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HOW SHOULD I TELL HER? PLEASE HELP ME!
hey;
ok so, next saturday is my sister's wedding. it is going to be in the backyard of my house [huge] which is a couple of acres. so on all the invatations, they specifically put NO CHiLDREN PLEASE. however, since i`m her sister [i`m 13] i can obviously go. now, i`m thinking it may be a bit boring, so i want to bring my friend gabie. she`s my age. however, her parents can`t come bcuz they have nothing to do with my family & my parents just want close friends and relatives. they are allowing me to have gabie since i might get bored or something' WHAT SHOULD i DO?????
please help me! what should i do?
THANK YOU SO MUCH iN ADVANCE; HELP ME PLEASE.
i`m a raterr.
HELp!
thanks<3
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Try saying something like "Hey Gabie, my sister's wedding is this Saturday and I'd really like it if you could come so I'd have someone to hang out with. Is it OK if your parents don't come, though, my parents don't really know them that well and they just want it to be relatives and a couple close friends, so it'd be kind of awkward." Hope it helps!
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You could say something like" I would really like you to come to the wedding Gabie, it would be fun, I want your parents to come to but, my family doesn't really know your parents so would it be ok if you just came to the wedding, and not your parents.
-Hopefully she will get the hint.
Or you could say " Gabie can you come to my sister's wedding, but just you not your parents because we already planned how much food that we are making and there isn't enough, sorry"
-It may sound a little lame but it makes sense
Or you could be totally truthful and just say " Hey Gabie can you come to my sister's wedding, i can't have your parents though becuase they aren't really friends with my family, and we are basically just having a family and close friends wedding"
Hope that I helped :)
Nicole x0x
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i think you should really tell her but in a nice way, say something like you can come and i really wan tyou to but we dont really know your parents very well, and it might be awkward. i know i would be ok with it. most people dont even like there parents to be there. but thats not the point. you really should just let her know, and her parents probably wont care very much. I have a new years party every year and my best friends mom hate my dad, but sometimes it just comes like 'oi dont know them well enough, i might not feel welocme' but who knows. this might not be good advice, im kinda distracted today. sry. but i try : ] hope i helped
Lauren
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well congrats to your sister. But yea i went to my cousins wedding and it wasn't bad. I honestly don't know what your question is...i mean sorry but i'm 13 also and you shouldn't be THAT bored at your SISTER's wedding. You should be happy that you can have your friend with you. so uhm?
i don't think i helped that much. but i tried.
and ya those girls are tryin to help, you shouldn't have given them a 1.
-stephanie
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well first of all you have to make sure it is ok with your sister because it is her wedding.
just ask your sister nicely.
xxaoifexxx
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well wait before you rate this, is this okay with your sister?
~Okay so well then if shes okay with it then i say its alright, but just dont be obnoxious, remember its her day, not yours. Make sure that you and your friend are very poilte to the bride and the groom. If you and your friend act respectivly, then im sure it will be okay and try to stay out of your sisters way, dont be all up in her face too much.
just tell your friend that your just inviting her to go over. tat was a realy unfair rating
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