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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
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I have this friend named Emily. She has recently just liked this guy named Justin. Well a week ago she decided she didn't like him anymore. Last night they were talking online and Justin told Emily that he really really liked me and he was going to ask me out and if i said no then he would like be at da point crying. I don't like him and i don't really want to go out cuz i like someone else but my friend wants me to go out w/ him... what should i do?

you live YOUR life. do what YOU want. your friend should understand. say no to him. he'll get over it!!! ;)

~ANGE

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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

i am only new here but i must say it is a pain. there could be some very gullable people out there that actually take the advice seriously. people could get hurt!!!

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Well before me n this guy started going out we "talked" durin the summer and it just felt so right.. and after that we started going out and broke up in Dec.. because of dumb reasons, but he said we would get back together after he takes some time to think... its been over a month and i cant express how much i love him, sometimes i cry my self to sleep b/c i want things to be like they use to be i miss him so much... i dont know what to do or how to act around him i wanna tell him but i get so nervous to hear his answer weither its good or bad.. how do i deal with this?

look girl, you gotta ask him. at least then you know. if he likes you too then that is excellent but if he doesn't like you then d/w, move on! ;)

~ANGE

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hi,

does anyone have any tips on swallowing pills? i have to take some medium to large ones, and it's been hard for me to get them down. i can swallow small ones easy, its just those big ones. (no, i do not have a pill slicer.)


thanks.

try putting them on a spoon with honey.. does the trick with my little sister ;)

~ANGE

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ok so there is this boy liked sennce 2003-2005 right and this year its like i really really like him i catch him looking at me and i be looking at him and he catches me and i be rolling my eyes tryin to hide it but he knows that i like him b/c he be askin me if i like him i be saying no but then he be saying that he know that i like him and stuff and i be smiling trying not 2 but it happends and i catch him and its like i just stare @his eyes 4 ever till im late to class or someone bumps into me :) but does he like me, just teasing me, or just trying to be a flirt!!!!!!!

next time he asks you if you like him just say 'yeah' and see what he does. ask him if he likes you and if he does then YAY but if he doesn't then at least you know so you can move on... if you cant do it face to face get a friend to do it for you!!!

~ANGE

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ok..lets get to it my bestfriend wants me to smoke weed with her and i dont want to but she said she wont be my friend if i dont do it....what should i do

obviously she is not a very good friend. if you told her you dont want to she should respect that decision. if she's gonna quit being your friend over it then it is best you aren't friends. get some friends that respect your decisions.

~ANGE

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is it wrong to like someone younger than you?

no... well actually it depends on how old you and he are... tell me your ages and i'll get back to you. :)

~ANGE

14 and 13??? thats nothing!!! go for it girl!! good luck!

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I'm supposed to go to the movies with a guy I've liked for awhile now, tomarrow. We've hung out before and stuff and we've make out and some other things and he told me he really liked me. So, on my birthday he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with some of our friends and of corse I said yes.I went and it turned out he never went so my birthday kind of sucked. Then he asked me again another day if I wanted to go to the movies and I said yeah. Ended up that he never even called me about it.Oh,and he never appologized either time. Do ya'll think I should trust him to come tomarrow, or do you think I should just invite somebody else?

if a guy stands you up on the first date then it is obvious a relationship is a no go. go tomorrow because you already said yes but if he doesn't go then never again should you say yes to him.

~ANGE

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i have this crush on a guy in my class and i have liked him the whole year. I dont know if he likes me back. Some times i get mixed signals like one time he called me and asked for homework for no reason b/c he really arleady knew that we didnt, but also i would love it if we were really good friends but i dont know how to ask him. Plz help if you can thanks

the hardest thing is to ask a guy out and it doesn't always happen... but if u really like the guy and think he likes you too then just ask him!!!

~ANGE

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I have like this guy since last year. We have flirted a little bit and stuff like that, but i cant tell if he likes me. He stares at me all the time during class. But when we talk on AIM, he will be really mean. Except, today, I randomly asked if he had seen "Coach cater" because i wanted to know if it was a good movie, and he said "no, but do u want to go?" I said i was already going witha friend, and he was like "fine ur loss". I dont know if this was some kind of joke, or if he really likes me! Please help me out!

well the only way to find out is to casually ask about another movie and if he hasn't seen it, you ask him to go to it. good luck! hope it works out... oh and with the 'fine your loss' bit, well when wounded guys try act tough and joke around so just ignore it. :)

~ANGE

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for more than a month now, he's really shy but i no he really likes me. We haven't hugged, kissed, held hands, etc. all we did was say i love you and call each other and those little things. For valentines day i want him to at least hug me... but i don't know if he is ready for that because he is so shy... how can i tell if he is? What do i do? I am really confused... i rate 5's... pleaz help...

hug him. seriously, on valentines day go up to him and hug him. he will be the happiest man on earth and then you can do it all the time. :) if he doesn't like the hug then why would you want a relationship? he could even be gay. i'm not saying thats a bad thing, gay guys can make the best of friends, but maybe thats all you're meant to be... friends.b/f are meant to show affection. you need that!!!

