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I like this guy and hes really cute.He goes to my school but is a grade lower than me. We tried to go out once before but we never really did. How do i know he likes me or some tips to get him to like me. I know i shouldnt care what he thinks but I feel like i wasnt that important s.
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you'll know that he likes you if he sweats around you or acts nervously. and if he blushes whenever you two talk. probably even stuttering. and don't take this the wrong way but you know that you can't make a person like you. relationships take time to grow and develop. so give it some time and don't rush into it. tell me if he stutters or blush or any of that=].
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Err..okay. So, lately i've been sweating alot from my armpits and it's annoying and pretty nasty to me. I want to know how to..stop it? And if by any chance anybody know a good way to clean sweat stains from a shirt..? (link)
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well for girls you can use secret gel any scent. the gel is clear and it'll help the sweating to stop. for guys,you can use axe spray. if you use eitherv one of them, no sweat will show and it'll make you sweat less.hoped I helped.
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ok i probably already asked this question but i miss him badly and i try really hard to just get over him and its officially been a year since we broke up its just we went out for a year and a half on and off and he was always there for me in a time of need and i just miss talking to him.
i dont want him to like go out with me or anything i just miss us talking. he said he wanted to stay in touch and i was suprised but dont all guys say that to make it seem better and their the good guy but there not. i just dont know what to do.... CAN ANYONE HELP ME????!!!!! (link)
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well is there any way you could try calling him or writing him letters?if there is,then do it. and you miss him so much because you guys were together for a long time and been through so much together and sometimes you just can't help but reminisce about the times you've spent together. and the reminiscing makes you miss him. the more you think about the times you spent together,the more you miss him. so try calling him or writing letters and I bet that he'll be happy to hear from you.
-hoped I helped:)
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My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. At first, everything was great. We were really happy and we never fought or argued at all. For the past 3 months it seems like all we do is fight and argue. He's changed a lot. He's 19 with no job, no license, nothing. When we first starting dating, he had a job and seemed to be doing well. Now, it seems like he's letting his life go downhill. He has recently become friends with two people that did me and him both wrong in the past. Ever since he's starting hanging out with them again, he's been a real jerk. I tried talking to him about everything, but it always seems to go in one ear and out the other. It seems like he doesn't care about my feelings or me in general anymore. Well, my question is, what can I do to make him actually listen to my advice. I want him to be happy, but our relationship is really starting to suffer because of choices he's making. I love him and I don't want to lose him. Any advice on how I can get through to him? (link)
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well try talking to him and if he doesn't listen to whatever you have to say then I guess the best thing to do is end your relationship.I mean he's hanging around bad influences which affects your relationship with him. and if he doesn't listen then why bother hanging onto a guy who doesn't even show that he love or care about you.every girl deserves to be treated right and if you don't break up with him now then he's gonna leaving you. and if keep staying with him,you're just only hurting yourself more because you're with a guy who doesn't even treat you right or tells you that he loves and care about you. so your choices are:
stay with him and end up getting hurt more? or end the relationship with him before he leaves you? which one is it.
-hoped I helped and tell me how it went=] good luck !
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what are things guys look for in a girl they want a real relationship with? what do they look for when they want someone to be with for a long time? and what keeps them interested and wanting you? thanks!! :) (link)
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well it depends on the personality of the guy.I'm telling you now that all and I mean all guys want in a girl is to have sex with them sooner or later.but guys they want a girl who looks good and has a sexy body and eveything they look for in a girl.plus to make them stay longer with you in a relationship and you love them so much then you gotta do whatever it takes to make him happy and whatever that pleases him.like I said,it depends on the personality of the guy you like .hoped I helped=].
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ive heard about this but i dont know if its any good.. whatcha think??
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=4053425 (link)
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well my aunt is a professional hair stylist and she said any product or hair accesories or materials by conair works really good so yeah I suggest the infiniti conair works.hoped I helped:]. tell me how your hair turned out.
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In exactly one week, I will be going back to school. I want to go back exuding confidence. Right now I am very confident, however, a little more confidence never hurt anyone :D. So basically, I'm wondering if anyone has any tips on how to be more confident. Thank you! (link)
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okay to be even more confident than you are now,you could try to be optimistic about everything you do.stay positive through all those years of school and never think about the negativities. and when you have tests,just say to yourself ,"I can do this.I can pass this test." that's what I always do. so think positively through all the years of school or whatever you do.I hoped I helped and remember:stay POSITIVE & be OPTIMISTIC! :]!
xoxoxo-believe in yourself:)
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What is Miley Cyrus's (of Hannah Montana on Disney) real name? I heard she was given a different name when she was born. If so, when did she have her birth name officially/legally changed?
