like 4th grade not a bad instrument i must say.

♥ danielle

Q: I don't know what to do and I really need help. My best girl and guy friend are going out and I was talking to a few people and they are saying that she was just my guy friends back up and that he doesn't really like her. I tried to tell her this but she won't believe me. He liked her along with two other girls while he was going out with this girl who he broke up with Friday. I really don't want my friend to get hurt(emotionally) by him. She won't believe anything I tell her! One of my friends who i talked to who is best friends with my best guy friend said that he likes someone else along with my best girl friend. I really don't want her to get hurt..I just know he's gonna break up with her soon. Do you have any suggestions on what to do?
Oh jeez i have a friend like that,no matter how many times you tell her she NEVER listens to you.The only way shes really know you were right is when its too late which sucks i know but its the only way she'll learn.Its good that she has a friend like you who really cares about her and wants her to do the right thing all the time.I dont really have too many suggestions but maybe if you plan like if your guy friend is out with one of the other girls he likes and then you and your friend hide out like i guess kinda "stalk" them and catch them doin something their not supposed to be doing then shes found the truth out,or if your walking with your friend say in school and you catch the guy saying something to one of his buds about another girl and she hears it that could be another way too.Even though it probably will hurt her and least she knows you were lookin out for her and you were right.Thats really all the suggestions i have im sorry hun that i dont have better ones but thats really the only way,when she finds out for herself you did your best already she should trust you,but trust me she'll eventually find out sooner or later and youll be there to give her a shoulder to cry on and then shell tell you,you were right.For right now,just watch out for her.GOOD LUCK! and if you need anymore help just leave one in my inbox hun ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: how long after sex can you tell if you're pregnant and what are some of the sypmtoms?
Usually two weeks i would say, go to http://www.surebaby.com/ there youll find all the symtoms if your pregnant.


♥ danielle

Q: I am 14/f and i'm 5'6" I hate being tall so much. I'm going to grow more and i bet I'll end up like really tall. I don't really knwo for sure, but to me most of the pretty people are short. i am so self concious about it!! I wish i could be 5'4" and stay that way for ever. I think about it every day and it makes me really sad. How can i get over this. i'll rate high
Ahh! i felt the EXACT SAME WAY as you! im 15 and im 5'6".I used to care sooo much about it because i was pretty tall and i didnt like it.Once you get into high school things change.There are ALOT of tall people in high school because of them being older.Do you know how many people would KILL to be your height?! like what kev said (careless-fun) guys think its a huge turn on when girls are tall,some of them like that since some guys are like 6 foot and they have a girl thats 5'6" so their not too short for them to like kiss and hug you know? lol plus we have many advantages like getting things from high places,looking pretty great in skirts and shorts because we have long legs and there are tons more! Seriosuly being tall isnt that bad and eventually youll get over it 14 is when your going through alot of akward changes physically and mentally jsut dont focus on your height anymore and focus on more important and fun stuff.I mean think about it models are like 6 foot and like 5'10" now how do you think they felt in school? probably the same as you and look how being tall turned out for them? there making alot of money and becoming famous all over the world.So please dont worry about being tall its not a big deal at all i love being tall now! and i promise youll eventually will learn to love being tall too,plus everyelse is still growing so eventually they'll be aroudn your height as well ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: i have this picture i like of me. and i want to put it on my site. but it says the file size is too big. and that it cant go over 15K. if i make it any more smaller - your not gonna be able to see it. is there a way to change the size [ k ] without making my picture smaller? or if its just a little smaller - it should be fine too. pleasehelppp.
Well theres two ways you can do it,go to your file and click on the picture and right click and do "edit" and go to image at the top and click on "stretch and screw" then where it says stretch at the top instead of doing 100 percent on each delete the first two 100s and do 50 % for each then do "save" and then when you go to the site it should work.An easier way i think is if you go too www.tinypic.com and then find your picture that you want to me smaller and click on it and then do "upload image" and then there you have it then just click on the picture do "save" or "save as" and then upload it onto your file and go to your website and it should fit.Hope i could help! if you need anymore help with it just leave one in my inbox k? ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: this is going to sound really dumb but if you use tampons then is it posible that sex wont pleasure you if you're constantly putting something up you're vagina every month?? just wondering
Aw its not dumb,i used to think the same way as you but its completely not true because sex and tampons are two different things,sex will still pleasure you trust me ; ]

♥ danielle

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