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drunk wen i lose my virginity
what are you guys opinions on someone getting drunk to lose there virginity. because im thinking about doing that cause im scared its really going to hurt. and i dont want to have to deal with the pain. and by the way im 16 female. thankyou in advancee
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holy shit, its every sixteen year old boy's dream! don't do it. if you go fucking around when you're drunk, its not a good reputation. deal with it, you're going to be inexperienced, and not really inclined to using birth control. thats something you don't want to wake up to the next day, pregnant and not knowing who did it. go find a nice boy, and have sex with him while you're sober. deal with a little pain, or live on welfare with a kid you're not ready for and a rep as the school drunk slut. your choice, your life.
-gunner
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I did it. It was the worst mistake of my life. It still hurt and it hurt even more the next day when I woke up with a headache and the knowledge that I'd given away something sacred to me to a complete stranger. Your situation might be different, whatever, but I can promise you that when you're sober, and with someone you love it is much more meaningful and enjoyable.
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I think you're an idiot.
You're not old enough to drink, and you shouldn't be having sex. Alcohol & sex do not go together. How about if you pass out & someone rapes you without a condom & you end up pregnant?
It's going to hurt whether you're drunk or not. If you can't deal with the pain of losing your virginity, then stay a virgin forever because it's going to hurt no matter what.
Honestly though, don't have sex. You're going to make a bad decision that you're going to regret. Grow up.
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Some of my friends have tried this and it does not make the situation any better. You may not even remember it or it will hurt.
Honestly, sex should not hurt that bad. Just wait for it. I was 16 when i lost mine and I'm still in the relationship two years later. Sex is uncomfortable but if you are with that right guy, then they will do their best to make it comfortable for you. It did not hurt for me at all. Just open up and get into foreplay. Warm up and take your time. It's great :] The important thing is to relax and get into the moment. It only hurts if you are dry and tight(not relaxed/comfortable) That's it to it. You should try lube + lubricated condoms. It really does help!
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i dont mean to sound mean but that is a dumbass move because what if you end up messing with someone that you dont know and they have aids you have to think things through before you jump ahead of you self oh and go ask someone with some more exp. ;p
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A few things to think about:
First, it's quite possibly illegal for a male to have sex with you when your drunk. So I always advise men not to try any new sexual activity with a woman when she's even slightly under the influence of any intoxicant.
Second, if your doing it right, it won't hurt. Even if you rush it and don't give yourself enough time and foreplay, and he's huge, it won't hurt much. If it doesn't feel good, stop and go back to the foreplay for a while.
Third, masturbate so you know what feels good to you and what gets you turned on and "wet". Then you can tell your lover "wait, do this for a few minutes before entering me".
Forth, make sure your lover knows that your a virgin. If he's experienced, he'll know to be extra slow and loosen you up with his fingers before entering you. If he's not experienced, you can suggest it.
Seriously, you should not be drunk when trying anything new sexually with someone for the first time.
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It's not a good idea, my friend. If you are scared and/or worried, then that's a huge sign you are not ready to have sex. And that's perfectly okay, I'm the same age as you and I know I'm not ready. You really do have a lot of time to lose it, and believe me, it isn't something to rush and it should means something, and more importantly -- you should be ready and want to do it sober.
Please do not do it, my friend -- I'm sure you'll regret it.
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That's such a turn-off. Like seriously, I wouldn't even want to be around you for thinking of doing something like that.
If you're scared it's going to hurt, then here's something to think about: DON'T do it, and you won't have to experience that pain.
--Jack
(17/m)
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I think it's a very bad idea. Pretty immature, and not very responsible.
I think you should lose your virginity when you are in a committed relationship, are mature enough to deal with the consequences, smart enough to not ask silly questions like this, and when you are 100 percent sober.
That's my opinion. You probably don't like it, but as a society accepted opinion, no one is going to think this is a good idea.
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Honestly...I think it's disgusting and irresponsible. Not to sound harsh, and not to pass judgements, but WHY would you DO that?
Your first time is supposed to be special, not some drunken hook up. I think you should wait until you're ready, because you don't sound like you're ready. You're only 16, and you have plenty of time left!
I'm sure you're a young and responsible woman, so think this situation. Think about how much you'll come to regret it and how much you'll wish you'd waited until you had been with somebody you really wanted to be with. Think about how much you'll regret it (if you even remember it?!)
Like I said: think about it, and I'm sure you will make the right choice when the time comes.
-Laura (17-f)
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