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Heyy my names Jessica, but most people call me Jess. Im 17 and its my senior year! I love to have fun. I'm always laughing, mainly at myself. When i first meet people i tend to be shy and i hate it, but once you know me you realize how outgoing and crazy i am. I don't swear cause i don't find a reason to. I hate crying, so i never do. I love watching movies. I listen to music everyday. My iPod is always with me. My friends and family mean everything to me.

Ive been on this site for three years now and im in love. I like to give people my advice. I can relate to a lot of things because i've been threw a lot of things in my life. Feel free to drop anything my my inbox or you can e-mail me.

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Just a random question, but everyone wishes at 11:11. Why is this? Why was this started? Thanks much!

Just because 11:11 is the only time when all of the numbers on the clock are the same, people just make wishes for fun cause they think they will come true. I do it somethins haha, you knever know :)

Jess

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14/m
right iv been goin out with my girlfreind for 9 weeks now and its been amazing i can chat to her about anything weve never had an argument or anything its mad i ring her every nite and we talk for hours i see her nearly every day is this normal lol!! its crazy is it love or am i jus geting everything muddled up. i really am crazy about her is it normal lol?? advice would be great thanx:)

omg that so cute! yess its totally normal. not common for guys to do but normal, shes lucky to have you =]

Jess

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I have a really really important question. It's gonna be long,,sorry, but plz answer!! I will rate.

My best friend told me her deepest darkest secret. Her secret was that she was raped by her cousin as a child.(7 yrs old.) He actually had sex with her, but she doesn't think that he "popped her cherry". She didn't really know what was going on...and she told her parents about it and everything when it happend. (we are 14 now) My question is: is she a virgin?

technicality she isnt becuase she did have sex, but im guess she wont want to count it as her frist time.

jess

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how do i make my font bigger on myspace

TEXT TEXT TEXT

the size numbers go from 1-8, 1 being the smallest.

jess

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Okay, so I'm a cheerleader. For practice one day, I let one of my friends whos in a grade lower than me, borrow one of my shirts. My favorite american eagle shirt. She wore it to cheerleading, then brought it home to wash it. She didn't bring it in until like a week later and she put it in her locker. Something spilled in her locker and got all over my shirt. So she had to bring it home and wash it again. Then today, she wore it to school! I was so mad. I've mentioned to her a few times that I'd like the shirt back, but I haven't gotten it.

Should I be mad at her? How else can I hint to her that I want it back?

Thanks!!!

Of course you have thie right to be made at her, its your shirt. You shouldnt have to hint her you want it back its yours you should just get it, next time you see her be like, 'can i please have my shirt back its my favorite one and you've had it for a while'

Jess

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I have a hair straightener that works okay.. but I asked my mom for a new one for Christmas and I was wondering which one would be better: Remington wet2straight, Helen of Troy (I think that's the name), or Conair Infiniti? Thanks! :)

Sorry i have never heard of the other ones but wet2straight is deffinatly NOT the one it get, there really bad. Im not sure how the other ones work bnecause i dont know of them , but i have a hot tools and its really good.

Jess

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My friend asked this boy before taking a sip of his soda does he have mono? what is that?

Its just a a viral sickness, its really contagious and is also known as kissigng desise.

Jess

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Who sings lets get fucked up and die? i coulding find it

Motion City Soundtrack!!!!!! I loveeee them and that song :) good choicee hah.

Jess

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I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you.

Well most of the people on here are asking question that happen a lot in real life. And most of the people on here have exsperenced those things and can help sahre there opinon to help other people not make the same mistake. Nobody is saying that because someone gave that adivce they have to take it, it will just help them think threw the cituation more. Pluse from my personal exsperence i have a asked a few questions on hee and used the advice and it has turned out great for me. not saying everyone on here is gonna have the best advice, we all make mistakes but most people do.

If you dsont think that people on here give good advice then dont ask questions.

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i use that jergens tanning for your face once a day. but i wash my face 2-3 times a day. is it possible that the jergens tanning will come off?

I dont think it will come off but im pretty sure it makes your face turn yellow. I know some people who used it and if they used it then got wet after a while it tured there skin a yellow color.

jess

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well lastnight, me and my boyfriend had sex, but he didnt have a condom so he promised me he'd pull it out before he came. well after we were finished he asked me when my last period was, like he had accidentally came inside me. he denied that and said he had taken it out before then. today my breasts hurt and i dont feel very good, but im not completely sure ( i had a drink lastnight )im just wondering if it's just nothing, just a hangover, or if i could possibly be pregnant.
=(
please help!

Well there is a thing that is liie pre sperm, so he might not have done it in time. But also when you orry about stuff it sometimes makes your body believe something that not true. So you could just be feeling this way cause you are worried. You will just have to wait and take a pregnacy test.

