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my discharge is a light color its whiteish and its like sticky its not a whole lot and it doesnt smell.....so do i need to get it checked out or is it just left over from my period?.....my period was about 9 days ago (link)
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No, you do not need to get it checked. We all have discharge, which is totally normal and healthy (it cleans out the vagina), in which you'll have discharge anytime, including when you're off your period. However, if your discharge ever starts a fishy smell or turns to yellow or a faul color -- that is when you should get it checked.
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when a guy and a girl are having sex, and the guy "cums," does the girl feel it inside of her when it happens? can the guy feel it? and if they can, does it feel good? (link)
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Yes, they both feel it and I would assume that it would feel good, as sex does.
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well there's this guy who I posted about several times since last summer who I liked and I thought he liked me because he would always stare at me in the hallways and in class..but when I told him that I liked him, he told me that he had a g/f but he would continually stare at me. I decided to let him go because my feelings for him were in vain, I've liked other people after him but I still had feelings for him. so last night at prom, I noticed that him and his friends kept staring at me and whenever I would be dancing with a guy, he would stare at me, so I was finally dancing by myself and he kept coming closer to me then I felt him pull me by the waist and we started dancing. while we were dancing; he was holding me by my waist and clasped his hand into mine and he asked me to slow dance with him and while we were slow dancing, he kept rubbing my back and my arms. I was the only girl he danced with for the night because i was on the dance floor for the whole night and we were nearby each other. do u think he likes me? (link)
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It really sounds like he does like you, I think you should talk to him soon and let him know how you feel -- the relationship could work out. :)
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i feel so sad hearing sad songs want to die feel unwanted im 13 and im so lonely (link)
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I'm not sure that you have depression, as I am not a doctor. However, I can tell you that are depressed (difference from being depressed and having depression). My dear friend, you are just thirteen-years-old, you have the world ahead of you. Please do not feel as though you want to die, believe me, it is not the best option, or even a good one, at that.
I can't say I know what you're going through, however, I know that I have been through a lot and though I have been very depressed -- I do know that it's possible to come out of that and to live a happy, healthy life -- as I do right now.
I know sometimes we all feel unwanted, but believe me, I know that many people want you and for the ones who truly don't -- it is their loss completely and they aren't worth your time. So please, do not feel so sad, be happy and be with people you love and care about and who support you, and turn on the best, brightest, funest music you can find, girl. :)
And also, if you'd like to talk more, feel free to email me (it's on my advice column page).
Best wishes my dear friend, you can and WILL get through this -- you're strong enough, I know it.
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Hey :)
Okay so I love to give people advice, that is why I registered to be a advice columnist on here. I want to be an official advice columnist as a career when I grow up. You know, the kind where you are in the newspaper and people from all over the country ask you for advice. I really want to do this but how? What kind of degree do you need? Do they make good money? What is the average income a year? What type of environment would you work in? Most importantly, are there many jobs for this available in Florida? Please tell me everything you know about this job and how to get it. Thank you so much! :)
Baylee (link)
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Well, my advice would be to become a Psychologist. As they give advice to many people, and if you become famous, then you will have people all over the world wanting your advice. Here's some info on the job...
http://www.bls.gov/oco/ocos056.htm
And here is something else that may help you, as well.
http://www.ehow.com/how_4714118_become-advice-columnist-online.html
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There's a song that I saw on the music channels a while ago and I can't find out what it was.
It was a boyband (i'm guessing late 90s/possible early 00s)
The lyrics went something like,
"I don't give a damn, find another man."
And something about this girl crying. But it wasn;t a sympathetic song, it was like a boyfrined who couldnt stand this girl anymore, although it had a boybandy feel to it, if that makes sense, it was still a pop song not rock.
I've tried googling it and looking on youtube.
It's driving me crazy now so hope you can help :-)
Thank you x (link)
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Try "Last Goodbye" by Avenue -- it has those lyrics.
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I am having a sleepover with 1 of my friends and we don't know what we are going to do. So basically I need some 2 person games ideas for young teens. Anyone have any ideas? (link)
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*Watch funny videos on YouTube (i.e. Chris Crocker)
*Board Games
*Get a bunch of snacks set out
*Watch movies
*Play games on computer or game system
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my face is dry and when i put on moisterizer its not dry
but after a while my face gets oily or it get shiny so i but some pressed powder on my face and it gets dry again
-how can i make my skin normal without being dry and oily (link)
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Instead of applying pressed powder when your face becomes shiny, go to the store and pick up some oil-blotting sheets and keep them in your purse. Apply those as soon as you start to feel oily, and it works perfectly, shine-free.
