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Hey, my names Ariellll but I go by Rel. I don't look nor act my age & I know more than I should for my age, I lllloveee yo give advice, & think I do a pretty good job, wanna know if I really do, then ask me a question : ) !

First off -- I'm a very honest and straight forward person. I don't like drama and I'm pretty chill. When I'm older I would like to be a therapist. So, this site really allows me to practice ! :)

I tend to go by the fllllow and don't regret much. I'm in love with Lillll' Wayne. I could watch movies everyday of my life.



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Does any one know where I can go to see if my weight is average. Like on the computer?

Well you could go here,
it shows graphs and you
fill it out with your
information.
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/nutrition/weight/bmi.html

OR

you could go here,
http://www.am-i-fat.com/body_mass_index.html

their both cool.

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can you french kiss with braces? and do 13 year old boys expect closed or opened mouth kisses?

yes, you can french kiss, make out, you can open mouth kiss. It just make some time to get used too. But you can pretty much do the same things with braces.

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f/18
i dont want anymore hair down ther what is the best way to get rid of it
like shave
wax or what ?
i really dont know

It's all peronal prefferance.
some people like to shave it, which can cause a rash, so it would be best to put lotion on down there.
Some people like getting it waxed, getting it waxed its more percise and the hair doesn't come back as fast.
♥ PS

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ok so i like 5 guys and im already going out with someonen but i feel like hes a wet rag andhe lives far away so we never get to talk to each outher and we met at summer camp and every time i talk to him hes all like o ya next year im gunna take you to a cabin and make out with you and it really turns me off and i like the outher boys so much do you think im a whore and how do i break up wiht my bf thanks princess sparkles

HAHAAH! that strap on dick is from sex and the city. Uhm yeah im gonna break up with your boyfriend for you because he is a "wet rag" and those other boys are so better. and your not a whore, many girls like alot of guys at once. ily princess sparkles.
♥ princess skank

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well my friend likes this boy and his last name is cummington and every one gives him bjs and one day at lunch she did and she sead that he didint wear a condom and i think thats sick so i was wondering if you where saposta when in the process of givving head thax princess sparkels

you don'r have too.
It's all preferance I guess.
Some people like it better with, or without a condom. ily princess sparkles
♥ princess skank

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ok so i have a boyfriend
who goes to another school
and like i really like him and stuff
but on friday we had this dance
and like it was like this huge grindfest
and like i grinded w/ other guys
and like it wasnt that big of a deal
is that considered like cheating on my bf?

xox thanks

I wouldn't worry about it, it's not cheating just harmful dancing. Cheating is more doing something with a guy or secretly going on dates with him, not just dancing, which everyone was doing im sure.

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what are some good songs about like teen love & fallin fast & someone meanin so much to you.. preferably rock/alternative kinda songs. thx so much!

Face Down by The Red Jumpsuit Apparatas
Beating hearts baby by Head Automatica
Hemmorage(In my hands) by Fuel
My Favorite Accident by Motioncity Soundtrack
When Your Around by Motioncity Soundtrack
Emily by From First to Last
Ohio Is For Lovers by Hawthorne Hieghts
Nikki Fm by Hawthorne Hieghts
Wasting my Time by Default
Glycerine by Bush

Those are some songs.

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okay so i like this guy and his birthday is coming up this week, and we're pretty good friends. he's turning fourteen, what should i get him or make him? we're not going out..at least not yet so it has to be friendly but special :) kthx for your help

ps. i need to get him something because my birthday's comming up after his and he said he'd get me something.

well if hes into like playstation games you could get him a sprts one, or any of the systems he might have. (xbox,gamecub,ext.) You could also get him cd's if he's really into music.You could also give him a gift car to a sprts place like Dick's or something. Im never really good at giving presents, I always resort to giftcards. sorry. Hope I helped though.
♥ariell

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I'm not allowed 2 date [period] and I was wondering if you could help me convince her 2 let me date @ 13 like reasons ideas 4 dates etc. Like she had some issues with her dating xpieriences so yea but like what is a bf @ 13 yrs old what's the difference between a 13 yr old dating and a 16-18 yr old? Like dates what you do when you date (at 13) and what I should tell her.. I know I'm asking a lot but I really need a LOT of advice so if you would PRETTY please
Best wishes, B

The difference between dating at 13 and when your 16+ is when your 13 1. It's not serious, the guy probably goes out with you because he thinks your hott. 2. Your still a miner and you can't drive anywhere so your parents have to drive you where you want to go. 3. The places you go with a boy are just regular spots liek the movies or bowling. and when your 16+ the relationship is more intamint and your able to be with eachother alot more because mot likely one of you can drive. Teenage love isn't too big of a deal so don't stress about having a boyfriend at 13 because it's probbaly just Lust not Love. sorry
Hope this helped
♥ariell