Jess

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sometimes i wanna go shopping with my mom, but everytime i do my mom just has to bring my grandmother along! i love my grandma,and she lives wiht us too..but it's just so embarassing and inconvenient to have her! whenever i see someone from my school i feel like a complete dork because im shopping with my 85 years old grandma..i know this sounds horrible, i'd gladly spend time with my grandma doing other stuff but not shopping at our trendy mall! she's sooo slow and my mom has to hold her and stuff,and it's just so embarassing i'm sorry. but my mom gets mad at me b/c my grandma never goes out and she doens't have time to take both me & my grandma out different times. what do i do? im SO sick of this!!

Just simply ask you mom if this one time you could leave her home. The worst thing she can do is say no. Just explain that it might be easier to get something dome because she is a little slower then both of you, maybe promase to hang out with her some other day so shes not getting left out.

Jess

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Im getting a bag from abercrombie but when i went on the website to look at it i cant find it. why dont they have all the stuff like they do in the store?

Some stores only carry certain things so that might be why its not there, pluse not all the stuff is on the website cause there would be too much to fit. Or it could be new so they havent put it on, or old so they took it. off. the store may still have it dont worry.

Jess

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Christmas is coming up, and I recently asked for a Motorola Razr V3. I'm new to this kind of phone, I have only had phones for a year (but really good using them) and only sticking to Nokia Phones (the standards, my dad is nuts!).
For those who have them, can you tell me any Pros & Cons about this phone? Thanks!

I dont have one but my best firend does.

They are good because they can do lots of thing like pictures and videos, texting. all that stuff, they also are rally cute, pluse are small so they can fit anywhere.

They arent so good beause the barrery dies pretty quick so if your the person thats always on the run then you probably dont want it. Pluse It can go really slow. Lots of the stuff takes a bit of time to load.

hope i helped you out.

Jess

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My dad always calls me spoiled.. and i don't wanna be- but i think i am. I only buy designer stuff(not versacee.. but like a&f .. and hollister) i have 3 tiffany necklaces && 1 bracelet. I have lacoste polos. Ipod.. tv&& computerr.. and more...
I just don't want to be noted as spoiled..
am i?
thankss

Well this is how i see it. your not really spoiled, but it depends how you take it. If your thankful for all of the stuff you have and dont jujst get it because you think you can cause you have money then so your not spoiled. If you Exspect to get all designer stuff and all exspencive things and take it for granted then yes, your spoiled. But it doesnt seem that way.

Jess

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13/f

When a guy asks me out, how can I say 'No'?

Can I have an example of what to say?

you could say something like

aww thats sweet but i dont like you like that.
or
thanks but i dont want a boyfriend right now
or
umm i dont know, i would rather be friends.

things alone those lines.
and really, there is no nice way to say no its gonna hurt them somewhat no matter what.

Jess

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Now for some reason I don't have a girl friend. I have been single for a while now. I'm a nice person but something has to be wrong because I can't get a girl this pisses me off. What should I do, I mean I have tried to do it all try to take them to the movies and stuff I don't know what to do.

Dont worry. You dont have to have a girlfriend just cause everyone else does. Dont try so hard to get one. They come at the most unexspected moments. It seems that when your tyring so hard it doesnt work, but if your not looking for one then they just come to you. Wait, your turn will come.

Jess

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I think my myspace has getten deleted.. i dont know though

www.myspace.com/moshele6

can you look and see if you think it is deleted?

nope it works fine.

Jess

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Hey im f/16 and i've comme down with the chikenpox a week befor christmas holidays so there for i'l have 3 weeks off school. But beacaus i have them i can't go out to do stuff over the holidays weell at least this week end most of the next that is if im lucky and it dos'nt get much wors.

So my question is what can i do at home to keep me ocupied? (and to keep my mind off the itchyness) *pleas dont say computer or tv caus that gets realy boring after a while*

Thank a bunch!

aww im sorry about that it must be horrible. Well some things you could do is draw, write notes to all your friends, write poems or something, listen to music, i know you said dont say computer, but you could play games on it, ask you mom to get some of thoes puzzle books. they are fun they have all sorts of things to do in them like crosswords and mind teasers and things like that. That really all i can think of, hope it helped, and get better =]

Jess

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Yes, I know, yet another Christmas-related question lol. But, I need advice on this. Okay, so I have a lot of close friends(nine, maybe?) that bought me Christmas presents and I bought them Christmas presents. The thing is, though, I have other friends who I'm not as close with but still good friends with and I feel like I should get them a small gift for Christmas. So, I don't really know what to get. I bought all of my best friends` presents already, and I was thinking about giving all of my other friends a mixed CD of really good songs/Christmas songs. Is that a good idea? Or should I just go with buying them all candy/candy canes? I don't really know whcih would be best; I'd have to burn like 15 CDs, but just giving them a candy cane seems a little impersonal. So, would a burned CD with mixed songs on it be a good idea? Or candy canes?

I think the candy canes are a good idea. I did that one year, but i also put a little card with a note i wrote to them so it made it seem a little more personal and that i took the time to think about what to say to them.

Jess

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