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What is considered Hot?
Okay so I have a lot of guy friends and they all love talking to me. I have a crush on a few of them, and I'm pretty sure they like me at least a little bit. But there's always some girl who is hotter than me, or cooler than me that they like more. How can I make myself sexier? What do guys consider hot?
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This probably isn't what you want to hear. I can't tell you how to make yourself hotter or sexier but my question to you is why would you change yourself for someone else?? If a guy likes you then he should like you for who you are not for someone your not. Think about it.
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The best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =].
--Jack
(17/m)
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Confidence is hot. Don't doubt yourself. What is hot and sexy is totally up to the guy. But really, some guys think porn stars and celebs are sexy but they would not want their lover to look like that at all. Natural, confidence and a cute smile. It's different for every guy so if you are highly interested in one.. you need to start flirting :P
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You don't need to look sexier.
But if you feel you must spend a few extra minutes getting ready in the mirror.
But really.
Just smiling and acting confident makes you seem more appealing.
Just be happy and don't let that other girl get you down.
Hope this helps sweetie
Please rate :)
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I concur with laguna; highly aggressive girls are awesome too. but never discount looking drop dead gorgeous as an option. we dudes love shiny things, like magpies. so try going a little on the classy side with skirts and dresses. oh and by the way, sun dresses excite everybody, they're retro, and generally match long hair perfectly, though I have seen some girls with short hair that rock the hell out of a sun dress. depends on the girl. simple small woven straw purses and hair curlers are cheap, but awesome accessories for the sundress. I hope you're getting the message about sun dresses....... sandals and pedicures wont hurt either... I'm going to stop now.
-gunner
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Many things, just like us girls. Here are a few though...
*Girls who take good care of themselves
*Girls who have confidence
*Girls who are good at flirting
*Girls who are nice to them, and to others (not snobby)
*Girls who can get down with the boys, meaning you're not always worried about breaking a nail, haha.
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