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Q: What are hopeless romantics?
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hopless romantics is a person who is into candle lit dinners.and is all mushy-gushy about love and would never say a bad word about love.hope i helped,xxaoifexxx
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Q: Okay, so this boy.. he likes me. He used to go with one of my friends. Well, really we just got good friends.. but I didn't know they were going out untill like a week ago.. I really want to go out with him, yet again... I don't want to do that to a friend. But, we're not like best budz for life.. or anything, we're just like..friends. Soo..would I be wrong for going out with him... Should I just leave him alone,?..and go fetch some other fishes in the sea?
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i think you should just ask your friend would she mind if you go out with him?just to be on the safe side you dont want to have a fight with a friend over a boy.she might not mind you going out with him but if she does then dont go out with him because as you said yourself theres plenty other fish in the sea.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: 15/f. ok so i'm trying to stay healthy and i drink diet soda everyday so i want to stop doing that. i need something to drink besides that that is healthy. besides water (which i drink a lot of anyway) what other drinks can i drink? links will help too!
oh and is minute maid light lemonade good for me?
http://www.minutemaid.com/products/Low_Calorie_Beverages/LightLemonade.jsp
thanks!!
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crystal light could be good you can get it in different flavours aswell so that is good.maybe juices example:apple juice,orange juice,cranbarry juice.stuff like that.i used to drink alot of diet soda so i started drinking crystal light and apple juice.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: okay so your BEST FRIEND tells you that she does not want to be your friend anymore. how would you react? please help me. quickly if possible. thanks...
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try talking to your bestfriend and see if you did something wrong and if you did then say sorry but if you didnt do anything wrong then your bestfriend isnt worth the trouble of getting upset.if she was your truly best friend then she wouldnt just not want to be friends with you anymore.just try to talk to her and see if ye can work things out.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: lateley, (ever since spring break,2weeks ago) ive been feeling just really bad my stomch hrts all the time (and its not cramps and its not because of my period,im not on it, it just hurts)
and ive been really depressed and sad
and i only have 2 friends 1 who is really weird and i dont like that much,the other is my best friend
and im really shy/quiet and everyone hates me already because of 1 girl tells everyone bad things about me and makes them hate me just because she doesnt like me, and i have no friends in my home room class (ther are 4 homeroom classes) and i just feel like crap,and like no1 cares about me and my parents aren't making it any better.
and im fat and ugly.
what can i do to feel better?
thnx any advice is really apreciated(sry if it was 2 long : ()
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when you feel like crap your going to think your fat and ugly (i dont know what you look like but your proberly not).when you feel bad you think your fat and ugly everyone does.there might be mornings you look in the mirror and you hate what you see and you feel like going back to bed.(god i have had them mornings).
just dont mind that girl that makes everyone hate you.just be friendly and kind to everyone even if you dont like them and then people will realise that the girl that said stuff about you she was just lying.
dont go around with your head down and look really depressed because that will make the girl that hates you think she has hurt you inside and she will always make people hate you then.
to help you feel better go and get your hair done and your nails done.and go on a shopping spree.you will feel better about your self then.
just keep saying to yourself that your not fat and ugly and your really pretty no matter what anyone says.
i hope i helped.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: 15/f. i'm not even going to post my weight because i know its in the healthy BMI range and then you guys will just tell me that i don't need to lose weight. and i know i don't need to lose weight, that isn't my question. my quesiton is that even know i'm at a healthy weight range and i know that i'm pretty slim, i still have a little fat near my stomach especially around and below my belly button. and i'm so frustrated because i've been doing over 100 crunches a day, and i run on my treadmill a lot and its still there! for the most part i try to eat healthy, but i know i don't always eat healthy.
also how bad is diet soda for you? because i drink one almost everyday and i want to know how bad it is for me and if i should stop.
thanks!
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i have the same thing i get so frustrated about it.i think the best thing to do is to cut back on the diet soda.i drink it alot too and my mom says thats prob why i have some fat below my belly button.but it might be just in your family.my sister has one too.running on the threadmill is good but your proberly wondering why the fat isnt going.well,running on the thread mill and doing crunches will make it go very flappy and when that happens start drinking lots of water and try to eat healthy (i know its hard)and keep doing the exercising you have been doing.that might help.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: in our schooll, its like french-kissing, but other places i think it means sex? or does it.....
thanks in advvv.
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usually in high schools its french-kissing but in collage hooking up is like having casual sex.i have wondered about what you call stuff too.
i hope i helped,xxaoifexxx
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Q: i have my boy friends myspace password. i accidently signed on his and saw that he had a new message. i read it. it was him and this girl have cyber sex. i know i shouldnt have been reading his messages because that is personal. but do i have a right to be mad at him? and what should i so about it?