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my boyfriend used to be a big druggy before we went out. i'm a huge anti-drug person! he told me the day before he asked me out that he had quit! i was very proud of him and all, but resently someone who didn't even know we were going out told me that they saw him smoking a cig about a week after we started going out! so now he lied to me and is doing drugs (which i really hate!) the other person who told me could have made it up, but my bf has lied to me before! what should i do???

confront him. just ask him about it and see if it is true. and a note in future: if you cant trust someone then there is no point in having a relationship because relationships are built on trust and if you dont trust him then you will always question him. keep me informed

~ANGE

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Omg, im stressing out seriously. Okay, well my boyfriend just broke up with me, my mom is always flipping out on me now, my best friend is mad at me for cutting. and nothing left of happiness is left in me. I dont know what i should i do. I just need help seriously. So please can someone help me?! Thanks so much. -- Colleen

okay. for starters, talk to your best friend. she has to know why you are cutting yourself. tell her that you want to stop hurting yourself but you will need help. if she is any kind of friend she will do anything she can to help you through this hard time. also, talk to your mum. her consern for your safety should make her calm down a bit. and please, stop cutting yourself. i dont know if any of these things will help you but you have to do something to sort your life out. keep me updated on how it goes.

~ANGE

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I want to throw my friend a 16th birthday party surprise or not who knows yet. but my question is what are some things we could do at the party to make it fun and where are some ideas of places we could have it thanks i rate

beach bash!!! lol. get you're close mates together and stay at a cabin on the beach. have a bon fire and toast marshmellows! time goes fast on the beach because you can play sport, talk and swim.

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OK. See me and my b/f have been going out for a little over three months...everytime i see him all we really do is make out. i mean he has gone up my shirt, but he hasnt tried to go any farther than that. im starting to get tired of the same old thing everytime i see him. why wont he go farther with me? another thing is... i want him to finger me and i know he wants to because he told my friend he wanted to but he never has, and he told her this when we had only been dating a month. if he does finger me tho im scared that he wont like it because i have hair... down there... should i shave it? what do guys perfer? does it really matter? plz answer ill rate sincerely confused

whatever you do DONT SHAVE! lol. you will regret it. guys dont really mind. just do you're bikini line and thats it. it will itch like crazy if you shave it all! okay you can try the subtle approach and just grab his hand and put it on your thigh slowly moving it upwards. if he is male he will get the hint ;) or you can talk to him about it. if u dont feel comfortable talking about it then maybe it's too soon.

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i hate my life so much, all my mother cares about is my sister and i hate them both so much. she always gets her way and shes so perfect and were only a year apart. they both drive me crazy. and theres this boy in my school who i really like, im like in love with him and hes in all my classes except 1 so i always see him and he doesnt like me and he saids he has a semi girlfriend in hamden, and i just cant take this anymore. everyone i love doesnt love me. i feel like no one cares and im alone... i really dont care about my mom or sister all i want is him

okay you definately cant kill yourself. that really selfish. THINK OF ALL YOURE FRIENDS!!! you named 3 people in youre life. youre family does love you. they may not be very open about it but they do. and one guy? you are going to let one guy bring you down??? you dont need a guy in youre life. just think about it. there are plenty of other fish in the sea. :)

you are loved.

bye now

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I just broke up with my boy friend and I feel miserable. I feel as if the world i going to end. I thought he was the one you knkow? But he did the same thing to me just like the others. No relationship has gone good for me. Every one was a jerk and used me, or just wanted to sleep with me. I don't think that I can get over this and feel as if the only way to stop the pain i to go in eternal sleep six feet under. Please someone help. And don't tell me to get over it b/c I've tried that to many and I'm afraid that's not going to work in this case. Please will someone HELP???!!!!!

Look. killing yourself is the most selfish thing you could possibly do. ok i need a bit more info... how old are you? and are you actually sleeping with these guys? answer these questions and i can help further

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Why do you say there is nothing worse than a depressed mother? Experience? Yours depressed. Isn't it natural for mothers to cry to sometimes? You advice was good, but I am curious on your part of the depressed mother, you said trust me you know, why do you know? Experience. How did that leave you?

well my mum was depressed when my parents first split. it was horrible. i could see she was upset but i didn't know how to help her... there is a difference between crying all the time and sometimes. my grandma is the reason my mum is fine now. she moved me and my 2 sisters and my mum into her house and mum talked to her. my mum has now remarried to a great guy who is kinder to me than my father could. it's okay to be upset but dont let it carry on for too long because it does impact you're kids.

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After you spent 3 years engaged to the man you thought was the man of your dreams and you have troubles that make the relationship end, how long does it take for the tears to stop? When do you start over. 37 yrs 2 chilren

i may be young but i do kind of know how you feel. time may not heal all wounds so there will always be a piece of him in your heart. but with time you will be able to move on and even start another relationship. but whatever you do, dont get all depressed. you're children need you and there is nothing worse than a mother that is depressed. trust me on that one.

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what should i say during an akward or scilent moment

sometimes just say somthing like 'whats the go with the silence?' and make a joke out of it. or you can just ask what the other person did on the weekend or something.

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