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her birth name is miley destiny hope Cyrus and if you wanna know why they name her that is because her parents believe that she would acheive many great things.
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hey, well im in 8th grade and i started dating this girl in 7th grade and weve been goin out for about 6 months. shes an awesome girl...but shes bigger than me, stronger than me, and can end my ENTIRE reputation of a nice guy. all of her friends are my friends and they are awesome too. but lately ive been feeling that i dont like her as much as i used to...and ive started likeing this other girl. but i dont wanna cheat on my current girl friend. theres nothing rong with my current girlfriend, but i jus dont wanna go out with her any more. we had a conversation awhile ago about how we wont be able to go out forever, but i think shes not ready to break up. but i am. and i would hate to make her mad...also she can ruin me at school. so my question is how to i break up with her without making her outraged and make her go off tellin things about me. any info would be awesome, im jus in a hard spot. thanks (link)
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wow! that is a tough situation that you're in. well I think you should tell your current gilfriend how you feel.like tell her u lost feelings for her and that you don't feel like being in a relationship right now.it would be better if you told her yourself rather than let her find out by other people.and if u keep going out with her, it would hurt her even more because you're with a girl you don't like and you're lying to yourself about who you really like.you're not only hurting her but you're also hurting yourself. so tell her how you feel and maybe she'll understand. tell her "I'm sorry but I don't think I wanna be in a relationship right now. and that I don't have the feelings I had for you before so I hope you understand." say something like that and tell me how it goes.
xoxoxo-I hoped I helped.
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Hey im 19 years old and i want to lose my belly fat and i know that running will help me lose my belly but im skinny from my legs so i dont wanna lose from my legs and i think that if i start runnin that my legs will get thinner and i dont want that, does anyone have any idea what i could do?
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well I was once told that jumping rope makes you lose carbs and get your belly skinny and sit ups too. so give it a try for a few weeks and I hoped it helped.I'm doing that right now.I wanna try to lose my belly fat.I hope sit ups and jump rope helps.try it though.
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ok i asked him what he was so curious about and he said cuz i was his first n he had never been with no other female but he asked me to marry him last nite wen we went out to dinner with mine n his family n i accepted... does that mean he truly loves me? (link)
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awww.if the guy ask you to marry him,he definitely loves you.and both family going to dinner,then yeah he does loves you. but tell him to have sex with no other girl but you. congratulations on your engagement=] .
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Im 17 and Ive been with my boyfriend now for about a year. He's a really nice guy and he lost his virginity to me, but he cheated on me 2months ago...he slept with his ex!! he said it was because he was curious and it was a stupid mistake and that he loves me so much and im the only one for him. He swears he would never do it again, Should i believe him?? or leave him??? (link)
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okay if he said you're the only one for him, why he slept with his ex for? and what is he curious about? his ex girlfriend or something. well is he curious about still having feelings for ex by having sex with her? to be honest, whatever guys say to girls they don't really mean it cuz they just saying stuff you wanna hear. but you gotta ask him what is there to be curious about?and tell me how it went.:).
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well im new at my school and thanks to my friend (at another school) i started talking to this girl whos cool and popular and stuff. now i have the chance to be friends with her and be cool and popular but i dont want to do bad stuff. like she and i were talking about parties and how shes going partying this weekend and how some of her friends do drugs and how everyone at the parties drink and stuff. now i want to be cool and popular and be friends with these people but is that possible to do without partying, doing drugs, and drinking? or will they think im a loser if i dont do these things. i want to be friends with everyone and be nice and just not do the bad stuff but is that like a requirement lol and i wont do them even if it means not being "cool" cause that stuff isnt cool to me so please dont lecture...i just need some advice. i want to be friends with her and her friends and i want to be considered cool and popular (in the good way) so should i hang with these people and talk to them and stuff and just not go to the parties or drink and stuff? thanks so much :):) (link)
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well since you got a chance at being popular with people who does drugs,I don't think you should be chillin with them because you might not know if they're gonna pressure you to do drugs with them. or sometimes popular people are only friends with other people just to use them. that's how popular people are. they act fake but it depends on the personality of them whether they're cool,good,nice popular people or the opposite. so would you be friends with popular people who does drugs?think about it. plus even if they think you're a loser cuz you won't do drugs with them, you know that you did the right thing by walking away.is being popular worth giving up your life by doing drugs?think about it .
xoxoxo I hoped I helped.