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to me that is cheating on you.you have a right to be mad and you should confront him about it.if he asks you why on earth were you looking in my messages then just say because you love him or like him and its kinda hard when you know his password.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: over spring break i hooked up with this guy. i know him and everything but i am curious. ok like we started makin out, then it lead to hand job and fingering. then like he cam. then like we started to have sex AFTER he cam. there was still some on his dick and all tho, is that normal or is there any chance i might get pregnant from that?? i mean i know i shouldnt worry about it until my period comes around, but i cant stop thinkin about it!
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yes you could get pregnant from that.if the sperm goes near the vagina theres a chance you can get pregnant.my advice would be to get tested.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: me and my old boyfriend broke up a long time ago. i kinda miss him but im afraid that when we start going out again that he will lie to me all the time ( thats why i broke up with him). what do i do?
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of course your going to miss your old boyfriend its hard breaking up with someone.its like you know inside that you wont be able to 100% forgive him for all the lies he has told you in the past.but you still feel like you should give him another go.i think you shouldnt give him another go because if he has lied to you in the past then theres a good chance he will lie to you again.stay strong and find a guy that wont lie to you.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: 14/f
Okey Same thing with almost every friend=/
okey.....
so last weekend my and my friend was suppost to go the this little teen club.
& thew my mom got sick.
& the thing was on a thursday/ no school friday)
anyways i askd my mom if i could go & she said NO!
& i told my friend i couldnt & she was like Oh well ya i gotta go. & hung up. see this happends with almost everyfriend of my that are gurls.
if i cant do somethings its like thay get mad & lie & say thay gotta go or just say ima let you go. i mean i nkow what your most of you will say its not my say if i can go somewhere its my moms
& i mean its no just that most of my friends dont all the much hang out with me.
am i not a good friend.
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to be honest its sounds to me that your friends arent truly your friends.its not your fault your mom said no and your friends should know that.and they shouldnt get mad at you over it.you are a good friend but your friends dont seem to be that good of friends to you.
i hope i helped you,xxaoifexxx
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Q: OK so I've been dating this guy for a year and I'm totally crazy about him but I'm his first girlfriend and I've dated 2 guys in the past. One of them I dated on and off for almost 2 1/2 years and we are still really good friends. I've only kissed my bf, not like madeout or ne thing but my old b/f and me made out a bunch of times. My best friend thinks I am being dishonest by not telling my new bf about what me and my x have done but he's never asked and it's never been a problem so I don't see why he needs know. Question: am I being dishonest and does my new bf have the right to know or should I leave it because it's in the past?
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dont worry about being dishonest your not its your past and it was making out not like something major.if your b/f brings it up then tell him everything.but if he doesnt bring it up then leave it.he proberly wont mind well he has no reason to mind really.hope i helped,xxaoifexxx
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Q: I had sex for the first time 2 nights ago. i wasnt in pain that night, but i was the morning after. im okay today, but i was wondering if there was a certain amount of days you should wait before doing it again?
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i think the best thing to do is to wait until you have no more pain or discomfort.xxaoifexxx
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Q: so.. basically.
im 13. turning 14. and i have been thinking alot about sex, but i dont want to yet.
and i tend to like guys alot older then me.
so.. [3] queations.
1) How old were you?
2) Do you regret it?
3) Did it hurt?
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im 13 too and i think about sex alot.but its just our hormones and we are growing up.some people says that maybe if you masterbate it might help but personally im not gone on the idea.but its surpose to help.oh ya ive liked guys older than me too but my older sister adviced me not to go out with anyone alot older than me even if they ask you out and seem really nice.but maybe guys about a year to two years older maybe.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: is it impossible to make out if both people have braces?
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no its not impossible but just watch ye dont get them stuck together that would be so embarrasing and it could be sore but it might not be.i hope ye dont get them stuck.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: There is something wrong with me! Everytime i start liking aguy i change myself (sometimes for the good and sometimes for the bad). It's not just my peronallity it's also my intresets! I just want them to like me back! I am so affraid to show "real me", i'm afraid they will never like it!! And I have gotten to the point i don't know who the "real me" is anymore! I have just copied all the guys i have been intrested in and that's it...am i a hoplesscase or is there any light at the end of my tunnel? Please help me!