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can you help me make a screen name?
my name is Sirena. (link)
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I think "Sirenia" is super cool. :)
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if someone were to have sex 1-2 days right before her period, is there a big or small chance she would have gotten pregnant? (link)
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This has the info you're looking for. :)
http://www.positive.org/JustSayYes/pregnancy.html
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will blubster put viruses on my computer? (link)
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No, the actual program itself will not. However, once you start downloading music and/or movies, it is definitely a possibility. Have a good virus scanner/protection, such as AVG, which is totally free and it works perfect (I use it).
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yo, how many girls in the 7th grade think shave there vaginas..like..do most do, or do most not (link)
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None.
That's such a young age to even be thinking about shaving there, unless it's only for "cleanliness" reasons, I don't think it's a good idea.
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what are you guys opinions on someone getting drunk to lose there virginity. because im thinking about doing that cause im scared its really going to hurt. and i dont want to have to deal with the pain. and by the way im 16 female. thankyou in advancee (link)
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It's not a good idea, my friend. If you are scared and/or worried, then that's a huge sign you are not ready to have sex. And that's perfectly okay, I'm the same age as you and I know I'm not ready. You really do have a lot of time to lose it, and believe me, it isn't something to rush and it should means something, and more importantly -- you should be ready and want to do it sober.
Please do not do it, my friend -- I'm sure you'll regret it.
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how can you get rid of your period a.s.a.p
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Unfortunately, you cannot.
However, just incase you may be talking about getting in a swimming pool -- you can always use a tampon.
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Im sure this is in the wrong category, but Im positive it dosnt fall into any other category. Well, summer 09 is finally here, & I want it to be the most amazing summer ever. I just finished freshmen year and im 15.
Im hooking up with a 16 year old that just finished his sophmore year. Just in case that would help a little. Ohh, and im a girl and live in miami. I know, what cant you do here. So anything I could do to make this summer AMAZING?! Thanks in advance(:
Ohh, and I wanna do things with my friends. (link)
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I'll just jot down some things I'm doing this summer, and hopefully, they will help you have the best summer yet!
*Hang out at your friend's house(s) and chill
*Go to the movies
*Go to lunch and out to eat in general with friends
*Dance in the rain and/or kiss in it
*Take a road trip
*Go shopping
*Go to the beach or go swimming in general
*Lay out
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Okay so I have a lot of guy friends and they all love talking to me. I have a crush on a few of them, and I'm pretty sure they like me at least a little bit. But there's always some girl who is hotter than me, or cooler than me that they like more. How can I make myself sexier? What do guys consider hot? (link)
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Many things, just like us girls. Here are a few though...
*Girls who take good care of themselves
*Girls who have confidence
*Girls who are good at flirting
*Girls who are nice to them, and to others (not snobby)
*Girls who can get down with the boys, meaning you're not always worried about breaking a nail, haha.
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I have a boyfriend, and we're both only 15, but he seriously wants to get married. The problem is, he's a deep dark kind of person (a "bad boy" if you will), and I'm more on the friendly happy side. Not to the extreme, but I don't beat up someone if they offend me like he does. Also, our beliefs clash really bad. He says he'll take on my beliefs for me, but thats probably a bad idea. I love him, but I don't have even similar goals for the future as he does, and I've told him that. He kind of blows it off and thinks I'll be the one who changes. What should I do? (link)
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I'm not against getting married at your age, so please do not take it that way, however, I can't say I recommend it because you just pointed out all the reasons.
You truly have nothing in common, you're very very different and your beliefs are not similar and it sounds like you would be making a big mistake if you were to get married.
I think you should think it over and maybe consider breaking up with him, or at least tell him you aren't going to get married, or anytime soon because it seems that you two would end up being in heartache if you were to get married. I think you might just be too good for him on this one, my friend.
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do teens do it will i be able to stop is this wrong (link)
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Do teens do it? Yes, they do. It's perfectly normal to do so, and is the safest type of sex there is.
Will I be able to stop? Yes, unless you get addicted (which is a one in a billion chance, so you will most likely not).
Is this wrong? No, it's perfectly normal and perfectly okay.
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This is really weird, but can the water pressure from the shower head damage the female organs? (link)
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No, it will not, however, it is bad for the "female organs" to have a lot of water, so be sure to keep it minimal.
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my boyfriend is over protective and jelous (link)
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Well, this isn't actually a question...however, I will still try to help you anyway. :)
Over-protective and jealous -- two very bad signs that you are going to have a very miserable relationship. Try talking to him and letting him know that you're glad he cares about you so much, however, it is bothering you how over-protective and jealous he really is.
Tell him he needs to stop being those things and you will have to end your relationship, otherwise, you will be miserable and unfortunately, it will only get worse.
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