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so im a new student and it really sucks.
people here dont eat lunch. there are four groups of people and one of the groups are really stand-offish i tried talking to them, most are nice but it seems liek they dont want me in their group, they're also connected to the second group, and they're standoffish too. i have to ask people if i can sit with them for lunch, and they say okay, hesitantly. i cried today during lunch in the bathroom, i cried myeslf to sleep last night. everything here sucks and i hate it. i need help, what to do? i seriosuly count the hours till i go home. what should i do? do you think its because its only the second day and im a new kid?! PLEASE HELP ME. i cry all the time thinkin gabout thi.s (link)
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okay I'm going to high school soon and I really don't know nobody so I don't really care.but it's your second day . so don't expect it to be what u wanted. since you're new, it takes time for people to fit it. like people say it takes time for a friendship to grow. it'll get better don't worry. I bet you'll have lots of friends soon=].
xoxoxo-I hoped I help.
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so i dont do the same thing (link)
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then I told you already. I told you the crimes and I told you how long. and I hoped I helped.
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i want to know because my cousin is going to be on house arrest and i want to know all of this ... (link)
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oh I see. but why do you wanna know how to get on house arrest? eventhought it's your cousin
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what crimes do you have to commit to have to be on house arrest? how long are you on house arrest for? can you go to school when on house arrest? anything else you know about house arrest please tell me. (link)
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well the quesion is:why do wanna know all these stuff about house arrest ? I mean it isn't a good thing. my god brother was on house arrest for more than 6 months. but to be on house arrest, there are many types of crime to commit like stealing a car or having a possesion of a gun like my brother did. but you have to be caught with having a gun and like almost shooting the person. sometimes even being out late passed your curfew can cause you to be on house arrest. but why do wanna know all this? I'm telling you now that it isn't a good thing because sometimes it can cause you to go to jail or be sent away for two years like my brother. so I hope I helped:).
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Okay... Iv'e been in a relationship now for almost a year, and i love my boyfriend so much, but i have a problem. everytime i ask him about marriage he laughs at me... he says he wants to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me, so why does he laugh about that??? (link)
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well maybe he's nervous about the marriage. you know guys have a funny way of showing how they react to something that is as big as marriage. but I'm sure he does love you but marriage is a big thing. give him time to think about it. and you should too. if you rush into the engagement or wedding then you'll regret it. but just give yourself and your boyfriend some time to think. just ask yourself "am I ready to get married and start a family?" .or do whatever you wanna do. good luck and I hoped I help=]
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I was just wondering if anyone knows a way i can make some money. I'm 15 years and it seems like no one wants to hire me. I'd really appreciate some suggestions. THANKS!! (link)
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well since your 15,I guess the best job for you is baby sitting or doing chores around the house or maybe even helping your neighbors with their chores like mowing the lawn for them. good luck with that and I hope I helped=].
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So I recently got my first boyfriend. He's a great guy in every way, he really enjoys spending time with me and is being very sensitive to what I'm comfortable with since this is my first relationship. The thing is, I just can't understand why he likes me...whatever he sees in me, I definitely don't see it. I'm very good in school, but other than that, I'm just average looking, I'm way shorter than he is, I'm usually very quiet, I tend to be awkward socially and physically, I'm pretty un-exciting (don't like risk-taking), and I'm not exactly a great conversationalist. So, I'm always kind of second-guessing things, and I feel much more insecure than I probably should. I actually kind of asked once why he likes me, and his response was that I'm everything he's looking for in a relationship now - why wouldn't he like me? Somehow, his answer didn't really help. Any advice on how I can relax more, go with the flow, enjoy my amazing first boyfriend and truly accept that he likes me? (link)
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well if his answer is "you're eveything I'm looking for in a relationship" then that means he doesn't really know what he likes about you. ask him what he's looking in a relationship and what type of girl he's interested in. if his answer is "well I'm looking for someone like you",then that means he doesn't know you. and if he does say that,take your relationship one step at a time.get to know each other more. good luck and tell me how it goes. aim me on ll miss sweet ll.
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