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trust issue...


Question Posted Thursday August 10 2006, 4:54 pm

I was talking to my best friend (who recently moved away) and she told me that i should let one of my guy friends into my life. she knows that i have a fear of opening up to people and trust problems because of my past. so, the question is, do i let this guy be a part of my life. or do i just leave it as aquantinces?

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LadyJade answered Thursday August 10 2006, 8:55 pm:
There's security and peace of mind in playing it safe in life but life without risks is boring and while it may keep you from pain, it robs you of joys in life.

Ultimately, you need to search your heart and ask yourself if you're ready for this step. I know you'll follow your heart.

If you need me I'm alway here to lend an ear.

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xojessii answered Thursday August 10 2006, 6:29 pm:
Listen to your heart ♥

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clouded_bluee answered Thursday August 10 2006, 6:14 pm:
Your never going to get anywhere in life until you begin to trust people, bad things are always going to happen. You wont be able to help it but you never know whats going to happen untill you do it.
Hope this helped :]
♥Ariell

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Emaho answered Thursday August 10 2006, 5:58 pm:
I think you should let him into your life. If you don't you're not exactly even living life. If something happens, you move on and get on with your life. You can't live in fear. I don't know anything about this guy so I'm just telling ya what I know. There should be signs to tell if this guy is worth it or not. Hope I helped! :]
<3 Em

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lover_gurl answered Thursday August 10 2006, 5:41 pm:
i think i can understand what your talking about....hi my name is trisha i have been sexually abused for times...when i first starting letting boys into my life again i got abused again....but thats all my fault its a long story so i wont tell u but you should try move slow....wait does the guy no what happend to you? because if he does then and if he likes you he will let you move at you own pace but if he moves fast even though he nows what happend stay away from him....if you have any q;s plz ask me hope it helps

~trisha~

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