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my bestfriend is forcing me to smoke weed with her
ok..lets get to it my bestfriend wants me to smoke weed with her and i dont want to but she said she wont be my friend if i dont do it....what should i do
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Tell her NO!!!!!!
You don't want friends like that anyway.
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a real friend wouldnt ask u to do somethin u didnt wanna do!!!
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liek i said to another person.... best frends dint hurt you. drugs do... can you connect em??
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wow. that's a bad situation.but if i were you i'd wouldn't smoke weed, i'd get her some help! She could get heself into some serious trouble. Try to talk her out of it or get some help if that doesn't work say bye but before you leave make her quit
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Don't be her friend. I hate to be ruthless about it and everything, but any friend who tells you to do such a serious thing isn't really a friend at all.
Try telling her that it's wrong. If this doesn't work, please leave her and make other friends who appreciate you.
Good luck!
Sophie xxx
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ok she isnt your best friend. best friends NEVER will pressure you to do something unless its for your own good, they listen, understand, help you out, share clothes, long talks, etc... they would NEVER say that they wouldnt be your friend.
your hanging out with the wrong crowd hunny. find some new friends. you'll be better off.
<3
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okay, i know you're probably getting this a lot, but if she's making you smoke weed with her, it looks like she's already not your friend. if YOU don't want to smoke weed, you shouldn't let your "friend" get in the way of your good judgement. follow your gut. don't you think that if a friend smokes, then their friend should help them? well, your "friend" is actually trying to MAKE you do this! also, if you think you still want to be her friend, think of what will happen to YOU if you start.LONG STORY SHORT, IMAGINE THAT YOU ARE NOT ASKING THIS QUESTION.PRETEND IT'S SOMEONE ELSE'S QUESTION.WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE THEM??? THAT SHOULD ANSWER YOUR QUESTION. also, this has nothing to do with your question, but i also suggest you help her with her problem of smoking. you might think this is corny, but think of the "friendship: the anti-drug" thing. it might help you.i REALLY hope i helped, and tell me if it all works out, ok?
-mari
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dont do it, thats just a stupid mistake that she will regret later and maybe get in deep trouble for it too so just follow your instincts and you cares if you lose that friendship as long as you dont lose your life
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you dont need a friend like that anyway. if you dont want to then dont.
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don't smoke it then. fuck her. she is just trying to justify her addiction by doing it with other people, then she'll move to PCP and X and heroin, and crack. then she'll die in a gutter giving a blowjob for more rocks.
-hitler
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You should get a new best friend.
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what kind of friend is she telling you that she wont be your friend if you dont do it..shes not a true friend so dont do it
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a real friend would be your friend no matter whether you did it or not! my advice:don't do it! it's bad for you and you don't even want to!!
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Okay, if your "best friend" is trying to FORCE you to do something you don't want to do, is she really your friend? If she threatens to kill the friendship if you don't do something you don't want to do, is she a friend in the first place? Listen, I know you may be really close with her, but if she's doing something you don't like and is trying to force you to do it, too, then she's not really a friend. No friend would do that. Tell her you feel really, really uncomfortable with the idea of smoking weed (or at least with the idea of yourself doing it). Let her know that if she really wants to lose your friendship over such a silly thing as drugs, then it's going to have to happen.
The main thing is you've gotta talk it out or you've gotta lose this "friend" of yours. I really hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Get yourself a new friend, sweetheart. Friends don't force friends to do things they don't want to do. Don't do what you don't want to do! You might regret it the rest of your life.
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Shes gone, take her out of your life, if weed is gonna stop you both from being friends, shes not a best friend at all.
-TheTeenGirl
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obviously she is not a very good friend. if you told her you dont want to she should respect that decision. if she's gonna quit being your friend over it then it is best you aren't friends. get some friends that respect your decisions.
~ANGE
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be like no i dont want to smoke and if she goes fine im not going to be friends with you any more then be like fine your not even that great of a friend. then go what kind of a friend are you to force a friend to smoke when i dont want to smoke and when i told you EVERY time i ddint want to when u asked me
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if she is a real friend then she wouldnt make you do something you dont want to do. if she wants to be a bitch like that, then you dont deserve her. so i say kick her ass to the curb. you dont need someone tell ing you what you want and dont want to do with your life. let her control her life and not yours. anf id she doesnt understand why you did what you did, then she really has no right to be your friend.
NEVER LET ANYONE TELL YOU WHAT TO DO AND HOW TO RUN YOUR LIFE. DONT EVER LET ANYONE FORCE YOU INTO DOING SOMETHING YOU DONT WANT TO DO.
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A true friend would not make you make the choice between her friendship and weed. I have been free of drugs and drink for 3 years now, and I have lost a lot of "friends" because I don't get wild anymore. The friends that stuck with me and supported me were the ones that I am grateful to.
Its your body and no one can tell you what to put into it. If you feel pressured, tell her that a true friend wouldn't make her choose between doing drugs and a friendship. She may already feel insecure or have a problem with drugs herself, and the best thing that you can do is set an example for her. She may hate you at first but when she realizes that her life is out of control- she'll want your help- and that is when true friendship really shows.
Best of luck to you,
Arun
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Well.. i think you SHOULDNT smoke because then you have a bigger chance of DIEING and i think you should explain to you friend that its stupid if she gets mad at you because you are making a HEALTHY choice and i think she sould to.. but dont get in a fight.. because.. fights smell.. and you get in trouble alot and people after you.. its kind of funny.. lol
tell me how it goes
Ab. x3
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omg, this soo reminds me of all those days in health class when i occasionally listend :)
please, if you DONT want to, DONT! Weed is bad, and isnt it illegal.. if your friend was a TRUE friend she would respect your desciousn and not give up your friendship.. obviously your friendship with her doesnt mean as much if she will just ditch you for a descion.. do not fall under peer pressure, jsut becuase she wants you DOES NOT Mean you HAVE to so my advice would NOT to, but that is just me, it is totally up to you.. good luck in your desciousn
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well i think its your choice.. you do what you wanna, but your freind isnt gonna be the the one to regret the descion it will be all on you, maybe you'll like it...
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pier pressure is a very big problem among teens. Don't give in. Be your own self. Weed will only create bigger problems. If that person will end your friendship then that person isn't a true friend.
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