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cheating, i guess
i have my boy friends myspace password. i accidently signed on his and saw that he had a new message. i read it. it was him and this girl have cyber sex. i know i shouldnt have been reading his messages because that is personal. but do i have a right to be mad at him? and what should i so about it?
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No. Not really.
You should do nothing.
He broke your trust and you did the same to him. The only difference is, you know that he broke your trust.
See, this is how it is- though he is doing wrong by you on the internet, you had no business using his password and reading his messages.
Sorry, dear, but you invaded his privacy. If you wouldn't have fallen under temptation, you wouldn't have know about it.
I'm not saying he isn't doing wrong, but I am saying you did wrong as well.
I would strongly advise you never do this again.
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yea u should be mad he has no right to do that you guys have a relationship he should not do you lke that
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to me that is cheating on you.you have a right to be mad and you should confront him about it.if he asks you why on earth were you looking in my messages then just say because you love him or like him and its kinda hard when you know his password.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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I know how hard it is NOT to use your b/f's password for myspace when you have it. Curiosity usually wins so you're normal...we've all done it. While it's true, you shouldn't have been reading his messages, something in your mind told you that you couldn't trust him and that's why you looked... and you had good reason to, but yes you have every right to be mad at him! Cyber-Sex is just disgusting first of all, that's how petofiles *Spelling?* are made! Second... hes YOUR boyfriend. Not that other girls... she doesn't get the privlage of having his sexual attention. PERIOD. it's yours. I would confront him about it, who cares if you were in the wrong for looking at his myspace? he's only going to get pissed because of what you found not because you snooped. Hope I helped!
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well you really should be mad and you should really confront him about him and if he says why were you in his buisness tell him because you love him or like him and you care about your realtionship!!!
*~hope i helped~*
SARAH
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that is cheating u should be mad becuase before cyber sexthey had to talk and all that stuff even though its private it dont matter i think u should ask him about her and if he lies then be mad at him
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I know it would seem right to attack him for "cheating" on you (I guess that's what you'd call it), but its probably best to not call him out on it. Yes- it was VERY wrong for him to do this, but it also is wrong for you to snoop (I don't know if this is the right word choice) around on his myspace.
What you should do is just ask him if he's done anything he regrets- like if he's cheating on you or not. If he doesn't come clean, just sort of mention his messages with this girl. Ask him why- but don't get too mad (although this will be hard to do, since its probably VERY angering to you). If you don't want to deal with it anymore, after you've talked about it with him, you don't have you. Just break up with him. He cheated (again, word choice isn't the greatest) on you, and you don't deserve that.
Hope I helped!
--Jack
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