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14/m
There's a girl in 2 of my classes that looks at me and stares at me a lot. It doesn't bother me, it's not like she just stares at me constantly. Girls do this a lot, and girls tell me that I'm cute. This one girl that I notice, who I think is attractive, looks at me during class. I will be looking around during class and I will see her looking at me and then look away. We've talked before, but we're not friends. I have known her since 6th grade (11 or 12). People don't think I'm weird or anything, so they're not looking at me beacuse of that. Sorry if I worded it wrong, but it was hard to explain it, and sorry that it's long. But, do you think that she likes me?

I would think she does because whenever I like soemone I look at them in class sometimes. So try to talk to her maybe if some of your friends are friends with her you can all start hanging out so you can get to know her more instead of asking her out of the blue to hang out, see if she likes you. And it wasn't long at all.
♥ariell

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14/f/8th grade
I went to the dentist not long ago and they said I might want to get braces because one of my teeth were starting to overlap another, and I have a slight overbite. I don't really know if I should get them or not though. I don't want to be known as Metal Mouth all through highschool. But then again they will just get worse from here and I could have them off before my senior year, right..? But I have a boyfriend and you know we makeout and everything. Well we dont 24/7 we go to the movies and do other fun things. But can I kiss (not with my mouth closed) with braces?
Please help. I need to have some answers soon. I have to got back in a few days and I want to think these anwers over.

Well if you say your teeth aren't that bad you probably wont need braces one for 4 years, thats usuually for the worse cases. And yes you can still make out with braces, people do it all the time it just takes soem time getting used to.
♥ariell

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I was just wondering, how do you like french kiss? any trick or tips? thanks :-)

Go to sextutor.com
there's tips there on everything.
Hope this helped
♥ ARiEll

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ok so for our school fall dance we need to dress up because it's a costume dance. The theme this year is Once Upon a Time...so it should be like fairytale and stuff like that. It's a date dance too and our date has to have a matching costume. I just need suggestions for costumes and stuff.
thanks

Well you could do
Belle and the Beast ( or a prince)
Cinderella and her prince charming
You could do Snow White
or Ariel and her prince from The Little Mermaid.
Any Fairytail Disney movie would be good.

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okay. so lately ive been working out a lot.
im trying to get a six pack.
i had a question, whats a good exercise to build your lower abs?

well first you have to eat healthy so that you don't gain any weight. The best way is to do sit-up and/or crunches. Also swimming and running helps you get tone.
♥ARiEll

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ok soo like i really like this one boyy but he first of all got a girlfriend and we had a good friendship but noww his a toally ass to me and im sick of itt but it so hard just to stop thinkin about himm. idk what to do? =\

i dont know either, its common. Happens to all girls. He might treat you like that so his girlfriend knows he doesnt have feelings for you.
hope this helped.
♥ ariell

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my friend likes the same guy i do & she has asked me to ask him out for her

Well if she knows you like him then thats wrong of her to do, she's obviously not a true friends if she doesnt care how you feel.
But.
If she doesnt know you like him try to tell her you do and make out an understading.
In my opinion i feel that if i liked the same guy as my friend does, and they guy liked her not me, i wouldnt care because i cant help him liking her over me.
Hope this helped =)
♥ Ariell

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ok so i have a boyfriend and after we have sex he always wants to screw me up the butt hole and i dont want to. and wen i give him head he pushes my head down so i like choke!! and he tells me all the time thats he wants to bitch slap me with his huge cock. is this normal and how do i tell him to stop?

haha lmfao.
um no i dont think thats normal.
and um i dont know what you should
do. hahahaah
♥ Ariell

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what can i do to get rid of my dry skin?

If it's on your face use moisturizer twice a day. If it's on your body just use lotion

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Ive never made out with someone! How do I? Any tips?

Go to
http://sextutor.com/kissing.shtml
it should help.
♥Ariell

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I was talking to my best friend (who recently moved away) and she told me that i should let one of my guy friends into my life. she knows that i have a fear of opening up to people and trust problems because of my past. so, the question is, do i let this guy be a part of my life. or do i just leave it as aquantinces?

Your never going to get anywhere in life until you begin to trust people, bad things are always going to happen. You wont be able to help it but you never know whats going to happen untill you do it.
Hope this helped :]
♥Ariell

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