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i was the same way when this boy asked me out (my b/f now)he knew me as the real me but then when we started going out i just changed completely.one night my b/f just said to me why am i so different?why have i changed sence we started going out?well,i just said i thought he wouldnt like me if i didnt change and he just said why did i think he asked me out then?he liked me for the real me not for the false me.i know it feels hard to go back to the real you but its who you are and inside you know who you really are.if guys dont like you for who you are then their not worth the trouble of changes just to please them.i hope you realise you are liked by guys for the real you not the you you try to be.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: ~13/f~ im the kind of gothic rough girl and hes the kind of preppy nice guy.Im not sure how I like my friend bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then it started going to bffs. because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much. people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and him. we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and when we separated he was looking for me and worried? hes just really to nice. Is that what it should be like. But now hes been wearin a lot of black and deppressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. And my other bff and her bf broke up that night so I went with her. So he knew so he went to get him(the guy she broke up with). Then we went around me my bff(my ?bff or bf? As in him) and my other bff (she just broke up). he was talking to her about something ‘top secret’. later on she started truth or dare. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be…us kissing. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss like making out or something. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think and write about.
i really need help soon. we tell each other a lot of stuff and we both knew or thought before the party that we liked each other. my life is very messed up i hate it hes all i really had.
Do I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How do you think he likes me? What should we do? How do you kiss? How could i tell my mom?
this happened on friday and we still havent talked were bffs. what should i do?
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ye sound like really close friends but i defintaly think theres more to ye than just best friends.you say that he likes you too so why dont you ask him straight out could ye be more than best friends and if he looks confused then dont think he doesnt want there to be just say like could we be boyfriend and girlfriend.the reason i said is if he looks confused is because boys dont always know what you mean when you say them sort of things.
well to the kiss thing i havent kissed anyone yet but im going out with a boy called stephen and i think i will have kissed soon.my friends have and they just tell me to just tilt my head and lean in and close my eyes (if you want to close your eyes you dont have to)and most of all not to be nervous because if you are it will ruin the kiss and you want to enjoy the kiss not to be worrying about it.and you shouldnt just kiss someone because you feel you have too make sure your 100%ready.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: hey;
ok so, next saturday is my sister's wedding. it is going to be in the backyard of my house [huge] which is a couple of acres. so on all the invatations, they specifically put NO CHiLDREN PLEASE. however, since i`m her sister [i`m 13] i can obviously go. now, i`m thinking it may be a bit boring, so i want to bring my friend gabie. she`s my age. however, her parents can`t come bcuz they have nothing to do with my family & my parents just want close friends and relatives. they are allowing me to have gabie since i might get bored or something' WHAT SHOULD i DO?????
please help me! what should i do?
THANK YOU SO MUCH iN ADVANCE; HELP ME PLEASE.
i`m a raterr.
HELp!
thanks
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well first of all you have to make sure it is ok with your sister because it is her wedding.
just ask your sister nicely.
xxaoifexxx
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Q: i need help! i don't know if im wrong ...ok so i have a boyfrien , and he's nice and everything , but today we went on an argument about him not oppening the car door for me ...am i wrong for wanting him to do it?? even though he's nice and open places doors for me etc??..i told him i'd like that ..and he said :S its not like im going to be your slave or anything! can't you open it yourself??? ...and i was like ..i can obviously , but i would appreciate if you'll do it ....he sad your spoiled! its like i have feelings too! and im a person too why do i have to be all day after you doing evrything for you opening doors for you and for me who will do it? nobody does it for me , why do you have to be better than me ? we are both equal! ... then it turn into a big fight but am i wrong :S??????
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your not totally wrong you want your boyfriend to spoil you and for him to be your perfect prince but on the other hand try to be in your boyfriends persission you want him to do everything for you thats the way boys minds think if you start asking them to open the car door.
you need to talk to your boyfriend and see what he feels like when you start asking him things like that.your boyfriend is surppose to do stuff for you and proberly does but the door thing proberly went to far for him.
i hope everything works out,xxaoifexxx
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Q: ok. so like i was listening to my ipod. and then it jsut shut off. and wouldnt turn on or anything. and the batterie didnt die because i had just finished charging it. and then i tried plugging it into itunes and everything but it wouldnt connect. like i had it in my computer but my ipod wasnt connected and it wouldnt even say charging. liek the screen is black. its not even turning on. i have the red ipod nano. whats wrong? what do i do?
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if the battery didnt go dead you should bring it in to the shop.
but first try restarting it and press the circle button down until it starts up again.
i hope it works again,xxaoifexxx
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hi!im a 13 year old girl.i have brown hair and i am tall.
i am from ireland.
i love music and boys!
i play basketball and football.
i have two sisters one younger and one older.
my boyfriend dara is the sweetest thing.my ex-b/f rang me loads of times saying my b/f is cheating on me and he wants to go out with me.i asked my b/f and he said he would never do anything to mess things up between us and im like soo sexy so why would he cheat on me.im totally falling for him.
my friends tells me that i give great advice so if you need some i would be happy to give some.
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Website: Gender: Female Location: ireland Occupation: student Age: 13 MSN: hotmail Member Since: April 6, 2007 Answers: 56 Last Update: May 11, 2007 Visitors: 3333
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